# Songs about getting older?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [September 7, 2007, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359 "2007-09-07T14:58:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/41 "2007-09-07T18:06:06Z")

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What about “Sunrise, Sunset” from _Fiddler on the Roof_? (Depending on how old your friend is)

Bruce Springsteen – Glory Days

Steely Dan – Reelin’ in the Years

I dunno about Harry Chapin’s Taxi, as someone suggested above. If your friend is not happy about the way his/her life is turning out, it may be depressing. Or inspiration to change.

Same thing with George Harrison’s All Things Must Pass.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/42 "2007-09-07T18:14:46Z")

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[QUOTE=Thudlow Boink]  
How old is this friend going to be, by the way?  
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He’s going to be 29. He seems to think that’s inexplicably old and that a big chapter of his life is over. I kind of want to rub it in, given that almost all of his friends are older than that. I expect it to be received in good humor.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/43 "2007-09-07T18:17:18Z")

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**Sugar Mountain** by **Neil Young** - All about reaching the ripe old age of 20

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/44 "2007-09-07T18:23:43Z")

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Another one from Rush: “Losing It”

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/45 "2007-09-07T18:33:44Z")

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Grateful Dead’s [“A Touch of Grey.”](http://www.lyricsfreak.com/g/grateful+dead/touch+of+grey_20062412.html)

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/46 "2007-09-07T18:34:15Z")

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[Old Man](http://www.lyricsdownload.com/neil-young-old-man-lyrics.html) by Neil Young

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/47 "2007-09-07T18:35:20Z")

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[100 years](http://youtube.com/watch?v=fzOe2SrtLwM) by Five For Fighting.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/48 "2007-09-07T18:42:01Z")

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[QUOTE=Staggerlee]  
I love that song. Especially the way the strings just get more and more melodramatic as it goes on, and his talk of riding in limousines with blue-blooded girls of independent means.  
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Yes, it’s evocative, isn’t it? I could never understand what people meant when they described Sinatra as a great _interpreter_ of songs until I really listed to that one.

Then, it could just be because I’m getting older.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/49 "2007-09-07T18:49:45Z")

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**End Of The Line** , by The Traveling Wilburys

\*Well it’s all right, even if you’re old and gray,  
Well it’s all right, you still got something to say  
Well it’s all right, remember to live and let live  
Well it’s all right, the best you can do is forgive

Well it’s all right, riding around in the breeze  
Well it’s all right, if you live the life you please  
Well it’s all right, even if the sun don’t shine  
Well it’s all right, we’re going to the end of the line  
\*

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/50 "2007-09-07T18:56:28Z")

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[QUOTE=Chefguy]  
**End Of The Line** , by The Traveling Wilburys

\*Well it’s all right, even if you’re old and gray,  
Well it’s all right, you still got something to say  
Well it’s all right, remember to live and let live  
Well it’s all right, the best you can do is forgive

Well it’s all right, riding around in the breeze  
Well it’s all right, if you live the life you please  
Well it’s all right, even if the sun don’t shine  
Well it’s all right, we’re going to the end of the line  
\*  
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D’oh! How could I forget that one? :smack:

Touching video for that song, with the rocking chair and Roy’s picture and all.

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**Author:** ![Chez\_Guevara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Chez\_Guevara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chez_Guevara)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/51 "2007-09-07T19:21:52Z")

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[QUOTE=Alma]  
I don’t know if I should open or close the disc with “Older” by They Might Be Giants. It might be too flippant.  
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Not quite as flippant as _Don’t Fear The Reaper_.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/52 "2007-09-07T19:34:45Z")

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Rock and Roll Never Forgets - Bob Seger  
So you’re a little bit older and a lot less bolder  
Than you used to be  
So you used to shake ‘em down  
But now you stop and think about your dignity  
So now sweet sixteens turned thirty-one  
You get to feelin’ weary when the work days done  
Well all you got to do is get up and into your kicks  
If you’re in a fix  
Come back baby  
Rock and roll never forgets

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/53 "2007-09-07T19:45:04Z")

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“Doin’ the Math” by Loudon Wainwright III - from _Strange Weirdos: Music from and Inspired by the Film Knocked Up_, excellent album by the way.

a monkey, a dog, a horse, a giraffe  
they’re all gonna die  
but they can’t do the math  
doin the math is kind of a bummer  
you best avoid crunchin the numbers

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/54 "2007-09-07T19:45:27Z")

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[QUOTE=Chez Guevara]  
Not quite as flippant as _Don’t Fear The Reaper_.  
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I am so gonna do that, thanks!

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/55 "2007-09-07T19:49:34Z")

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Keane. ‘‘Somewhere Only We Know.’’

[Listen and Weep.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmXY2MSrguE)  
\*Oh, simple thing  
Where have you gone?  
I’m getting old and I need something to rely on  
So tell me when  
You’re gonna let me in  
I’m getting tired, and I need somewhere to begin

And if you have a minute,  
Why don’t we go  
Talk about it,  
Somewhere only we know…\*

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 8:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/56 "2007-09-07T20:00:31Z")

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_The Obvious Child_ by **Paul Simon** fits.

Sample Lyric:  
“Sonnys yearbook from high school  
Is down from the shelf  
And he idly thumbs through the pages  
Some have died  
Some have fled from themselves  
Or struggled from here to get there  
Sonny wanders beyond his interior walls  
Runs his hand through his thinning brown hair”

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/57 "2007-09-07T20:40:39Z")

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Mary Hopkins’ **“Those Were The Days”** for an upbeat song about aging

\*Through the door, there came familiar laughter  
I saw your face and heard you call my name  
Oh, my friend, we’re older but no wiser  
For in our hearts, the dreams are still the same

Those were the days, my friend!  
We thought they’d never end  
We’d sing and dance forever and a day  
We’d live the life we’d choose  
We’d fight and never lose  
Those were the days, oh yes, those were the days!\*

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/58 "2007-09-07T20:48:49Z")

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Two pages before a mention of “Still Crazy After All These Years”?

But I woud not be convicted by a jury of my peers.  
Still crazy after all these years.

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**Bookends** , Simon and Garfunkel

\*Old friends  
Old friends  
Sat on their park bench  
Like bookends  
A newspaper blown through the grass  
Falls on the round toes  
Of the high shoes  
Of the old friends

Old friends  
Winter companions  
The old men  
Lost in their overcoats  
Waiting for the sunset  
The sounds of the city  
Sifting through the trees  
Settle like dust  
On the shoulders  
Of the old friends

Can you imagine us years from today  
Sharing a park bench quietly?  
How terribly strange to be seventy

Old friends  
Memory brushes the same years  
Silently sharing the same fear…

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Bookends Theme  
P. Simon, 1968  
Time it was, and what a time it was, it was  
A time of innocence, a time of confidences  
Long ago, it must be, I have a photograph  
Preserve your memories; They’re all that’s left you\*

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2007, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-getting-older/418359/60 "2007-09-07T21:05:36Z")

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“Silver Threads Among The Gold”, a very sentimental song from 1873.

“Darling, I am growing old,  
Silver threads among the gold  
Shine upon my brow today;  
Life is fading fast away”

A 1912 recording: [Silver Threads Among The Gold : Elsie Baker : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive](http://www.archive.org/details/SilverThreadsAmongTheGoldbyElsieBaker)

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