Danny is definitely going to war, because the pipes don’t call for emigration, and the narrator isn’t going to be predeceasing him if he’s called by Death. But that doesn’t make it any clearer who the narrator is: I think the consensus is that it’s probably a parent, but mother or father would work equally well.
Creepy-as-shit one: Eminem had a song called “97 Bonnie and Clyde”, about a dude who’s murdered his wife and stuffed her corpse in the trunk and is driving it to the ocean, young daughter all unawares riding along in the back seat:
I’ve not heard the original, but apparently it’s very morbid humor, part of Eminem’s persona.
“This Woman’s Work” by Kate Bush. She wrote it specifically for the movie She’s Having A Baby after John Hughes sent her a clip from the movie. I believe it was the montage used in the movie. This YouTube clip starts before the song does, but it’s worth watching the whole thing to see what leads up to the song, which is, yes, sung from a man’s point of view.
Nick Cave’s done more than one, but the one that’s coming to mind is the murder ballad sung from the point of view of a psychotic teenage girl, Curse of Millhaven.
Pretty much any Mecano song which is in the first person. They were always written by men (Nacho or José Cano) and sung by a woman (Ana Torroja).
María de los Guardias is sung from the pov of the titular character; it was written and made famous by an all-male group (José Aceves Mejía y los de Palacagüina).
Lots of boleros, coplas… are from the pov of one gender but are sung by people of any gender you can name.
And then there’s those songs which are specifically cross-dressed, from Count Orlovsky’s in Fliedermaus to Pichi in Las Leandras to a zillion panto characters…
Sure, but I would argue that wife/girlfriend would work as well for the general feeling, although I agree the lyrics regarding time support a parent as the intended interpretation. Frankly, the song is probably better for its vagueness.