# Soutern Baptist executive caught in gay sex scandal **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 5, 2006, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607 "2006-01-05T18:47:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2006, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/41 "2006-01-07T18:21:31Z")
> [@jackelope](#): > > This seems like a good time to mention the Onion’s news brief from a few months ago: > > [Anti-Homosexuality Sermon Suspiciously Well-Informed](http://www.theonion.com/content/node/42606) \ ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/42 "2006-01-08T03:58:13Z")
**kalhoun** , I just love your devotion. The SBC is about five miles down the road from me. You are female, aren’t you? Let’s get manicures and pedicures across the street, picket the SBC for a couple of hours and then have lunch. I think **Polycarp** is right about the organization of the church and there seems to be a sort of wrestling for control. There is also a liberal faction that is working very hard. I have bought some thinner brushes lately myself. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Bricker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@Bricker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bricker)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 11:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/43 "2006-01-08T11:14:42Z")
Rev. Latham was arrested for “Offering To Engage In An Act of Lewdness.” The evidence in support of this charge was the allegation that he he asked the undercover officer to join him in his hotel room for oral sex. In light of _Lawrence v. Texas_, is that a crime? Should that be a crime? ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 12:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/44 "2006-01-08T12:19:00Z")
> [@Zoe](#): > > **kalhoun** , I just love your devotion. > > The SBC is about five miles down the road from me. You are female, aren’t you? Let’s get manicures and pedicures across the street, picket the SBC for a couple of hours and then have lunch. > > I think **Polycarp** is right about the organization of the church and there seems to be a sort of wrestling for control. There is also a liberal faction that is working very hard. I have bought some thinner brushes lately myself. 🙂 You’re on, sistah! Though I’d hate to mess up a new manicure marching around with a picket sign. We’ll need to find a Manicure Cafe and kill two birds with one stone! 😉 I’m sure they’re wrangling for control. But from everything I’ve been able to scrape up (other than that which is on the bottom of my _shoe_ with regard to SBs), it appears the VAST majority of the individual churches embrace the “homosexuality as a lifestyle” and “people who engage in homosexual sex are bad” mindset. All I’m saying is that if I were trying to change public perception, I’d be doing something the public could actually _see_ to change that perception. Their numbers are either much too small (in which case they should break from the SBC) or they’re not trying hard enough. ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/45 "2006-01-08T12:23:09Z")
> [@Bricker](#): > > Rev. Latham was arrested for “Offering To Engage In An Act of Lewdness.” The evidence in support of this charge was the allegation that he he asked the undercover officer to join him in his hotel room for oral sex. > > In light of _Lawrence v. Texas_, is that a crime? > > Should that be a crime? I have no idea what Lawrence v. Texas is, but the act of soliciting sex should not be a crime. This guy’s crime is hypocrisy and hate mongering. Far worse, considering his position. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 12:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/46 "2006-01-08T12:54:54Z")
> [@Kalhoun](#): > > From the official website of the Southern Baptist Convention: > (bolding mine) > > Okay…since this is the official stand of Southern Baptists, I have to assume you are a homophobe. If you’re not, then you aren’t _really_ a Southern Baptist. You may embrace some of the qualities (the ones that aren’t in direct conflict with the spirit of love, mind you), but if you don’t oppose homosexuality, you should not wear the SB label. To claim to be an SB is to oppose homosexuality. I don’t see anything here that says you can cherry pick what doctrine you will embrace. If there is a clause in there that says you can, I’d like to see it. My parents are Baptists. There is a schism among Baptists between the followers of the Southern Baptist Convention and those who have broken allegiance to it. Historically, I think they were decentralized, with local authority to pick their own pastors, etc; the SBC has been trying, with fair success, to impose a top-down structure with litmus tests and kicking clergy out of the system if they don’t sign on for “official Baptist beliefs”, including the homophobia and the literal verbatim Bible as Word of God stuff and the anti-evolution stuff and so on. I think the schismatic rebel group is called Southern Baptist Fellowship. At any rate, apparently individual congregations are breaking loose and telling the SBC (in Baptist-appropriate language, I assume) to fuck off. It’s most likely going to result in a formal split as the SBC continues to coalesce centralized authority. I must say I enjoy seeing my stodgy Dad, who embraced the likes of Strom Thurmond and Jesse Helms, siding with the rebels and doing rolleyes at the SBC. ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/47 "2006-01-08T13:03:55Z")
> [@AHunter3](#): > > My parents are Baptists. There is a schism among Baptists between the followers of the Southern Baptist Convention and those who have broken allegiance to it. > > Historically, I think they were decentralized, with local authority to pick their own pastors, etc; the SBC has been trying, with fair success, to impose a top-down structure with litmus tests and kicking clergy out of the system if they don’t sign on for “official Baptist beliefs”, including the homophobia and the literal verbatim Bible as Word of God stuff and the anti-evolution stuff and so on. > > I think the schismatic rebel group is called Southern Baptist Fellowship. At any rate, apparently individual congregations are breaking loose and telling the SBC (in Baptist-appropriate language, I assume) to fuck off. It’s most likely going to result in a formal split as the SBC continues to coalesce centralized authority. > > I must say I enjoy seeing my stodgy Dad, who embraced the likes of Strom Thurmond and Jesse Helms, siding with the rebels and doing rolleyes at the SBC. I’m clear on the difference between Baptist and _Southern Baptist_. But everything I’ve Googled on Southern Baptist Fellowship appears to be as hard-core as the SBC. Some sites actually link to the original SBC website I spoke of earlier. They don’t sound like a toned-down version of SB to me. The VAST majority is unwaveringly against homosexuality. ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/48 "2006-01-08T15:42:32Z")
Oh. And by the way…the Regular Ol’ Baptist Church (official site) also states that homosexuality is incompatible with christian teaching. That’s all they say. No caveats, no contingencies. Sorry…they’re as anti-gay as the Southern Baptists, just not as vocal about it. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/49 "2006-01-08T18:48:42Z")
Agreed. The most liberal of Baptist groups is still frighteningly conservative. The difference appears to lie more with the right (or lack thereof) to continue to be a Baptist preacher if you _don’t_ hold and teach these opinions. The SBF preacher might preach a sermon contradicting Baptist condemnation of homosexuality. The SBC preacher deciding to do so could get defrocked. Or whatever they call it. Booted for heresy is what it amounts to. In practice, it apepars there are far more Baptist congregations & preachers that do not wish to take the Bible as the literal Word of God (4000-some-odd years since creation, literal giants in dem days, and all that) and/or don’t see a conflict between religion and evolution and don’t want to be told they must preach otherwise, than there are defenders of the non-wrongness of being gay, which doesn’t seem to be much of a celebrated cause on the rebellious side of this schism. There are also flavors of Baptists who aren’t Southern Baptist of either variety — I think one such denomination is called “Primitive Baptist”, no kiddin’. Somehow I don’t expect they’d be in the forefront of social permissiveness either (I’m not sure but I think they disapprove of the playing of musical instruments in church, make of that what you will). But it’s the SBC that is overtly political, nationally organized, trying to divest the church of infidels and miscreants, and responsible for heavy involvement in elections and endorsements. ---
**Author:** ![yBeayf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/e274bd/32.png) [@yBeayf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yBeayf)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/50 "2006-01-08T19:31:53Z")
> [@](#): > > I think one such denomination is called “Primitive Baptist”, no kiddin’. Somehow I don’t expect they’d be in the forefront of social permissiveness either (I’m not sure but I think they disapprove of the playing of musical instruments in church, make of that what you will). Primitive Baptists and Old Regular Baptists are a bit of a different breed than mainstream Baptists – they split off from the mainstream Baptists in the early 19th century, and are primarily a rural Appalachian phenomenon. They’ve changed little since then; most of the changes in American Protestantism – abandoning of belief in predestination, instrumental and harmonized music, the temperance movement, professional clergy – never occurred in these Baptists groups. The Old Regular Baptists are most notable for preserving lined-out monophonic hymnody, which was once common to most Anglo- and Scots-descended Protestant churches but has since died out everywhere else (though I believe a very few Primitive Baptists congregations still hold on to the tradition). ---
**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/51 "2006-01-08T19:34:45Z")
> [@Kalhoun](#): > > I have no idea what Lawrence v. Texas is It is the US Supreme Court case which strikes down as unconstitutional state sodomy bans. **Bricker** ’s home state of Virginia has continued to prosecute men for soliciting sodomy, and at least one ridiculously bad appellate decision has affirmed the constitutionality of the solicitation statute. Absent some grave nuisance or harassment aspect, how exactly the solicitation of a legal act can itself be illegal is something beyond my power to comprehend. ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/52 "2006-01-08T20:34:16Z")
Thanks, Otto. Yeah…the mind boggles, don’t it? ---
**Author:** ![Sampiro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sampiro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sampiro)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2006, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/53 "2006-01-08T20:49:15Z")
> [@Bricker](#): > > Rev. Latham was arrested for “Offering To Engage In An Act of Lewdness.” The evidence in support of this charge was the allegation that he he asked the undercover officer to join him in his hotel room for oral sex. > > In light of _Lawrence v. Texas_, is that a crime? > > Should that be a crime? I wondered that too. I can only assume he must have offered the officer money or perhaps they were in what was legally considered a public place or some such. His reputation is irreparably damaged, of course, but with a decent lawyer I think Latham will get off (i.e. acquitted) and possibly even be able to file a defamation countersuit. ---
**Author:** ![FordPrefect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e99b99/32.png) [@FordPrefect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FordPrefect)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2006, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/54 "2006-01-09T02:01:19Z")
> [@Sampiro](#): > > Chick to Phred: CALL ME LITTLE SUZIE, BITCH! > Phred to Chick: Oh my god, are you drawing this? **Haw! Haw!** ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2006, 3:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/55 "2006-01-09T15:51:18Z")
> [@Otto](#): > > Absent some grave nuisance or harassment aspect, how exactly the solicitation of a legal act can itself be illegal is something beyond my power to comprehend. Presumably for the same reason that it’s illegal to sell something that it’s perfectly legal to give away for free… ---
**Author:** ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2006, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/56 "2006-01-09T19:32:55Z")
> [@AHunter3](#): > > The difference appears to lie more with the right (or lack thereof) to continue to be a Baptist preacher if you _don’t_ hold and teach these opinions. The SBF preacher might preach a sermon contradicting Baptist condemnation of homosexuality. The SBC preacher deciding to do so could get defrocked. Or whatever they call it. Booted for heresy is what it amounts to. Sorry, but that statement is absolutely wrong. No person, committee or organization _of any kind_ outside the individual church has any say what-so-ever in hiring or firing of any personnel (head pastor through janitor) within the that church. Period. End of story. No exceptions. All Baptist churches, including those affiliated with the SBC, are completely autonomous. As for the rest of the issues, **Polycarp** covered it extremely well. The leadership pendulum at he SBC has swung way right, no argument there. It will swing back. This is how real world organizations work. In the mean time, we (the rank and file at the individual churches) will continue to pool our resources to carry out the good that we all believe in. ---
**Author:** ![Homebrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Homebrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Homebrew)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2006, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/57 "2006-01-09T21:50:45Z")
> [@Doctor Jackson](#): > > Sorry, but that statement is absolutely wrong. No person, committee or organization _of any kind_ outside the individual church has any say what-so-ever in hiring or firing of any personnel (head pastor through janitor) within the that church. Period. End of story. No exceptions. All Baptist churches, including those affiliated with the SBC, are completely autonomous. Completely autonomous, huh? University Baptist Church, Austin, TX Disfellowshipped - University Baptist Church was Disfellowshipped February 24, 1998, by the General Baptist Convention of Texas for its affirmation and inclusion of lesbian and gay Christians. > [@](#): > > On February 24, 1998, the Executive Board of the Baptist General Convention of Texas, voted to kick out University Baptist Church in Austin because of it’s inclusivity of lesbian and gay members. The BGCT claimed UBC’s ministry welcoming lesbian and gay members was an affirmation of the gay lifestyle and against biblical teaching. UBC was previously disfellowshipped from the Austin Baptist Association, it’s local Southern Baptist group. UBC remains affiliated with the American Baptist Churches/USA (ABC of the South), the Alliance of Baptists, and the Cooperative Baptists Fellowship. Georgia Southern Baptists Expel Two Churches - Oakhurst Baptist Church in Decatur and Virginia-Highlands Baptist Church in Atlanta were ousted from the Georgia Baptist Convention because they are inclusive of gay and lesbian members. > [@](#): > > The Georgia Baptist Convention voted November 16, to expel Oakhurst Baptist Church in Decatur and Virginia Highlands Baptist Church in Atlanta. This marked the first time in the 177-year history of the state Southern Baptists convention that it has taken such an action. The GBC changed its constitution last year to exclude congregations that “affirm, approve or endorse homosexual behavior.” ---
**Author:** ![SuaSponte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/67e7ee/32.png) [@SuaSponte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuaSponte)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2006, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/58 "2006-01-09T22:24:23Z")
> [@Bricker](#): > > Rev. Latham was arrested for “Offering To Engage In An Act of Lewdness.” The evidence in support of this charge was the allegation that he he asked the undercover officer to join him in his hotel room for oral sex. > > In light of _Lawrence v. Texas_, is that a crime? > > Should that be a crime? Given the context - it appears to have been in the course of a police operation aimed at complaints of prostitution at the site of the arrest - it looks like this is the local variation on solicitation (don’t know the exact language of the statute, of course). In that case, it’s still a crime under _Lawrence_. IMO, prostitution and solicitation should not be crimes. Sua ---
**Author:** ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/59 "2006-01-10T19:37:01Z")
> [@homebrew](#): > > Completely autonomous, huh? Um, yeah, and what you posted actually proves the point. The state conventions have no power to remove pastors, dictate who the church allows as members, or regulate the use of the name “Baptist”. All of the churches involved are still Baptist churches. All still admit gay members. All still had the same staff members. The only thing the state convention can do is stop accepting money from these churches. That is the sum total meaning of “expelled”. Support is strictly one way, from the local church to the various conventions. What does it mean to the churches involved? They no longer send funds to that convention for missions, etc. There are other Baptist associations they can support, or they can keep those funds to run their own missions. They can put all their money in the bank until they have more than Bill Gates, if thats what they feel called to do. No outside agency can dictate the way they operate. That is autonomy. ---
**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/soutern-baptist-executive-caught-in-gay-sex-scandal/338607/60 "2006-01-10T21:27:42Z")
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