# Straight women: Do you check out other women's cleavage too?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 13, 2013, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865 "2013-03-13T22:22:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![Filbert](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/filbert/32/3433_2.png) [@Filbert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Filbert)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 11:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/21 "2013-03-14T11:47:42Z")

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I notice badly fitting bras, and fight the urge to suggest getting remeasured at a better shop, but that’s more or a personal bugbear about crappy bra fitting than anything.

I plead guilty to an occasional bit of arse ogling though.

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**Author:** ![PandaBear77](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/edb3f5/32.png) [@PandaBear77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PandaBear77)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 12:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/22 "2013-03-14T12:59:34Z")

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Yes.

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**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/23 "2013-03-14T13:05:15Z")

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Absolutely. I appreciate a nice set of knockers as much as the next guy. Even though I’m not a guy.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 1:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/24 "2013-03-14T13:40:55Z")

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Not really. I know other women do, but it’s not my focus. I do notice when someone is falling out, figuratively or literally as happened to a woman at the DMV once while I was there (along with app. 100 other people).

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**Author:** ![jools](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b3f665/32.png) [@jools](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jools)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/25 "2013-03-14T14:57:39Z")

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I’ll notice what other women are wearing. I’ll pay attention to cleavage only when it’s obvious, when it looks like her boobs are trying to escape.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/26 "2013-03-14T15:27:23Z")

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Sure.

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**Author:** ![Mauvaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mauvaise/32/11084_2.png) [@Mauvaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mauvaise)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/27 "2013-03-14T15:38:27Z")

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> [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](#):
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> Absolutely. I appreciate a nice set of knockers as much as the next guy. Even though I’m not a guy.

Exactly.

Breasts are awesome! And beautiful. I say this as a 100% hetero woman.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/28 "2013-03-14T16:11:05Z")

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> [@Mauvaise](#):
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> Exactly.
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> Breasts are awesome! And beautiful. I say this as a 100% hetero woman.

I actually don’t disagree with this. I like seeing them too, in movies, etc. But I don’t check out just random women around me.

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**Author:** ![Kimballkid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b5a626/32.png) [@Kimballkid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimballkid)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/29 "2013-03-14T17:48:34Z")

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> [@Shakes](#):
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> it’s hard NOT to take a **peak**.

I see what you did there. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Jennyrosity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2bfe46/32.png) [@Jennyrosity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jennyrosity)\
**Post date:** [March 14, 2013, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/30 "2013-03-14T18:52:08Z")

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> [@gallows\_fodder](#):
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> Well, my eye is drawn to that area if it’s exposed, but I don’t, like, “check them out” in a sexual way. My brother’s girlfriend is really well-endowed and often wears low-cut shirts, and I often feel like I must be talking to her chest and not her face, but…they’re just so _there_, you know? I can’t help it! There’s nothing sexual about it – boobs do nothing for me; I’m more of an ass person. 🙂

I remember rehearsing a scene (which required a fairly low cut dress) with another actress who I knew to be straight. She kept forgetting her lines and eventually admitted that she was finding it really hard to focus because she kept getting distracted by my cleavage.

When you have large boobs on a fairly small frame it’s fairly hard to disguise them anyway, not without making the rest of you look as large as the largest part of your body, which I’m not prepared to do. I’m proud of my curves, damn it.

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**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\
**Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/31 "2013-03-15T18:56:54Z")

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I look and appreciate the body and the cleavage. I’m not really turned on by it though. Most the time it’s envy about how beautiful or young they are. But I most certainly look and I usually complement them if I think they are pretty or have a great outfit.

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**Author:** ![Grestarian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grestarian/32/3227_2.png) [@Grestarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grestarian)\
**Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/32 "2013-03-15T22:35:58Z")

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> [@Troppus](#):
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> I notice if someone is wearing exceptionally revealing top in an inappropriate or mundane location as it communicates something about the attention they seek.

I dunno where those pix were taken, but that’s how I interpret the brunette’s expression. She looks disgusted at the blonde’s lack of modesty (or perhaps the extreme degree to which that modesty seems lacking).

–G?  
If a face can launch a thousand ships…  
…–David Gates (Bread)  
…_If_  
…Manna

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 1:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/33 "2013-03-16T01:11:49Z")

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> [@Shakes](#):
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> it’s hard NOT to take a peak.

Two peaks.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 4:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/34 "2013-03-16T04:55:08Z")

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By the way . . . most gay men check out women’s cleavage too. I have no idea why, but we do.

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**Author:** ![KarlGrenze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dbc845/32.png) [@KarlGrenze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KarlGrenze)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 11:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/35 "2013-03-16T11:27:47Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> By the way . . . most gay men check out women’s cleavage too. I have no idea why, but we do.

The first person to grab my boob was a drag queen. Passing by after a show, I was hanguing with my gay friend, talking to some people, and the drag queen (known to them), passes by, and all I remember is the boob grab and something like “Damn girl! Nice ones!”. I don’t remember if the others talked to her or not, I was 😕 .

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**Author:** ![Learjeff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/94ad74/32.png) [@Learjeff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Learjeff)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2013, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/36 "2013-03-17T17:36:44Z")

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> [@InternetLegend](#):
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> I do notice when someone’s falling out of her dress in front of me, and that’s how I interpret the look on Loren’s face in these pictures. She looks more horrified than entranced to me.
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> (I’d say it’s more a stare than a peek, too.)

That’s my read on those photos, too.

As a man, my opinion doesn’t count here, but if women are anything like men (or if other men are anything like me …), it’s really an existential issue, to do versus to be.

If I see a hot guy or gal, I’m impressed, but in a different way. I want to do her, and be him.

(budump-ump)

Sorry, couldn’t resist. But it’s at least partially true. Even when it’s not true, there’s the simple esthetics. Even as a man, it is sometimes possible to be esthetically pleased by something without gonads being involved. That’s the exception rather than the rule, of course.

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**Author:** ![April\_R](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@April\_R](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/April_R)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2013, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/37 "2013-03-17T17:45:49Z")

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I like the titties. I do not find the rest of a woman attractive, so I’ll stick with the men folk for sexual attraction, but boobies are distracting so I totally stare.

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**Author:** ![Learjeff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/94ad74/32.png) [@Learjeff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Learjeff)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/38 "2013-03-18T13:41:08Z")

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> [@April\_R](#):
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> I like the titties. I do not find the rest of a woman attractive, so I’ll stick with the men folk for sexual attraction, but boobies are distracting so I totally stare.

I’d enjoy channel surfing with a woman who doesn’t mind when I linger on a bikini shot. 😃

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**Author:** ![overlyverbose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/9dc877/32.png) [@overlyverbose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/overlyverbose)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/39 "2013-03-18T15:26:55Z")

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If another woman has breasts that are noticeable for whatever reason - particularly attractive or about to fall out of her shirt - yeah, I look. Some women have really nice breasts and I can appreciate that.

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**Author:** ![TheFaerie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/c57346/32.png) [@TheFaerie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheFaerie)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/straight-women-do-you-check-out-other-womens-cleavage-too/652865/40 "2013-03-18T16:49:59Z")

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I do notice women’s breasts, they are a beautiful thing. I even sometimes get distracted by my own cleavage when I have the girls on display. 😃

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