# Statistical Odds Of Hiv From 1 Time Anal Sex?

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**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [August 23, 2014, 10:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317 "2014-08-23T22:11:17Z")\
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**Author:** ![system](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/original/2X/e/e489c3b7d8fce19c4b355dd4fc3f88cc39c34b87.png) [@system](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/1 "2014-08-23T22:11:17Z")

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Hi,

I am wondering what are the actual statistical odds of getting HIV from an infected source from a one time exposure of receptive unprotected anal sex?

I have read from 1-70 to 1-200 chance. I am wondering what some of you guys think are the odds. Worst case scenario here. I am talking about purely stats here and odds wise. Thanks

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**Author:** ![Great\_Antibob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47c2d/32.png) [@Great\_Antibob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_Antibob)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/2 "2014-08-23T22:23:21Z")

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In case anybody is wondering, [this closed thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=730918) is probably relevant.

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/3 "2014-08-23T22:28:37Z")

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_You can’t handle the truth!_

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**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/4 "2014-08-23T22:36:31Z")

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The odds are different depending on male on male, male on female, which partner has it, viral load of the infected person, was there an ejaculation, etc.

Best bet would to get tested after the waiting period, and use a condom next time.

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**Author:** ![TimeWinder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@TimeWinder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TimeWinder)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/5 "2014-08-23T22:36:53Z")

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About 1 in 100, per the CDC: [http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html](http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html). It may be higher if either participant has had a root canal, though.

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**Author:** ![system](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/original/2X/e/e489c3b7d8fce19c4b355dd4fc3f88cc39c34b87.png) [@system](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/6 "2014-08-23T22:46:12Z")

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I am just seriously wondering what the real odds are. I mean 1/100 is not that bad. So if my biggest fear of what happened really happened then I have a 1-3% chance of being infected. I mean those are not horrible odds actually. Most likely I would be ok that means.

You learn lessons in life. My lesson from this is do not drink at a youth hostel with a bunch of strangers in your room. I learned that lesson. I also learned not to drink much at all. I am getting better at life guys. But 1/100 odds are not too bad 🙂

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**Author:** ![chacoguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/50afbb/32.png) [@chacoguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chacoguy)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/7 "2014-08-23T22:50:35Z")

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GO TO A FUCKING DOCTOR!

or are you just going to play Russian Roulette with your future partners’ health?

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**Author:** ![system](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/original/2X/e/e489c3b7d8fce19c4b355dd4fc3f88cc39c34b87.png) [@system](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/8 "2014-08-23T23:11:03Z")

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> [@chacoguy](#):
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> GO TO A FUCKING DOCTOR!
> 
> or are you just going to play Russian Roulette with your future partners’ health?

Thats all great in theory except that its only been 2 weeks. I got to wait at least 6 weeks for an hiv test. I would glady take an hiv right now if it was accurate at this timeframe.

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**Author:** ![iiandyiiii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/iiandyiiii/32/7924_2.png) [@iiandyiiii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iiandyiiii)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/9 "2014-08-23T23:12:21Z")

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> [@ineedthetruth](#):
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> Thats all great in theory except that its only been 2 weeks. I got to wait at least 6 weeks for an hiv test. I would glady take an hiv right now if it was accurate at this timeframe.

There are other possible infections, and other legitimate reasons to go to a doctor after you might have been raped. For one thing, a doctor might be able to confirm if you were raped (though it might be too late now).

Seriously – why didn’t you go to a doctor?

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/10 "2014-08-23T23:13:10Z")

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> [@ineedthetruth](#):
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> I am just seriously wondering what the real odds are. I mean 1/100 is not that bad. So if my biggest fear of what happened really happened then I have a 1-3% chance of being infected. I mean those are not horrible odds actually. Most likely I would be ok that means.
> 
> You learn lessons in life. My lesson from this is do not drink at a youth hostel with a bunch of strangers in your room. I learned that lesson. I also learned not to drink much at all. I am getting better at life guys. But 1/100 odds are not too bad 🙂

Do you envision yourself always being the ‘bottom’ for future trysts or will you do some “giving” as well? Theze are things, as well as remembering protection, to consider when planning ahead.

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**Author:** ![susan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/susan/32/17537_2.png) [@susan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/11 "2014-08-23T23:19:52Z")

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Go to a doctor (3).

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**Author:** ![polar\_bear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ec9cab/32.png) [@polar\_bear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/polar_bear)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/12 "2014-08-23T23:22:30Z")

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1/100 only if you know the other party has HIV. If not, many, many times less.  
And I disagree with others. Don’t go to a doctor, there is no reason to. Get on with your life.

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**Author:** ![RivkahChaya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rivkahchaya/32/8919_2.png) [@RivkahChaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RivkahChaya)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/13 "2014-08-23T23:23:57Z")

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Sigh. How many people told you that you should go to the doctor ASAP and start taking anti-retrovirals? If you had done that the day after the event in question, that would greatly reduce the chances of transmission, to something like 1 in 2,000. If the HIV+ partner (I realize “partner” is not appropriate for non-consensual sex, but I’m talking in generalities) is taking drugs, and has an undetectable viral load, AND the HIV- partner had gone in for meds, then he would have a very nearly zero chance of getting HIV.

Based on past behavior, I think the odds of the OP getting good advice are about 92%, but the odds of his taking it are 0%. If there were any way for the odds to be lower than 0%, they would be.

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**Author:** ![RivkahChaya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rivkahchaya/32/8919_2.png) [@RivkahChaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RivkahChaya)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/14 "2014-08-23T23:26:40Z")

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> [@polar\_bear](#):
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> 1/100 only if you know the other party has HIV. If not, many, many times less.  
> And I disagree with others. Don’t go to a doctor, there is no reason to. Get on with your life.

Yeah. I remember a friend of mine (female) who moved in with a gay man because it was DC and rents were expensive, trying to explain to her mother that you can’t **get** AIDS from someone who doesn’t \*\*have \*\*AIDS.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/15 "2014-08-23T23:29:30Z")

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Forget it, Jake. It’s **ineedthetruth** town.  
Seriously, either go see a goddamned doctor, or go harass some other board.

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2014, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/statistical-odds-of-hiv-from-1-time-anal-sex/696317/16 "2014-08-23T23:42:32Z")

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> [@ineedthetruth](#):
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> I am just seriously wondering what the real odds are. I mean 1/100 is not that bad. So if my biggest fear of what happened really happened then I have a 1-3% chance of being infected. I mean those are not horrible odds actually. Most likely I would be ok that means.
> 
> You learn lessons in life. My lesson from this is do not drink at a youth hostel with a bunch of strangers in your room. I learned that lesson. I also learned not to drink much at all. I am getting better at life guys. But 1/100 odds are not too bad 🙂

**Moderator Warning**

**ineedthetruth** , this appears to me to be a poorly disguised attempt to re-open the topic of the closed thread. Since I believe you received more than adequate advice in that thread, this is just an attempt to seek additional attention. This is an official warning for trolling. I’m instructing you not to open any more threads on this topic, in this or any other forum.

This is closed.

Colibri  
General Questions Moderator
