# Songs where one person stops loving another person

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [January 8, 2019, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432 "2019-01-08T22:45:16Z")\
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“By the Time I Get to Phoenix”, sung by Glen Campbell, words and music by Jimmy Webb.

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Squeeze, “[Black Coffee in Bed](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gP15t_wnrEw).”

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/23 "2019-01-09T00:18:35Z")

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You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feeling, Righteous Brothers

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/24 "2019-01-09T00:19:47Z")

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I can’t see where anybody’s mentioned _You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feelin’_ by Spector, Mann and Weil, first recorded by the Righteous Brothers, which surprises me a little since it struck me as the most obvious.

ETA: Dammit, that’s what I get for taking the extra minute to research the composers.

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/25 "2019-01-09T00:32:09Z")

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[Just give me a reason](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpQFFLBMEPI)

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/26 "2019-01-09T00:33:15Z")

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Morphine, _[Gone For Good](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jznaa5FEhT4)._

> [@](#):
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> _Life is very short  
> You don’t love me anymore  
> So I’m never going to see you again_

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/27 "2019-01-09T00:35:27Z")

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“You Don’t Love Me Anymore”, “One More Minute”, and “Since You’ve Been Gone” by Weird Al Yankovic all immediately came to mind; there’s probably several more by him.  
“Two Outta Three Ain’t Bad” by Meat Loaf.

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/28 "2019-01-09T00:50:09Z")

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Randy Newman’s “Just One Smile.” I can’t seem to find him singing it, but here’s [Dusty Springfield](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J55WDyQ2KB0)

“[When Love is Gone](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r57KXWeXKoY&t=1m5s)” from _The Muppets Christmas Carol_

Louis Jordan’s “[Is You Is or Is You Ain’t My Baby.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LGl70VGvmg)”

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 12:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/29 "2019-01-09T00:54:55Z")

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… You just slip out the back, Jack  
Make a new plan, Stan  
You don’t need to be coy, Roy  
Just get yourself free…

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**Author:** ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/30 "2019-01-09T01:03:23Z")

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Carl Perkins “I’m Sorry I’m Not Sorry.”

I think.

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/31 "2019-01-09T01:21:41Z")

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> [@ekedolphin](#):
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> “Two Outta Three Ain’t Bad” by Meat Loaf.

I dunno. She kept on telling him “There ain’t no way I’m ever gonna love you,” not that she _stopped_ loving him.

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/32 "2019-01-09T02:29:37Z")

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‘Jar of Hearts’ by Christina Perri

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/33 "2019-01-09T02:38:50Z")

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> [@RealityChuck](#):
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> Randy Newman’s “Just One Smile.” I can’t seem to find him singing it, but here’s [Dusty Springfield](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J55WDyQ2KB0)

Wow! That is one of my favorite Blood Sweat & Tears songs. No idea it was a Randy Newman song. If you’re not familiar with the BST version I highly recommend it. I’ll have to seek out Newman’s.

My contributions:  
“Break Your Heart” by Barenaked Ladies  
“Seeing Other People” by Belle & Sebastian  
“Don’t Change Your Plans For Me” by Ben Folds Five

(Yes I only listen to artists starting with “B”)

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 2:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/34 "2019-01-09T02:40:30Z")

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[_Too Close_, sung by Alex Clare](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP50Ewh31E4).

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 3:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/35 "2019-01-09T03:06:33Z")

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Fleetwood Mac - _Go Your Own Way, The Chain_

Wayne Newton - _Daddy Don’t You Walk So Fast_ - A father is leaving his daughter behind at the airport

Classics IV - _Traces_ - Listen to _Spooky_ and _Stormy_ first in that order to get the full story of a love affair from beginning to end

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/36 "2019-01-09T03:17:42Z")

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Every Little Thing (ELT) - _Time Goes By_ - This was a big hit in Japan in 1998 and for some reason defined that year for me, which wasn’t a good one. It’s not your usual I’m so sad we broke up, but “we both have something to learn from our breakup”.

"Remember it one more time  
The way we loved each other so much  
That we were able to say “thank you”  
Say goodbye…

The moment the pain and scars are left behind  
We will understand the meaning of true tenderness  
Surely"

The full English lyrics are here: [http://lyrics.wikia.com/wiki/Every\_Little\_Thing:Time\_Goes\_By/en](http://lyrics.wikia.com/wiki/Every_Little_Thing:Time_Goes_By/en)

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**Post date:** [January 9, 2019, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-where-one-person-stops-loving-another-person/827432/37 "2019-01-09T03:21:03Z")

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‘She left me for Jesus’ Hayes Carll.

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[Harden My Heart](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTOU_kuH4Bo) by Quarterflash

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**[Thank God and Greyhound](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tx8x3LCnYZw)**, Roy Clark

**[She Got the Goldmine, I Got The Shaft](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyqe8n-pbqQ)**, Jerry Reed

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_Cause We Ended As Lovers_ by Syretta  
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTOU\_kuH4Bo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTOU_kuH4Bo)

“But that was more than years ago  
And who will love me I don’t know  
It’s sad for sure but true it won’t be you”

[https://genius.com/Syreeta-cause-weve-ended-as-lovers-lyrics](https://genius.com/Syreeta-cause-weve-ended-as-lovers-lyrics)

Most people are only familiar with Jeff Beck’s version, but this one is great too.

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