# Strapless wedding dresses-- yea or nay?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 14, 2013, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216 "2013-10-14T15:04:36Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 9\
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**Author:** ![HazelNutCoffee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ac91a4/32.png) [@HazelNutCoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HazelNutCoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2013, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/81 "2013-10-25T04:12:57Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> That is a beautiful dress (and you’re not so bad yourself, either, wink wink). 🙂

> [@Yllaria](#):
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> Yes. You and the dress look wonderful.

> [@nearwildheaven](#):
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> Gorgeous! 🙂

Thanks. 🙂 I was really happy with the dress! It was comfortable AND I felt pretty in it - win-win.

Going with a seamstress is something I’d recommend to any bride who is having difficulty finding what they want in a reasonable price range. The dresses that I fell in love with were all in the 2000-4000 USD price range. Getting it made only cost a fraction of that.

**Little Bird** I think you look lovely in your dress. 🙂

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**Author:** ![SaharaTea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SaharaTea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SaharaTea)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2013, 7:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/82 "2013-10-25T19:58:32Z")

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> [@SpoilerVirgin](#):
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> I thought of this thread when I saw pictures of [Kelly Clarkson’s wedding dress](http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/kelly-clarkson-marries-brandon-blackstock-article-1.1491849). She got married yesterday in a beautiful dress. I was trying to figure out what I liked so much about it – it’s the long lace sleeves.

I frickin’ love that dress. So much so that I wish I could get married again just so I could copy it.

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**Author:** ![Find\_Friends](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c37758/32.png) [@Find\_Friends](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Find_Friends)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2013, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/83 "2013-10-25T20:56:05Z")

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> [@kushiel](#):
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> [Reminds me of this pic!](http://everythingfunny.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/anothergoodreasonto-not-have-your-bridesmaids-wear-strapless-dresses.jpg) Poor bridesmaids.

> [@Zombie Whisperer](#):
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> Oh dear! That looks so wrong!

> [@Muffin](#):
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> That looks so right!

Agreed!

And it reminds ME of an overheard remark by a mother at a reception wedding about a previous wedding reception she had attended.

Her little daughter: :eek: Mommy, that woman has nothing on!

😃

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2013, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/84 "2013-10-25T21:00:58Z")

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> [@corkboard](#):
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> Like so many other things, it depends on the person and the dress. One can look positively modest in a strapless dress, or one can look completely inappropriate.

… in a dress that covers everything up to the chin (anything of the “mermaid” type for example).

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**Author:** ![Tante\_Dillie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Tante\_Dillie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tante_Dillie)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2013, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/85 "2013-10-26T04:31:55Z")

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> [@HazelNutCoffee](#):
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> I decided to get my dress made because all I could find around here were poofy, strapless concoctions that made me look short and fat. I wanted something that I felt comfortable in, and that I could walk around in without too much trouble. I was really happy with what the seamstress came up with. I showed her a photo of a dress I liked and she made one very similar to it, with a few adjustments. Here’s a [photo](https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10100198083221460&l=a286cac02a) of me wearing the dress.

Hazel, you are _ **gorgeous** _! And so is your dress.

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2013, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/86 "2013-10-27T21:07:15Z")

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> [@SerafinaPekala](#):
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> Were those her engagement gift?

This made me laugh so hard that people on the bus are staring at me.

" Hey Ma, so do I go with the lace around the nippleautages, or is that tacky ? "

:eek:

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2013, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/87 "2013-10-27T21:09:33Z")

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> [@HazelNutCoffee](#):
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> I decided to get my dress made because all I could find around here were poofy, strapless concoctions that made me look short and fat. I wanted something that I felt comfortable in, and that I could walk around in without too much trouble. I was really happy with what the seamstress came up with. I showed her a photo of a dress I liked and she made one very similar to it, with a few adjustments. Here’s a [photo](https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10100198083221460&l=a286cac02a) of me wearing the dress.

The glow on your face was nicely enhanced by the dress on your corpus. What a happy bride !!! 🙂

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2013, 11:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/88 "2013-10-27T23:20:21Z")

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> [@alphaboi867](#):
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> if anything it symbolized that the bride’s father was rich enough to buy her a widely impractical dress which couldn’t even be cleaned & she’d never wear again.

I’m told that although my paternal grandmother wore white she and my grandfather were poor(he was a young minister) She altered the dress so she could wear it as a Sunday dress, and it was considered too “showy” by the hard headed German Lutherans of her husbands’ congregation. Judgemental older women were the worst.

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**Author:** ![Find\_Friends](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c37758/32.png) [@Find\_Friends](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Find_Friends)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2013, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/strapless-wedding-dresses-yea-or-nay/671216/89 "2013-10-27T23:39:54Z")

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Gown-less wedding straps? …

I mean–

:o

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