# Taking a break from the Dope

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [November 11, 2017, 10:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306 "2017-11-11T10:19:49Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2017, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/41 "2017-11-16T21:37:06Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> Expensive!! 😃
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> I only went once, and while I admit that the coffee was exceptionally good, it’s not my kind of vibe. It’s a “we’ll do everything for you because we know better” kind of place, and I like to add my own cream to my own taste. When I tried to tell the barista how much room to leave for cream, she told me: “Oh, we add the cream.”

Can’t really blame them. Anyone who puts cream or sugar in perfectly good coffee shouldn’t be trusted with anything!  
😛

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2017, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/42 "2017-12-30T18:32:36Z")

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And so, I’m back. I’ve been enjoying myself on Quora and the Guardian. Neither have the sense of community that the Dope has.

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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2017, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/43 "2017-12-30T18:41:36Z")

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> [@Quartz](#):
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> And so, I’m back. I’ve been enjoying myself on Quora and the Guardian. Neither have the sense of community that the Dope has.

Who are you again?

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2017, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/44 "2017-12-30T18:42:50Z")

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> [@Chefguy](#):
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> Who are you again?

He is a rock, he is an island.

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**Author:** ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2017, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/45 "2017-12-30T19:14:04Z")

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Welcome back! I’ve missed you.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2017, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/46 "2017-12-30T19:23:49Z")

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Welcome back.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2017, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/47 "2017-12-31T00:39:08Z")

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Yaay! One more old timer is always good.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2017, 3:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/48 "2017-12-31T03:01:32Z")

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> [@Quartz](#):
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> And so, I’m back. I’ve been enjoying myself on Quora and the Guardian. Neither have the sense of community that the Dope has.

I take breaks all the time here. Sometimes for a few weeks, or as long as a year. Take a step back, get into meatspace for a bit, remember that there’s more to life than arguing with people on the internet, etc. Sometimes this place is great and sometimes it’s really bad for my mental health.

Except I can’t really take breaks anymore. But I can still be selective about where I post - as I’m currently choosing to avoid any thread that is likely to send my blood pressure through the roof. It serves effectively the same function.

Having people with dissenting views leave the boards can only harm the spirit of discourse and critical thinking, so welcome back. And be careful not to paint everyone here with the same brush. There are plenty of us here who truly value other points of view.

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**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2017, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/49 "2017-12-31T03:15:02Z")

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Yeah. Been a member (till they charged at one point) since I think 99? It doesn’t matter.

Been taking long breaks from here for a long time - sometimes long, sometimes not, but the breaks always get me “right”. When the posters that I condider idiots/morons/douchebags, etc. start getting to me and I find myself thinking about them in real life, it’s time to bug out.

Welcome back, **Quartz**!!!

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**Author:** ![Sveltington](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sveltington](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sveltington)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2017, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-a-break-from-the-dope/801306/50 "2017-12-31T03:30:00Z")

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Welcome back. I am new. I have some rose quartz beads.

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