# Sqeaky Asian Sex; do other cultures make different noises during coitus? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 18, 2009, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584 "2009-09-18T13:42:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/41 "2015-11-23T14:53:27Z")
> [@jradtoronto](#): > > Of course times have changed as well. Young women today are willing to do more and more to hold onto a man as the world shifts away from monogamy. > > On a final note, I can definitely say of the many Canadian girls I’ve been with, none of them squealed and had the high pitch moan that I heard with the japanese girl (which sounded just like girls in japanese porn i’ve seen) > > Obviously no one is going to sound the same as anyone else. But I don’t think it’s so far fetched that different cultures have grown up with and become accustom to different sex noises. (after all, people of different languages have trouble pronouncing letter or words that are spoken naturally by others) Welcome to the board. Hope you stick around. ---
**Author:** ![MichaelEmouse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/michaelemouse/32/101_2.png) [@MichaelEmouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MichaelEmouse)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/42 "2015-11-23T15:05:41Z")
> [@TokyoBayer](#): > > I hadn’t noticed it was a zombie thread until part way through, but of course most Japanese women don’t sound like that. Not that any personal experience could contain a sufficient sampling size for statistical purposes. . . The squeaky thing is very common in Japanese pornography. For what reason(s) do you think that is? Based on your non-scientific sampling, how do Japanese and Western women differ during sex (if they do indeed differ much)? ---
**Author:** ![jradtoronto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85f322/32.png) [@jradtoronto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jradtoronto)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/43 "2015-11-23T15:23:27Z")
I think a good example would be how there is many english speaking nations, each with their own accent. We’re all saying the same thing, but it comes out a bit differently because of the way we have grown up speaking the language. ---
**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/44 "2015-11-23T17:04:28Z")
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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/45 "2015-11-23T17:24:44Z")
Since this is going to be largely anecdotal, let’s move this to IMHO. Please note that this thread was started six years ago. Colibri General Questions Moderator ---
**Author:** ![Onomatopoeia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/onomatopoeia/32/4145_2.png) [@Onomatopoeia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Onomatopoeia)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/46 "2015-11-23T17:41:33Z")
> [@MichaelEmouse](#): > > The squeaky thing is very common in Japanese pornography. For what reason(s) do you think that is? It is the concept of infantilization of women (or “Josei no yōji-ka”「女性の幼児化」), which is prevalent and an offshoot of kawaii and otaku culture in Japan, which has less of a stigma there than in the US. Cuteness = youthful = innocence = naivete = vulnerability = sexy. The above stated, I have been with one Japanese woman and she did not give the “Oh my, I’m so scared, this hurts, what’s going on?” performance…at all. It is an affectation I am surprised anyone has experienced in real life outside of porn. ---
**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/47 "2015-11-23T18:48:35Z")
How do one say “There’s a cobweb in one corner of the ceiling, dear” in Japanese? Regards, Shodan ---
**Author:** ![jradtoronto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85f322/32.png) [@jradtoronto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jradtoronto)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/48 "2015-11-23T18:54:59Z")
It’s nothing new, and it’s prevalent in sex all over the world. Being young and innocent is what’s seen as sexy. And not only are men wanting it, women realize it from a very young age that it’s what men want. Which ultimately changes their behavior. Really it’s just natural human instinct for a man to want to plant his seed in a young healthy woman. I find it rare to find a girl who doesn’t want to feel like her man is dominating her in bed. And producing those noises helps to give both him and her that perception. The majority of women i’ve ever been with have wanted to be spanked or call me daddy etc… And it’s because they enjoy it. They don’t want to feel like a baby, they want to know they have a man who is in control. And in turn, she feels safe thinking she has a real man who can take control. I’ve heard this infantization theory before. And really I think that modern society is putting way too much thought into it (of course, as you said there are people who have fetishes for it, and people who produce this stuff for them). Rather than just stopping and thinking “we’re just animals, with animal instincts” Before the current laws of society it was common practice for a full grown man to be with a girl just reaching puberty. And yes in today’s eyes it’s wrong, but in the scheme of us all just being animals, it’s just natural to go for a girl who has newly began getting her menstrual cycle. (I am glad we do have these laws in place nowadays though, don’t get me wrong here lol) ---
**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/49 "2015-11-23T19:24:35Z")
If they like being dominated so much how come I always have to sleep on the wet spot? Regards Shodan ---
**Author:** ![jradtoronto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85f322/32.png) [@jradtoronto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jradtoronto)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/50 "2015-11-23T19:31:22Z")
Funny enough, I actually found this thread and website because I was feeling about the same way as the original poster on the thread. After sleeping with this japanese girl I was left surprised and curious at how she sounded like the stereotypical japanese pornstar. Which led me to searching whether this is just normal sexual educate for them. (Cause there were such unique sounds that i’ve never even heard come out of a north American woman’s mouth before) lmao ---
**Author:** ![jradtoronto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85f322/32.png) [@jradtoronto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jradtoronto)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/51 "2015-11-23T19:36:13Z")
> [@Shodan](#): > > If they like being dominated so much how come I always have to sleep on the wet spot? > > Regards > Shodan Haha well in my own opinion, marriage and age will slowly but surely deplete the desire that is needed for such type of a sexual relationship. ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2015, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/52 "2015-11-23T21:40:30Z")
> [@bldysabba](#): > > Actually, you could(get sufficient sample size), but you’d never manage to deal with the selection and experimenter bias 🙂 **bldysabba** , I laughed out loud. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2015, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/53 "2015-11-24T02:29:23Z")
As mentioned already, “squeaky sex noises” are mostly a Japanese thing, so much so that Thai hookers who want Japanese customers (they tend to overpay) have taken to making them. I know farangs (Westerners) who have gone with these same ladies and had to tell them to shut up, they’ve gotten into such a habit with it. ---
**Author:** ![Gretchion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8edcca/32.png) [@Gretchion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gretchion)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2015, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/54 "2015-11-24T03:15:48Z")
I’ve been in China for a while, and just yesterday hooked up with a local woman, and she made the squeaky Asian noises. ---
**Author:** ![storyguide3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@storyguide3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/storyguide3)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2015, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/55 "2015-11-24T17:50:32Z")
Regarding Chinese women, from a sample size of three, no squeaky noises. Noises, often loud noises, but none of them squeaky. ---
**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2015, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/56 "2015-11-25T03:27:09Z")
> [@storyguide3](#): > > Regarding Chinese women, from a sample size of three, no squeaky noises. Noises, often loud noises, but none of them squeaky. Seconded. Same sample size. In fact I have watched some Japanese porn with my most recent partner, and she commented (unprompted) on the whiny crying thing. ---
**Author:** ![Mister\_Rik](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mister_rik/32/491_2.png) [@Mister\_Rik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mister_Rik)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2015, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/57 "2015-11-29T22:50:01Z")
Speaking of Japanese porn: [![Imgur](https://i.imgur.com/5yaNNWo.png "For some reason I no longer have a GF.") ](https://imgur.com/gallery/5yaNNWo) (SFW) ---
**Author:** ![WynterTheCat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wynterthecat/32/7104_2.png) [@WynterTheCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WynterTheCat)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2021, 2:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584/58 "2021-03-07T14:00:07Z")
> [@gaffa](#): > > What a wonderful term! I hate that sound that all the San Fernando Valley porn actresses all make “mmmmYeah!” in a whiny voice. I second this. The generic “mmmYEAH~!” moaning annoys me so much I either mute the sound or get turned off so fast I just stop watching and go do something else. (Unfortunately, muting won’t stop creepy uncomfortable eye contact with the camera…) The moaning and “talking dirty” annoys me so much because it’s so clearly faked, because directors evidently do that thing where they find the most generic trait and say “that, go that way!” and pull it to the wildest extreme. To be clear, moaning and talking dirty can be and sometimes are super attractive and add to the experience, but 90% of the time it ends up being nails on a chalk board because it’s so brow-lowering and distracting. I know someone’s gonna say “porn is fiction, duh” and they’re not wrong, but it is just annoying that so much of it caters to the idea that “more canned mating calls is more better” when some people (myself included) find it far more attractive to just be genuine. Silence isn’t necessarily the solution but just being a little realistic. Notably, a lot of people I talked to have said they moan because “they’re supposed to” because it’s what they see in porn. So porn actors/actresses just keep hitting the moan-modded Staples button. > [@gaffa](#): > > That’s why amateur porn tends to be more enjoyable - the people involved haven’t learned how they are supposed to sound, so it’s far more believable. Amateur porn in general is WAY better with this. My favorite type of porn has always been “sex, but with a camera.” Along with that are the times where people do a little cam show for their chat room or whatever, but they just act casual and natural and have fun with it. Even if it is fiction, just act natural. That’s what I and many of my friends like the most, I have a feeling it’s more common than people think to want to just watch something that’s got some form of authenticity to it, but sex is a touchy subject in most society so it’s not like as many people talk about it as it would take to get noticed. Kinda like how pornhub did a survey and found out that more surveyed men preferred smaller breasts, even though floss-supported bowling balls seem to be the American stereotype. Unfortunately for the amateur lovers though, PH nuked the amateur section completely. And most of the ones uneducated in the way of the Power Moan were the little, unverified accounts that were right in the center of the crosshairs. Other sites are harder to navigate ☹ ---
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Best Zombie Ever? Dunno, but it’s got to be in the running. ---
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> [@WynterTheCat](#): > > Amateur porn in general is WAY better with this. Plus these depictions tend to show actual loving relationships. It’s kind of sweet. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sqeaky-asian-sex-do-other-cultures-make-different-noises-during-coitus/510584.md?page=4)