# Songs with Maternal Advice

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 3, 2016, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655 "2016-08-03T17:50:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![Gordon\_Urquhart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/db5fbb/32.png) [@Gordon\_Urquhart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gordon_Urquhart)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/1 "2016-08-03T17:50:21Z")

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Driving home from work last night, I heard the song _Too Late to Turn Back Now_. It’s a great song but I’d never really paid much attention to the lyrics beyond the chorus, and I noticed that it’s one of quite a few songs that contain advice from a mother to a child (most of whom, but not all, are boys or young men).  
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[li]“Please beware: there’s a thing called love, and it’s everywhere.” _Too Late to Turn Back Now_ – Cornelius Brothers and Sister Rose[/li][li]“There’ll be days like this.” _Mama Said_ – The Shirelles[/li][li]“Take your time; don’t live too fast. Troubles will come, and they will pass.” _Simple Man_ – Lynyrd Skynyrd[/li][li]“Before you ask some girl for her hand now, keep your freedom for as long as you can now.” _Shop Around_ – Smokey Robinson and the Miracles[/li][li]“That ain’t the way to have fun, uh-uh.” _Mama Told Me Not To Come_ – written and later recorded by Randy Newman but made famous first by Eric Burdon and the Animals and later Three Dog Night[/li][/ul]  
What other songs have words to live by from dear ol’ Mom?

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/2 "2016-08-03T17:55:20Z")

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[Mama Said Knock you Out](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vimZj8HW0Kg)

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/3 "2016-08-03T17:59:53Z")

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_You Can’t Hurry Love_  
_Shoop Shoop Song_ (It’s in His Kiss)  
_Magic Man_  
_I Hope You Dance_  
_Fancy_ (by Reba, not Iggy)

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/4 "2016-08-03T18:02:34Z")

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_I’ll Be There For You_, the theme from FRIENDS.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/5 "2016-08-03T18:18:09Z")

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Que sera, sera  
Whatever will be, will be  
The future’s not ours to see

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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/6 "2016-08-03T19:18:08Z")

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Mama, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Cowboys

Mama Tried

Don’t Take Your Guns To Town

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/7 "2016-08-03T19:24:41Z")

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Lollipop by Mika

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/8 "2016-08-03T19:27:29Z")

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_Blues In The Night_ by Harold Arlen and Johnny Mercer.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/9 "2016-08-03T19:27:40Z")

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> [@Chefguy](#):
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> Mama, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Cowboys

This one is actually advice \*for \*mothers – not \*from \*them. Incidentally, I saw Willie (who covered this Ed Bruce song with Waylon) this weekend at a concert with Kacey Musgraves in Denver. Great, great show.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/10 "2016-08-03T19:44:38Z")

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“When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me.  
Speaking words of wisdom, **Let it Be** ” - The Beatles

**Mother** by Pink Floyd  
“Hush now baby, baby don’t you cry  
Mama’s gonna make all of your nightmares come true  
Mama won’t let anyone dirty get through”

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/11 "2016-08-03T20:09:17Z")

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“Hush little baby don’t you cry  
Soon the sun is going to shine  
We’re going to be free like the birds and the bees  
Running wild in the big country.” – Got to Be Free, the Kinks

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/12 "2016-08-03T21:09:05Z")

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A song with a notable exception is CeeLo Green’s “Fuck You”:

I tried to tell my mamma but she told me “this is one for your dad”

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 9:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/13 "2016-08-03T21:53:14Z")

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The Shangri Las _[I Can Never Go Home Anymore](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzIYODcRx_Y)_. A really underrated tune.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 10:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/14 "2016-08-03T22:19:21Z")

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**Mama Told Me Not To Come** , Three Dog Night

Oops, that one is buried in the OP.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/15 "2016-08-03T22:30:11Z")

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“That’s the Way” - Led Zeppelin (“Mama said…that’s the way it oughta be.”)

“Surrender” - Cheap Trick ('Mommy told me, yes she told, me, I’d meet girls like you. She also told me, stay away, you’ll never know what you’ll catch.")

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/16 "2016-08-03T22:35:13Z")

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“Simple Man,” Skynyrd.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/17 "2016-08-03T22:36:55Z")

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_When I was just a baby  
My mama told me, Son,  
Always be a good boy,  
Don’t ever play with guns._  
–Johnny Cash, Folsom Prison Blues

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/18 "2016-08-03T23:34:53Z")

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The song hailed by Lawrence Welk as “a modern spiritual”, Brewer and Shipley’s [_One Toke Over the Line_](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8tdmaEhMHE), includes the line “I felt the joy and I learned about the pain that my momma said/If I should choose to make a part of me, would surely strike me dead”.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/19 "2016-08-03T23:39:19Z")

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“But mama said  
You can’t hurry love  
No, you just have to wait  
She said love don’t come easy  
It’s a game of give and take” - You Can’t Hurry Love, The Supremes (or Phil Collins, depending on your generation)

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2016, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-with-maternal-advice/761655/20 "2016-08-03T23:42:05Z")

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Rod Stewart’s _Forever Young_

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