# Spit or Swallow? A followup poll TMI? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 29, 2003, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070 "2003-03-29T20:44:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 18
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/341 "2003-04-11T14:32:53Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Pebbles131 \* > \*\*I find this SOO sexy when it happens to me!! > > did I say that out loud?? /blushes like mad \*\* Yes, but don’t worry about it. Those who don’t agree respect other’s opinions, here. And, those who find it a turn-on are jotting your username down on their notepads. 😉 Personally, I find the attitude very sexy, even if I’ve never tried the actual act. Welcome to the SDMB. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tir\_Tinuviel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@Tir\_Tinuviel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tir_Tinuviel)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/342 "2003-04-11T14:38:03Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Davebear \* > \*\*Umm…I didn’t say removable. (BTW, you’re gonna be one hell of a scary 80 year old.) You were kind of implying they were usable for some kind of sex play. Or, was I misreading that? \*\* Who says I’m gonna age? 😉 Sex Play… sort of… they’re really a little to sharp to do anything more then just apply very gentle pressure, and I wouldn’t apply them down there anyways! I have had (and still do frequently) a lot of blokes ask to be bitten, but I’ve never met one that wanted me to clamp down on his cock! :eek: The biting request is normally the second thing blokes ask me after first meeting me, the first question is **always** “do they get in the way?” Honestly, you men! :rolleyes: 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/343 "2003-04-11T14:40:53Z")
I just have to say, I’m really enjoying this thread… and it is _really_ warm in here… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![pokey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ebca7d/32.png) [@pokey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pokey)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/344 "2003-04-11T14:49:45Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Davebear \* > So, for my future (Dammit!) refence, and because I owe **Elvis** something for allowing me to needle him, can you give us guys some kind of guideline? \*\* When a guy’s drunk it’s always too long. I won’t even flirt with someone when he’s drunk. Tired’s another story. I can’t avoid having sex with a tired person once in a while. If one or both of us is having trouble getting into it there’s no way I’m going to labour over his dick like it’s my mission. What kind of creepy guy would enjoy that? More than one person in this thread has mentioned boundary issues and I have a lot of them too. I manage them by never ever doing anything I don’t enjoy. If men did things they didn’t enjoy because they wanted to keep a woman satisfied they’d have boundary issues too! Once a year or so I’ll do a ‘favour’ but I know that doing something out of a feeling of obligation will trigger issues for me. I never want to feel like sex is a way of earning affection. If I felt that way even one time things would fall apart in the oral sex department. I’m pretty careful about not doing anything that isn’t fun. **Davebear** , you already welcomed me. 🙂 I already have a hot chocolate right here but I NEED COOKIES. ---
**Author:** ![tanookie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@tanookie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tanookie)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/345 "2003-04-11T14:54:43Z")
Yummm cookies 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/346 "2003-04-11T15:21:12Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Tir Tinuviel \* > **I have had (and still do frequently) a lot of blokes ask to be bitten** [hijack] Ohhhhhhhhhhh biting - now thats something I really like and I have no idea why but yummmmmmmmmmm (but not too hard - well **maybe** , we’ll see as we go along :D)[/hijack] ---
**Author:** ![flybynight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@flybynight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flybynight)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/347 "2003-04-11T15:26:39Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Dolores Claiborne \* > \*\*I just have to say, I’m really enjoying this thread… and it is _really_ warm in here… > 😃 \*\* Yes it is… I really have to stop reading this thread first thing in the morning when I get to work. I think it’s having a negative impact on my “productivity” (to say the least)… > [@](#): > > **It feels good to have him hold my head tight and just fuck my mouth - eg, he makes all the movement, I just use my tongue and lips. I dont really have a gag reflex, so him going deep doesn’t bother me too much.** > [@](#): > > **I find this SOO sexy when it happens to me!!** And posts like these aren’t helping me much either!! 😃 sorry for posting pointless drivel, I just felt I needed to say something… 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Branwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@Branwen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Branwen)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/348 "2003-04-11T15:41:53Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Davebear \* > \*\*I’m going to highjack my own thread, here. I had other things I wanted to say to **Elvis** , and this didn’t fit in, but he got me wondering. Ladies? How long _IS_ too long? \*\* For me, anything more then about 20 minutes is pushing it. By that time, my jaw is killing me, and I’m no longer in the mood. I dated a guy once who was like the Energizer bunny. It was awful, made even worse because he would never return the favor. ---
**Author:** ![Pebbles131](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/eada6e/32.png) [@Pebbles131](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pebbles131)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/349 "2003-04-11T15:43:31Z")
Apologies **Flybynight** , Im guessing Im in a different time-zone to you (not much of a defence as it was about 3pm when I posted) Im sure your Boss wouldn’t object if you lossened off that tie a little 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Pebbles131](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/eada6e/32.png) [@Pebbles131](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pebbles131)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 3:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/350 "2003-04-11T15:47:09Z")
…or you could try loosening it 😃 Oh, and mines a vodka/schnapps shot 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/351 "2003-04-11T16:49:59Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Tir Tinuviel \* > **Sex Play… sort of… they’re really a little to sharp to do anything more then just apply very gentle pressure, and I wouldn’t apply them down there anyways!** \*Note to self; Do not EVER, under any circumstances, get carried away and tell Tir to “Bite me!” \* ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/352 "2003-04-11T16:56:13Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Dolores Claiborne \* > \*\*I just have to say, I’m really enjoying this thread… and it is _really_ warm in here… \*\* It _is_, isn’t it? I think I’m gonna have a lemonade. Would you like one? ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/353 "2003-04-11T17:02:31Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by pokey \* > **Davebear, you already welcomed me. 🙂** Oops! Sorry. > [@](#): > > \*\* I already have a hot chocolate right here but I NEED COOKIES. \*\* I’m sorry. I don’t have any cookies, but I do have some pie. Because, and I apologize for this, it’s really bad, even for me… When come, bring pie ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/354 "2003-04-11T17:06:06Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Rhino’sHoney \* > \*\*[hijack] Ohhhhhhhhhhh biting - now thats something I really like and I have no idea why but yummmmmmmmmmm (but not too hard - well **maybe** , we’ll see as we go along :D)[/hijack] \*\* I nominate **Rhino’sHoney** to start that thread. All in favor? ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/355 "2003-04-11T17:08:30Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by flybynight \* > \*\*Yes it is… I really have to stop reading this thread first thing in the morning when I get to work. I think it’s having a negative impact on my “productivity” (to say the least)… sorry for posting pointless drivel, I just felt I needed to say something… 😉 \*\* No problem. I totally understand, believe me. ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/356 "2003-04-11T17:11:17Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Branwen \* > \*\*I dated a guy once who was like the Energizer bunny. It was awful, made even worse because he would never return the favor. \*\* I’m not surprised you only dated him once. He was clearly a pig. Pigs are for eating, not dating. ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/357 "2003-04-11T17:14:05Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Pebbles131 \* > **…or you could try loosening it 😃** It wasn’t my tie that needed loosening. > [@](#): > > \*\*Oh, and mines a vodka/schnapps shot 🙂 \*\* _Coming right up_ ---
**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/358 "2003-04-11T17:17:38Z")
some more thoughts. i don’t actually mind my head being pushed, or his fingers in my hair, because my hand are free and i can push his arms if i need to, but i CANNOT have his hands anywhere near my neck (bad past experiences have lead to an all-out phobia) at all. kneeling, sitting, lying, whatever, i’m quite happy, although i prefer the angle when i’m kneeling, rather than the 69 type angle. one thing i CANNOT stand is the thing where you lie on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed, while he stands in front. being dizzy and choking simultaneously is not pleasant! how long is too long depends on my mood, if i’m tired, the position i’m in, and how turned on i am. sometimes 5 minutes is too long, sometimes 1/2 an hour isn’t long enough. Davebear, may i have black russian with a guinness head please? i’m awfully sober and thirsty. ---
**Author:** ![flybynight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@flybynight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flybynight)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/359 "2003-04-11T17:25:32Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Davebear \* > \*\*It wasn’t my tie that needed loosening. > \*\* That was my tie that needed lossening, then loosening, but it really doesn’t matter since I’m not wearing a tie anyway 😉 And who needs to be productive anyway? This is way more fun… ---
**Author:** ![tanookie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@tanookie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tanookie)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/360 "2003-04-11T17:26:13Z")
Quoted from irishgirl: _one thing i CANNOT stand is the thing where you lie on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed, while he stands in front. being dizzy and choking simultaneously is not pleasant_ Yeah that dizzy feeling is decidedly unpleasant. You see all the wrong kinds of stars! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070.md?page=17) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070.md?page=19)