I wrote a bit of an essay on a similar thread topic on the Baseball Fever forums. I’ve probably even mentioned the salient points of this story before on the SDMB.
But in summary:
Despite growing up in Flushing and playing a fair amount of informal baseball, and despite taking the #7 subway train past Shea Stadium every day to go to high school from 1983-1988, I was never a pro sports fan, much less a Mets fan.
In college, I first began paying attention to pro sports of any kind when a roommate of mine from Chicago harped on constantly about the Bulls and the Knicks in the 1991 NBA playoffs. I ended up watching the games with him and rooting for the my hometown Knicks just to see his big mouth get what it should have had coming to it. Unfortunately, the boys in orange and blue did not come through with the upset victory. Despite this, I began to get hooked on following the team, setting a pattern for future pain. By 1994 I was living and dying with every shot in the NBA Finals, hyperventilated in the 4th quarter and felt like someone ran over my pet when they lost Game 7. Huh! So people do this to themselves for fun, do they? I was better off not getting involved. But, it was too late.
One of my best friends is a passionate Yankees fan, and I watched most of the games in the 1996 World Series with him. He was literally moved to tears, and Ifelt something compelling in seeing pros play baseball, a game I associated with carefree summers of my youth, at its highest level.
So, I tried being a Yankees fan. It didn’t work out. First, this same friend convinced me to get into a small Rotisserie baseball league he started, which was simpler to keep track of in an NL (no DH) format, and due to the small number of participants he further simplified by making it an NL East Roto League. Thus making me start following NL East baseball.
He’s still kicking himself about that setup but it probably would have happened anyway. Because once I started following baseball on TV and radio, especially radio, I found I just could not stand the Yankees vibe. I was not coming in with ANY preconceptions of “Yankee fans are insufferable arrogant bastards” (given that my best friend is one), and in fact as a native New Yorker would have thought a priori that such an label was to be carried with pride. No, it’s the “focus on the glory and simply ignore the inglorious” attitude that came through even in the broadcasting style in the TV and radio booths, John Sterling (the “Voice Of The Yankees”) in particular, with his shticky home run calls and “the-e-e-e-e-e Yankees win!” signoff, and a typical play-by-play going like this: “Runners on 2nd and 3rd with 2 out, a hit will plate two. Here’s the pitch, Annnnd… A ground ball, it’s a sharp base hit into right field, [the right fielder] picks up the ball and throws it in and they hold [X] at third, one run has scored.” So why do you always say “a hit will plate two” in this situation? EVERY TIME? YOU BLATHERING IDIOT!
I then found Bob Murphy and Gary Cohen on the radio dial, who are much more to my liking. Even though the Mets were not as good on the field as the Yankees, there was something there that reminded me of why I fell in love with the Knicks of the early 1990s: some of the biggest contributors were overachieving, “who the heck is this? / what the heck was that?” types of players and plays. That vibe resonated with me from a fan perspective.
The the legacy of the Mets and the vibe of the fan base is to want to see “something amazing”. The comeback over the wire-to-wire victory, the story of the “unheralded rookie has breakout year” versus how the “acquired player signed to the biggest contract ever wins the MVP award”. The team ridiculed and left for dead stunning the world by winning it all in 1969, and going to Game 7 of the World Series in 1973, or shocking the Red Sox even after the scoreboard operator at Shea Stadium had already congratulated them for winning the World Series…
Dana Brand wrote an essay (and a book) about this that sums it up even better:
*Mets fans tend to think of the Mets as a fundamentally bad team that, every once in a while, briefly and magnificently rises up to play against type. When the Mets win, the fans feel as if they themselves have willed the team forward. …
Mets fans live to be a part of miracles… They want astonished fun… the pleasure of the unexpected, even of the undeserved.
This is what has hooked us. This is what we long for. This is why, however much we hate them at times, we love to love this team.*