# Tell Me Something You’re Not Supposed To Say

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 25, 2022, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064 "2022-12-25T03:34:53Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/slow_moving_vehicle/32/291_2.png) [@Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slow_Moving_Vehicle)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2022, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/141 "2022-12-27T22:26:05Z")

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I’m still a little bit racist, despite my best efforts.

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**Author:** ![Ulfreida](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ulfreida/32/8014_2.png) [@Ulfreida](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ulfreida)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2022, 10:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/142 "2022-12-27T22:57:07Z")

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> [@ZonexandScout](#):
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> This must be an unusual neighborhood. My wife is on ours all the time and has many positive experiences. Nearly every single day, somebody is dropping things off at our house free (fresh eggs, an unused kitchen appliance, some crafting supplies) or picking something up (old newspapers, table lamps we no longer need, a special tool). We also learn about suspicious characters and vehicles in the neighborhood, recent break-ins, deaths and illnesses, electrical and water service work, contractors, and so forth.

That’s mine too. I just got rid of a pile of Fine Gardening magazines yesterday; someone was developing her interest in collage. A lot of “know a good mechanic?” type questions, and today there was a spirited discussion of heat pumps.

People who are jerks or ranters don’t get much of an audience.

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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 1:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/143 "2022-12-28T01:39:15Z")

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John Donne was wrong. There are certain deaths I would cheer.

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**Author:** ![Galactus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/galactus/32/3581_2.png) [@Galactus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Galactus)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 3:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/144 "2022-12-28T03:38:14Z")

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Woody Allen is not a great filmmaker.

It’s OK to like Adam Sandler movies.

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**Author:** ![Galactus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/galactus/32/3581_2.png) [@Galactus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Galactus)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 5:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/145 "2022-12-28T05:39:30Z")

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The Terminator in T2 should not have destroyed itself. It had learned empathy. It should have used its empathic AI to create Sky Net.

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**Author:** ![Horatius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/horatius/32/3572_2.png) [@Horatius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Horatius)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/146 "2022-12-28T06:02:49Z")

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> [@Galactus](#):
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> It should have used its empathic AI to create Sky Net.

…or, you know, just kill anyone who tried to reverse engineer it.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/147 "2022-12-28T14:13:25Z")

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While this year I just hung a wreath on the door and plugged in the party lights wrapped around a houseplant still I don’t understand the rush to undo all the trappings of Christmas, it’s depressing to see Christmas trees out on the curb already on the 26. We’d leave it all up until epiphany at least.

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**Author:** ![lum\_s\_husband](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lum_s_husband/32/3698_2.png) [@lum\_s\_husband](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lum_s_husband)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/148 "2022-12-28T14:52:00Z")

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It is not the dress that is making your ass look fat.

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**Author:** ![Moriarty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/moriarty/32/49_2.png) [@Moriarty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moriarty)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/149 "2022-12-28T14:55:44Z")

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I totally respect you. And it’s not meant in a bad way. At all.

But, yes, I’ve imagined you naked.

I’ve even imagined you naked and…doing stuff.

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**Author:** ![Shoeless](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shoeless/32/7099_2.png) [@Shoeless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shoeless)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/150 "2022-12-28T15:06:56Z")

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I forget which Vonnegut novel it was where he made a statement like “Just because you _can_ reproduce, it doesn’t mean you _should_.”

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/151 "2022-12-28T15:08:21Z")

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> [@kitap](#):
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> If you can’t go to a party, wedding, etc., without have booze while you’re there, you have a booze problem.

Well yes. The problem is there’s no booze at this party!

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/779978/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats2)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/152 "2022-12-28T15:09:42Z")

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> I also worry that there are people on the left who, if given the opportunity, would behave just as badly as people on the right are acting.

On the other hand, and here’s my example of something you’re not supposed to say, the Democrats need to stop worrying about being polite and not offending people and being all middle of the road acceptable. They HAVE to start raising hell, and fighting dirty to win.

At least some. Not be batshit crazy about it, but c’mon! GET PISSED OFF!!!

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/153 "2022-12-28T15:25:00Z")

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> Well yes. The problem is there’s no booze at this party!

Yep. I’ll attend all sorts of dry events because I want to be there. A wedding? Honestly, I’d rather not attend. However, I will attend with the promise of copious volumes of refreshment.

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**Author:** ![lum\_s\_husband](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lum_s_husband/32/3698_2.png) [@lum\_s\_husband](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lum_s_husband)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/154 "2022-12-28T16:16:25Z")

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Equal protection before the law is a fiction, as can be seen on this very board.

To paraphrase: “Stop complaining that Trump is not being treated like anyone else would; Trump is not like anyone else.”

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**Author:** ![Eyebrows\_0f\_Doom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eyebrows_0f_doom/32/3119_2.png) [@Eyebrows\_0f\_Doom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eyebrows_0f_Doom)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/155 "2022-12-28T19:25:31Z")

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Just claiming something is part of your/their/a culture does not automatically mean it’s good and acceptable.

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**Author:** ![Baal\_Houtham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/baal_houtham/32/13604_2.png) [@Baal\_Houtham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baal_Houtham)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/156 "2022-12-28T19:57:47Z")

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> [@TokyoBayer](#):
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> IIRC, your husband wasn’t even aware that covered pots boil faster.

This was probably ‘covered’ in that discussion, but the efficiency difference isn’t huge — so it’s not amazing for someone to not be aware of it.

For example ([from Cook’s Illustrated](https://www.americastestkitchen.com/cooksillustrated/how_tos/6646-covered-vs-uncovered-pots-for-boiling-water)):  
When we brought 4 quarts of water to a boil in covered and uncovered stainless steel Dutch ovens, the covered pot boiled in just over 12 minutes and the uncovered pot boiled in 13 minutes and 15 seconds. But why waste even a small amount of heat when it’s so easy not to? That said, since you’re not losing time or energy until the water begins to steam, put the water on to heat first and then go hunting for the lid.

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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [December 28, 2022, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/157 "2022-12-28T23:55:56Z")

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Well if the lid is on, how will I know when it is boiling?

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2022, 12:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/158 "2022-12-29T00:13:27Z")

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Maybe use pots with tempered glass lids?

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**Author:** ![BobLibDem](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/boblibdem/32/3149_2.png) [@BobLibDem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobLibDem)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2022, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/159 "2022-12-29T01:03:06Z")

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Military personnel are not my heroes. It’s a career choice and it’s something society needs, but I feel no need to gush over you and not over my mailman, garbage man, dentist, doctor, utility worker, and all the others that make society function. Nothing personal, but I don’t see what makes you worthy of adoration nor do I put more stock in your political opinions than those of anyone else.

Statues do not teach history, they show what we value. We know all about Hitler without being exposed to statues of him. There is no valid reason to continue to display statues of people who waged war against our nation.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2022, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-something-you-re-not-supposed-to-say/977064/160 "2022-12-29T03:36:47Z")

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**BobLibDem** , I _like_ that last paragraph.

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