# Spit or Swallow? A followup poll   TMI?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 29, 2003, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070 "2003-03-29T20:44:06Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Branwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@Branwen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Branwen)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/361 "2003-04-11T17:52:13Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*I’m not surprised you only dated him once. He was clearly a pig. Pigs are for eating, not dating. \*\*

Whoa, I worded that one wrong. It was a long term relationship. Too long, actually. But yes, you are right.

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**Author:** ![Branwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@Branwen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Branwen)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/362 "2003-04-11T17:59:43Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*I nominate **Rhino’sHoney** to start that thread. All in favor? \*\*

Aye.🙂

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**Author:** ![Branwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@Branwen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Branwen)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/363 "2003-04-11T18:04:53Z")

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> \*Originally posted by irishgirl \*  
> \*\*some more thoughts.  
> i don’t actually mind my head being pushed, or his fingers in my hair, because my hand are free and i can push his arms if i need to, but i CANNOT have his hands anywhere near my neck (bad past experiences have lead to an all-out phobia) at all.  
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I’m the same way. If his hands go anywhere near my neck, it’s all over.

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**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 6:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/364 "2003-04-11T18:16:22Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*It _is_, isn’t it? I think I’m gonna have a lemonade. Would you like one? \*\*

Yes, that would be lovely! I think this thread is hypnotizing me or something…I check it like once an hour…

The only problem is, I don’t get to see my boyfriend until _Monday._ He’s in for it, believe me! And then we are going on a long weekend up to his ranch next week…mmm…

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**Author:** ![Tir\_Tinuviel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@Tir\_Tinuviel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tir_Tinuviel)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/365 "2003-04-11T19:41:58Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*\*Note to self; Do not EVER, under any circumstances, get carried away and tell Tir to “Bite me!” \* \*\*

😃

So, where’s my goddam drink then eh?  
Anything to hand will do… oh, I can get it at the “source” can I?  
**BONUS!**  
😃

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**Author:** ![Tir\_Tinuviel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@Tir\_Tinuviel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tir_Tinuviel)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 7:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/366 "2003-04-11T19:51:34Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*I nominate **Rhino’sHoney** to start that thread. All in favor? \*\*

Another aye… 😉

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**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/367 "2003-04-11T22:01:33Z")

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Oh my … if I knew how to link to this, I would start it (the Bite Me thread) lol… do I need to link?

Totally off topic yet again but just got off the phone with Rhino and … well my head’s spinning a little :p:D

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/368 "2003-04-11T22:14:16Z")

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> \*Originally posted by irishgirl \*  
> \*\*Davebear, may i have black russian with a guinness head please? i’m awfully sober and thirsty. \*\*

Absolut-ly! 😉

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/369 "2003-04-11T22:17:01Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\* I’m sorry. I don’t have any cookies, but I do have some pie. Because, and I apologize for this, it’s really bad, even for me…
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> When come, bring pie \*\*

Aw, come on! _No one_ got this? Where’s **Q.E.D.**? He’d get it. He’d even appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/370 "2003-04-11T22:21:52Z")

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> \*Originally posted by flybynight \*  
> **That was my tie that needed lossening, then loosening, but it really doesn’t matter since I’m not wearing a tie anyway 😉**

I should have emphasized it, thusly; It wasn’t my _tie_ that needed loosening. I knew it was addressed to you. I just can’t pass up a straight line.

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/371 "2003-04-11T22:26:56Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Branwen \*  
> \*\*Whoa, I worded that one wrong. It was a long term relationship. Too long, actually. But yes, you are right. \*\*

My bad, again. I forgot the smilie. It should have been;

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> I’m not surprised you only dated him once. 😉 He was clearly a pig. Pigs are for eating, not dating.

I knew what you meant, I was just bustin’ ‘em, on ya’. 🙂

Come to think of it, I guess you _were_ eating him. My bad, again. That’s what happens when you sneak posts in while you’re waiting for applications to load.

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/372 "2003-04-11T22:30:48Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Branwen \*  
> \*\*I’m the same way. If his hands go anywhere near my neck, it’s all over. \*\*

Well, that’s two “Stay the heck away” votes. This choking thing is another variation that doesn’t do anything for me. I understand the partial asphyxiation fetish (from the outside), but the woman isn’t the one reaching orgasm, in this case, so it doesn’t apply. Yet, I’ve seen it in a number of pornos. _Are_ there women who get off on this?

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/373 "2003-04-11T22:33:47Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Dolores Claiborne \*  
> \*\*The only problem is, I don’t get to see my boyfriend until _Monday._ He’s in for it, believe me! And then we are going on a long weekend up to his ranch next week…mmm… \*\*

One lemonade, for the lady. Tell your boyfriend he owes us. Big time! 😃

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/374 "2003-04-11T22:37:25Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Tir Tinuviel \*  
> [BAnything to hand will do… oh, I can get it at the “source” can I?

Sure. Just step into the back room with me. That’s where we keep the “special stock”. 😉

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/375 "2003-04-11T22:43:49Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Rhino’sHoney \*  
> \*\*Oh my … if I knew how to link to this, I would start it (the Bite Me thread) lol… do I need to link? \*\*

Nope. You just get it started, and let me know when you’re ready. I’ll be happy to insert a link in…err…_for_ you. Woohoo! I’m gonna link up with **RH**!

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> \*\*Totally off topic yet again but just got off the phone with Rhino and … well my head’s spinning a little :p:D \*\*

You’ve washed your hands, haven’t you? 😉

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**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/376 "2003-04-11T23:11:55Z")

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Oh I did it, I linked 😛 [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?postid=3270876#post3270876)

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**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/377 "2003-04-11T23:14:09Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*Aw, come on! _No one_ got this? Where’s **Q.E.D.**? He’d get it. He’d even appreciate it. \*\*

American Pie? the apple pie thingie???

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 11:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/378 "2003-04-11T23:15:41Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Rhino’sHoney \*  
> \*\*Oh I did it, I linked 😛 [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?postid=3270876#post3270876) \*\*

☹ I _don’t_ get to link up with **RH**. ☹

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**Author:** ![flybynight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@flybynight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flybynight)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/379 "2003-04-11T23:24:18Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*I should have emphasized it, thusly; It wasn’t my _tie_ that needed loosening. I knew it was addressed to you. I just can’t pass up a straight line. \*\*

Yes, it all makes perfect sense now - I was tempted myself to make a remark along those lines in response to the tie comment. However, my mind was putting the emphasis on _my_ not _tie_. Don’t know how I missed that one… :wally 😉

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**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2003, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/spit-or-swallow-a-followup-poll-tmi/165070/380 "2003-04-11T23:25:40Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*☹ I _don’t_ get to link up with **RH**. ☹ \*\*

Awhhhhhhhhh Dave… well am sure if my thread dies, you can start another one and who knows what’ll happen 😛

But ya gotta admit, that was pretty good for my first go 😃

Dave? Bite me lol … (in the nicest possible way of couse).

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