# Straight Men - What Desired Sexual Act/Aspect Won't Your Wife/Partner Do With You (Now or Ever)? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 2, 2014, 5:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374 "2014-11-02T17:09:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mixolydian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/da6949/32.png) [@Mixolydian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mixolydian)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 5:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/1 "2014-11-02T17:09:52Z")
Not trying to be discriminatory by narrowing this down to a poll of hetero men; just don’t want to skew the results in any way. This really only applies to men in a committed relationship - you single guys should be able to satisfy anything with enough effort/funds. And no, I don’t have a particular reason for doing this other that curiosity/comparing notes ;). Obviously anonymous…check all that apply - thanks! ---
**Author:** ![HoneyBadgerDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/honeybadgerdc/32/1033_2.png) [@HoneyBadgerDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HoneyBadgerDC)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/2 "2014-11-02T19:21:23Z")
She won’t climb into the basket and let me hang it from the ceiling and spin it. If she keeps gaining weight we will run out of time soon as the ceiling will only hold so much! ---
**Author:** ![Penfeather](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/penfeather/32/384_2.png) [@Penfeather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Penfeather)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/3 "2014-11-02T19:50:44Z")
That concerns precisely two people, and you are neither of them. ---
**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/4 "2014-11-02T20:36:59Z")
She also will not cook certain things, because she doesn’t like them. But, as the details of what you do in the kitchen is none of my business, I hope you extend the same courtesy to us. ---
**Author:** ![RivkahChaya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rivkahchaya/32/8919_2.png) [@RivkahChaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RivkahChaya)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/5 "2014-11-02T20:43:44Z")
There’s something on that list I want to do, that my husband won’t do. As long as you are collecting data. ---
**Author:** ![rsat3acr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a3d4f5/32.png) [@rsat3acr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rsat3acr)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/6 "2014-11-02T20:53:23Z")
> [@RivkahChaya](#): > > There’s something on that list I want to do, that my husband won’t do. As long as you are collecting data. do tell ---
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/7 "2014-11-02T21:14:53Z")
The poll is skewed because it asks, Whattya wanna do that she won’t? Theres so many items on that list that neither my wife or I would \*\*\*ever \*\*\*consider. We’re pretty compatibile in what we like and don’t like. I selected Doggy style because its one position the wife dislikes. I enjoyed it with prior gf’s but that was over 25 years ago. I’m not sure my older body would today. ---
**Author:** ![Mixolydian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/da6949/32.png) [@Mixolydian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mixolydian)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/8 "2014-11-02T21:29:59Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > The poll is skewed because it asks, Whattya wanna do that she won’t? > > Theres so many items on that list that neither my wife or I would \*\*\*ever \*\*\*consider. We’re pretty compatibile in what we like and don’t like. > > I selected Doggy style because its one position the wife dislikes. I enjoyed it with prior gf’s but that was over 25 years ago. I’m not sure my older body would today. Not skewed at all, IMO…it’s what I was looking for. Plent of stuff on the list that I wouldn’t consider either. ---
**Author:** ![Lanzy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/74df32/32.png) [@Lanzy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lanzy)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/9 "2014-11-02T21:31:40Z")
nuttin’ ---
**Author:** ![HelenGawn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a88e4f/32.png) [@HelenGawn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HelenGawn)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/10 "2014-11-02T21:35:55Z")
How does one nutt? ---
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2014, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/11 "2014-11-02T21:39:51Z")
Ace drives home and flings open the door. Honey, guess what I want to do tonight! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Arrendajo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Arrendajo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arrendajo)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/12 "2014-11-03T00:19:50Z")
Not a single thing on that list that she won’t do that I want to do, and we’ve done almost everything on the list. ---
**Author:** ![Poysyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Poysyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poysyn)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/13 "2014-11-03T00:43:29Z")
As a wife, I won’t do water sports, but I have also never been asked, so all good. ---
**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/14 "2014-11-03T00:56:11Z")
On this topic– [This is somewhat related.](http://www.leasticoulddo.com/comic/20120525/) ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/15 "2014-11-03T01:32:56Z")
Just a question about the ‘water sports’; if it’s a guy doing the peeing-on, is his dick supposed to be erect while urinating? If so, how’s that work? 😕 ---
**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 1:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/16 "2014-11-03T01:59:51Z")
Interesting that anal is right up there with threesomes in the poll. Really? ---
**Author:** ![Sicks\_Ate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@Sicks\_Ate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sicks_Ate)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/17 "2014-11-03T14:33:51Z")
The number of times “Blow job” has been chosen depresses me. ---
**Author:** ![Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/budget_player_cadet/32/205_2.png) [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Budget_Player_Cadet)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/18 "2014-11-03T14:43:30Z")
> [@Arrendajo](#): > > Not a single thing on that list that she won’t do that I want to do, and we’ve done almost everything on the list. _hi-fives_ Same here. Basically all that’s left is watersports, and neither of us have any interest in that. Kind of a limited list, really… ---
**Author:** ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/19 "2014-11-03T14:45:11Z")
> [@Arrendajo](#): > > Not a single thing on that list that she won’t do that I want to do, and we’ve done almost everything on the list. Me too. I’m grateful every day ---
**Author:** ![Urbanredneck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ea5d25/32.png) [@Urbanredneck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Urbanredneck)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2014, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374/20 "2014-11-03T15:13:08Z")
> [@Sicks\_Ate](#): > > The number of times “Blow job” has been chosen depresses me. Their is an old joke. Why is the bride smiling so much at her wedding? Answer: She knows she will never have to give another blowjob. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-men-what-desired-sexual-act-aspect-wont-your-wife-partner-do-with-you-now-or-ever/703374.md?page=2)