# Techniques for getting women riled up for sex **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 26, 2012, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877 "2012-09-26T13:16:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2012, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/61 "2012-09-28T16:57:02Z")
> [@PandaBear77](#): > > In my (admittedly limited) experience – it’s a rare man that can keep his mouth shut. For all the bitching guys do about women and their incessant talking I’ve found women to be more tightlipped about bedroom matters than men. Most guys who score will eventually blab to at least one of their buddies. That hasn’t been my experience. Guys will say, “I totally scored last night. or I hit that last night.” I’ve had several exes compare dick sizes amongst their boyfriends. ---
**Author:** ![Find\_Friends](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c37758/32.png) [@Find\_Friends](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Find_Friends)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2012, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/62 "2012-09-28T17:04:29Z")
> [@Moonlitherial](#): > > Clean up after yourself, cook dinner, clean up after her, compliment her, show affection that’s not directly related to sex, don’t be an ass. Huh? > [@Lynn\_Bodoni](#): > > Let me put it in terms that the average man is likely to understand. I’m going to be horribly sexist here, and paint men with a broad brush. > > Let’s say you have a car/truck/motorcycle… You gotta perform regular maintenance… Wow! Now I understand! Thank you, Lynn. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Lukeinva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lukeinva/32/17872_2.png) [@Lukeinva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lukeinva)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2012, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/63 "2012-09-28T17:22:30Z")
Don’t argue with her agree with her. But you have to do it in the way that tells her you support her points of view. About anything. Also, shop at Tiffany’s occasionally. Hold the door for her and compliment her on her looks, and say I love you once in a while. She will watch how you treat others so always be polite and well mannered, and she won’t be off looking for another guy. ---
**Author:** ![Jaledin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Jaledin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jaledin)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/64 "2012-09-29T04:10:48Z")
> [@Malacandra](#): > > No, it’s not all. OK. I do think there is a lot to be said for being a very attentive “lover,” but thank God I don’t have to worry about people who disagree. BTW you make some very good points. Good for you, and good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Klaatu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Klaatu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Klaatu)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/65 "2012-09-29T06:13:04Z")
2000 bucks and an 8 ball of coke. ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/66 "2012-09-29T14:17:35Z")
> [@Happy\_Lendervedder](#): > > [Leopard-print googly-eyed elephant underpants](http://www.ebay.com/itm/Sexy-Elephants-Nose-Leopard-Wild-Temptation-Grain-Mens-G-string-Underpants-man-/261090281515?pt=US_CSA_MC_Underwear&hash=item3cca31882b). Drives the ladies horny with laughter. I love you. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/67 "2012-09-29T14:25:49Z")
If I may paraphrase: Candy is dandy, but lick her is quicker. ---
**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/68 "2012-09-29T15:08:01Z")
You’re asking _us_? Especially after reading that last comment, we might be the last people you want as mentors… ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/69 "2012-09-29T15:24:04Z")
Riled? Never went there. I guess if you challenged her, made it interesting, made it fun, and made her want to to say to herself, “Oh, its So ON…!” between you. But there would have to be some sexual chemistry & tension between you to begin with. Oh, you don’t have to thank me now; making me sole beneficiary in your Will would be thanks enough. ---
**Author:** ![claramorena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@claramorena](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/claramorena)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/70 "2012-09-29T20:50:52Z")
> [@Loach](#): > > Like that will ever work.. It’s crazy enough to work! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/71 "2012-09-29T23:28:35Z")
> [@badger5149](#): > > I think sex drive needs to be defined. There are a lot of things in life that will manifiest themselves as sex drive when we really just want to do something to feel better about ourselves. An orgasm produces chemicals that give us a good feeling. Lots of negative aspects to our lives can make us desire sex. Boredom, loneliness, lack of self esteem, even anger can generate a strong desire for sex. > I find when my creative juices are flowing the strongest my thoughts about sex are deminished even though I may respond to it very well when seduced or even just flirted with. Getting a little ballance in our lives will usually ballance out our sex drive as well, sometimes it will increase or decrease but it should help to stablize it. > In a relationship I feel like a sexual encounter should be “successful” as often as possible. Success doesn’t neccessarily mean an orgasm. If I feel a resentment was resolved, or a bond was strengthened or maybe I just felt like she walked away feeling a little more sexualy powerful I consider the encounter successful. I very much enjoy the feeling of being seduced, I also enjoy watching a woman gain confidence as her seduction works it magic. I feel very appreciative that she was able to steal my mind away from something I may have been obsessing over and steer it toward focusing on her body. I like the way women behave after they have successfully transformed my entire thinking process and I am happy to give them the small reward they seem to want which is usually no more than some undivided attention and affection. Sex is a beautiful ritual that can fix a lot of imperfections in a relationship. Any other women here in love with badger? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![justpassingthrough](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bcef8e/32.png) [@justpassingthrough](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/justpassingthrough)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2012, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/72 "2012-09-30T03:18:47Z")
> [@Helena330](#): > > Any other women here in love with badger? 😉 Weak at the knees swooning. ---
**Author:** ![Bouncer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9d8465/32.png) [@Bouncer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bouncer)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2012, 1:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/73 "2012-10-01T01:12:52Z")
Date strippers or other women who are insecure and use sex to get approval? I know I know, I’m a bad person and hate women and yadda yadda. But honestly, you want more sex, seems to me you should be dating women who are used to using sex to get what they want/need. Keep in mind all the other issues you may also be dealing with. /shrug Regards, -Bouncer- ---
**Author:** ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2012, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877/74 "2012-10-03T20:53:05Z")
> [@listedmia](#): > > When you do have sex, pay attention to what she seems to be enjoying and do _that_ a lot. Problem is getting off of her and rolling over is the antithesis of what the OP wants. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/techniques-for-getting-women-riled-up-for-sex/635877.md?page=3)