# Taking an indefinite break from the SMDB

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 12, 2006, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454 "2006-08-12T15:09:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/1 "2006-08-12T15:09:48Z")

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I wasn’t sure whether I should post a thread on this, as announcing one’s exit from a public message board seems the act of an egotisical prick. Then I remembered that I am an egotistical prick–albeit one who makes a kick-ass key lime pie–and also that I hate it when posters I like disappear without explanation.

So here’s mine. My membership is up at the end of the month, and I’ve decided not to re-up, at least not right away. There’s no tragic reason: it’s just that freelance work has been hard for me to scare up the last few months, and even though membership is cheap, it’s not something I want to put on the card next month. (It’s too bad I don’t have cable, or I could cut THAT off.) Hopefully I should return by December or so. In the meanwhile, someone else will have to start the pretentious threads about novels, salacious threads about pretty celebrities, and sneak into the occasional Pit or GD thread to make mordant, mostly irrevelant comments.

'Course, that doesn’t mean I shan’t be lurking, or starting at least two more novel-of-the-week threads between now and 31 August.

And that’s all I have to say at the moment. Proofreading awaiting.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/2 "2006-08-12T15:32:05Z")

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\*smacks \*_Skald \*\* with a trout, gently_

\*\*Now \*\*maybe you’ll get some work done, Worm! 😃

Seriously, have fun, get your worklife back together, and come back soon. I’ll miss ya.

Peace.

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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/3 "2006-08-12T15:41:30Z")

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[QUOTE=WhyNot]  
\*smacks \*_Skald \*\* with a trout, gently_

\*\*Now \*\*maybe you’ll get some work done, Worm! 😃

Seriously, have fun, get your worklife back together, and come back soon. I’ll miss ya.

Peace.  
[/QUOTE]

Hey! You’re only supposed to smack me with the trout when I’m goofing off! I’m DONE with the novel! (Except looking for typos & minor continuity errors.)

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**Author:** ![Larry\_Borgia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_borgia/32/156_2.png) [@Larry\_Borgia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Borgia)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/4 "2006-08-12T22:28:21Z")

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Sorry to hear it. I’ve enjoyed your CS threads. I Hope your financial situation improves.

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**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/5 "2006-08-12T22:59:41Z")

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You realize that whenever the novel _does_ get published, you’re contractually obliged to sign up long enough to tell us. I think half of CS feels like we’ve read it already.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/6 "2006-08-12T23:05:38Z")

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[QUOTE=Chronos]  
You realize that whenever the novel _does_ get published, you’re contractually obliged to sign up long enough to tell us. I think half of CS feels like we’ve read it already.  
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And the other half feels like we’ve written it!

😃

I kid because I love. **Skald** , if you’re not an active Doper when it gets published, you better drop me an email and let me know the title so I can buy a copy!

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**Author:** ![Clockwork\_And\_Candy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b782af/32.png) [@Clockwork\_And\_Candy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Clockwork_And_Candy)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/7 "2006-08-12T23:12:26Z")

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[smug] You’ll be back. They _always_ come back. [/smug]

Yeah, no. Anyway, I generally avoid “goodbye” threads, 'cause they seem very attention grabbing and pointless IMO, but I just wanted to pop in say that I liked reading the majority of the topics you started and I’ll miss having you around to, uh, start them.

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Bye.

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**Author:** ![Winston\_Smith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e95f7d/32.png) [@Winston\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winston_Smith)\
**Post date:** [August 12, 2006, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/8 "2006-08-12T23:46:58Z")

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Shant? Did you really say shant?

: titter :

Happy trails! Best of luck! I’ve enjoyed your posts and I hope you find your way back. /Winston

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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/9 "2006-08-13T01:18:41Z")

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[QUOTE=Clockwork And Candy]  
[smug] You’ll be back. They _always_ come back. [/smug]

Yeah, no. Anyway, I generally avoid “goodbye” threads, 'cause they seem very attention grabbing and pointless IMO, but I just wanted to pop in say that I liked reading the majority of the topics you started and I’ll miss having you around to, uh, start them.

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Bye.  
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I didn’t mean this to be a goodbye thread, just a not-gonna-be-posting-for-a-bit-thread-but-don’t-worry-they-haven’t-committed-me-despite-the-bit-I-wrote-back-in-April-about-a-weekend-in-the-psych-ward thread.

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**Author:** ![Lissla\_Lissar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lissla\_Lissar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissla_Lissar)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 12:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/10 "2006-08-13T12:54:56Z")

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Drat. Well, come back soon. I’ll miss your threads.

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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 2:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/11 "2006-08-13T14:20:01Z")

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[QUOTE=Winston Smith]  
Shant? Did you really say shant?

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[pedant]  
😕

Um, no. I WROTE “shan’t.” After all, if I’d _said_ it, you would have _heard_ it, not read it.  
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Apropos of nothing – where the HELL IS MY FREAKING HAPPY JEWISH MAN SMILEY???

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/12 "2006-08-13T14:34:52Z")

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[QUOTE=Skald the Rhymer]  
…snip…  
Then I remembered that I am an egotistical prick–albeit one who makes a kick-ass key lime pie–…snip…  
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Good luck with the novel, but when come back “Bring key lime pie”

Jim

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**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/13 "2006-08-13T14:42:31Z")

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Seems pretty weak to me. I don’t give a shit about you or your posts (other than however much I enjoy any particular one, like everyone else’s) but I would happily pay your subscription if you like. Email me if you want.

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**Author:** ![Eureka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/74df32/32.png) [@Eureka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eureka)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2006, 10:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/14 "2006-08-13T22:10:06Z")

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Thank you, **don’t ask**.

I’ve been wanting to write something along the lines of “If it’s only (mostly) the money, surely someone would be willing to pay for you” --but since I didn’t want to be that person–budgetary reasons, coupled with my own potential upcoming break from the SMDB\*, not anti- **Skald the Rhymer** reasons-- I felt silly doing so.

\*I have a new job. This will involve lifestyle changes which may reduce my access to the SMDB dramatically.

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**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 7:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/15 "2006-08-14T07:30:59Z")

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I look forward to your return! We don’t talk often, but I do notice your comments and appreciate what you have to say. If I were you, I would have a big ego too! 😃

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/16 "2006-08-14T16:20:47Z")

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I hope this wasn’t too forward, but you’re all set if you want to continue. No pressure, but you would really be missed.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/17 "2006-08-14T16:35:12Z")

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Oh damn, I’m really going to miss you. Lots. I love your Cafe Society threads, even the ones I don’t participate in. I am reading Lord Foul’s Bane because of your thread. I’m planning to re-read LOTR after the move because of your thread.

Oh well. I’d take your place, 'cept I don’t think I could come up with such great threads. It’s always good to have someone in CS with a like mindset.

On preview, I see that **gigi** seems to have paid your way? I hope you can still stick around!

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**Author:** ![OneCentStamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/13edae/32.png) [@OneCentStamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OneCentStamp)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/18 "2006-08-14T17:13:17Z")

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I’ve always liked your threads, but you really cemented your coolness in my mind just now, when you admitted that you would rather cancel your cable TV (if you had it) than your SDMB subscription. 🆒

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**Author:** ![Tracy\_Lord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@Tracy\_Lord](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tracy_Lord)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/19 "2006-08-14T18:58:25Z")

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[QUOTE=gigi]  
I hope this wasn’t too forward, but you’re all set if you want to continue. No pressure, but you would really be missed.  
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Beat me to it! 🙂

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2006, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/taking-an-indefinite-break-from-the-smdb/368454/20 "2006-08-14T19:02:16Z")

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:smack: I misread your thread title and thought you were taking a break from the SDMB!

What’s this fascinating SMDB you’re not visiting?

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