# Strange Mod Note re: Following posters around and harassment **URL:** \ **Category:** About This Message Board\ **Created:** [August 15, 2022, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strange-mod-note-re-following-posters-around-and-harassment/969713 "2022-08-15T21:12:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2022, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strange-mod-note-re-following-posters-around-and-harassment/969713/3 "2022-08-15T21:18:21Z")
I’m having a heck of a time finding the thread. I figured it was probably IMHO or MPSIMS, but I don’t see anything similar. I even did a “dating web sites” board search and came up empty. Am I blind, dumb, or some combination of both? EDIT: Never mind, it must be this one. > [@Customers Ending up as Matches on Online Dating Sites - Should I Be Concerned?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/customers-ending-up-as-matches-on-online-dating-sites-should-i-be-concerned/969688): > > Yesterday, I attended my first Meetup event and it went well. I ended up striking conversations with several persons who all seemed interested in getting to know me. That was the self-esteem boost that I needed after a [recent](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/those-moments-when-the-stars-align-how-did-they-turn-out-for-you-in-the-long-term/968510), [major](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/realizing-that-you-are-at-risk-of-becoming-like-your-partners-psycho-ex/969025) failure, and I plan on attending other events like this. This has led me to think about signing up to an online dating site but I need an idea of what I may be getting myself into before I take the plunge. 1 - Which sites are reliable and cater to middle-aged pers… --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strange-mod-note-re-following-posters-around-and-harassment/969713)._