I dream in color, but occasionally, it’s nighttime in my dream, so it’s very dark and the colors are muted. I’m not sure if there’s sound in my dreams. I know I communicate with other people, but when I wake up I can never remember if they spoke to me or if we communicated telepathically. I don’t know if I can taste or smell anything in my dreams; I don’t remember ever doing so. Sensations of touch are usually quite vague, if they exist at all, but sometimes they can be disturbingly acute. I once dreamed that I had to remove a pearl necklace that had grown into my skin, and for days afterward I was creeped out by the remembered sensation of pulling the necklace and feeling the pearls pop out of my flesh one by one.
I dream in first and third person. Often, I’m watching me at the same time I’m being me.
I used to dream of flying quite frequently. When I was a child, there was a time when I believed that I could fly, or that I’d been able to fly when I was younger, but I always kept my ability secret. I have a distinct memory of floating down the stairs to breakfast once.
I don’t dream lucidly, but in recent years, I’ve found I can sometimes affect my dreams through force of will. If I really, really want something to happen, it probably will, although I’m not conscious of having that control. Similarly, I’m sometimes aware of reality but not always affected by it. I once had a dream that was leading up to me having sex with my stepsister boyfriend, but at the last minute I remembered that I shouldn’t have sex with him and didn’t; another time, I dreamed that I met a really cute guy that I wanted to sleep with, and I was aware that I shouldn’t because I would be cheating on my fiance, but I did anyway (and feel horribly guilty the next day). If a dream ends badly and I wake up scared, I calm myself by imagining what I should have done to give the dream a better ending; frequently, as I fall back asleep, I reenter the dream and change it.
I have one recurring nightmare - I’m in the bathroom, usually getting ready to go to a big event, and I suddenly realize that I’m going bald. (I’m female, and my hair is the physical feature I’m most proud of.) I think of these as my hubris dreams.
There are many recurring places in my dreams that don’t exist, or exist in an altered state, in real life. Some of these locations have occurred so often in various dreams that it seems odd to have never visited them in real life. I’ve considered drawing out a map of my dream-world, but there are some significant gaps. (I can connect dream-Milwaukee to the vast dream-suburbs, but I don’t know where the dream-forest is located in relationship to them, or whether the dream-river and dream-marsh are part of the dream-forest or a separate area.)