That’s not necessarily a con for everybody. I hate menu planning (I always end up wanting to eat something different than what I planned, anyway). And I hate, with the fire of a thousand suns, long trips to the grocery store where I have to go through every aisle. I find lots of short trips to the grocery store much less unpleasant and stressful than one long trip. So I like being able to walk to the grocery store and pick up a few things for tonight’s dinner.
I do use my car to go to the grocery store when I need to get heavy stuff (like 2-liter bottles of soda) or bulky stuff (like big packages of toilet paper) that would be hard to carry. I could use a granny cart or something with a bike (if I rode a bike) to do that if I wanted to, though.
And you might have to figure out an alternate route on your own. I suck at figuring out alternate routes, because I have no sense of direction, so I hate it when I have to do it.
I don’t understand this desire to be in control all the time. If you’re in control, you can screw up- if you’re not, it’s harder to screw up. The harder it is for me to screw things up, the happier I am. A fairly common bad dream for me is one where I’m in a car accident, and it’s my fault- I’m always glad to wake up from that one.
Traffic stopped ahead of me? I’m in for a long afternoon of inching forward, which is much more boring than even a bad book. Or I can try to find an alternate route and be in for a long afternoon of being lost and possibly still stuck in traffic.
If someone else offers to drive me somewhere, I almost never turn them down- I hate driving. And I don’t feel dependent.
A big pro of not driving everywhere- you don’t have to look for parking! If you walk, you don’t even have to worry about finding somewhere to chain up a bike.
Of course. I try to live in neighborhoods where I can live mostly car-free, though, since I hate driving and looking for parking. It can be done, and what’s more it’s usually easier to do in neighborhoods where jobs are easier to find… You don’t get a big house with a big yard in the suburbs out of it, but I don’t find that particularly desirable anyway. You don’t end up doing all your shopping at Super Wal-Mart or the equivalent, but that’s not something I want to do either.