# Tell me you're a woman

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 22, 2023, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625 "2023-01-22T21:54:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/41 "2023-01-23T15:30:04Z")

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> [@Riemann](#):
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> But when the first few posts are gender expression stereotypes

Pretty much every response in a thread like this is expected to be a gender expression stereotype. If the thread subject had said “name a common female stereotype that applies to you”, would you feel better about this discussion?

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**Author:** ![SanVito](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sanvito/32/2805_2.png) [@SanVito](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanVito)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/42 "2023-01-23T15:41:08Z")

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THANK YOU for attempting to rescue this thread.

I’ll try with this similar thought. When I saw this Samsung ad, I thought “well, that was a man’s idea”.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/XCbHdzNRVvk/maxresdefault.jpg "Samsung Galaxy Night Owls") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCbHdzNRVvk)

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/43 "2023-01-23T16:26:52Z")

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When I walk out of the drs office, I have to ask them which way to the exit. (Truth). Bad with directions.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/44 "2023-01-23T16:36:51Z")

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> [@engineer\_comp\_geek](#):
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> It’s meant to be a bit of fun.

Reinforcing stereotypes is “a bit of fun”?

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/45 "2023-01-23T16:49:59Z")

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Maybe you should tell them that in the Tell me you’re a man thread.

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**Author:** ![alovem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@alovem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alovem)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/46 "2023-01-23T16:51:25Z")

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Disclaimer: I’m not, but this is something I actually overheard:

A: Wait, a white shark?

B: Yeah, a white shark.

A: What, like snow, or milk or paper or something?

B: Ash.

A: Ahhh.

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**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/47 "2023-01-23T17:00:16Z")

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I did.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/48 "2023-01-23T17:02:17Z")

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I tried to tell everyone I was a woman but nobody listened until a man told them I was a woman.

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/49 "2023-01-23T17:13:50Z")

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It didn’t derail it, did it?

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**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/50 "2023-01-23T17:15:56Z")

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The difference between the two threads is that women are more harmed by gender stereotypes than men. I’m glad to see the pushback in this one.

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/51 "2023-01-23T17:30:19Z")

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Are we so fragile we have to be protected against people thinking we eat frosting?  
That was my first time though.  
And last.  
🧁🍰🍩

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/52 "2023-01-23T17:42:15Z")

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Yeah. Move on to marshmallow cream.

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/53 "2023-01-23T17:48:34Z")

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I have read Martha Stewarts magazine.

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**Author:** ![EastUmpqua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eastumpqua/32/6025_2.png) [@EastUmpqua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EastUmpqua)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/54 "2023-01-23T18:18:59Z")

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> [@DocCathode](#):
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> AFAIK, we only have one trans woman left on the SDMB

Just curious, how do you know that?

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**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/55 "2023-01-23T18:33:24Z")

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> [@Helena330](#):
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> The difference between the two threads is that women are more harmed by gender stereotypes than men. I’m glad to see the pushback in this one.

I really want to tell you how I feel about that, but I’m a guy, so I’m just gonna ball those feelings up in a knot and push 'em down so they never see the light of day. Don’t worry about me, it’s OK, it doesn’t hurt.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/56 "2023-01-23T18:51:01Z")

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I sometimes store stuff in my bra.

I keep a tissue stuffed up my sleeve when I hab a cold

I let my underthings drip dry after washing.

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**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/57 "2023-01-23T19:00:00Z")

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You’re absolutely right. The strong, silent male stereotype is quite harmful to men. My apologies. Maybe we’re further along in calling out women’s stereotypes?

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**Author:** ![Knowed\_Out](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/knowed_out/32/7380_2.png) [@Knowed\_Out](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knowed_Out)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 8:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/58 "2023-01-23T20:15:02Z")

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And now I will talk about what everyone was wearing at the cat show.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/59 "2023-01-23T20:21:21Z")

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I claim the all counter space in the bathroom for my skin and hair products.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2023, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tell-me-youre-a-woman/978625/60 "2023-01-23T20:22:26Z")

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I have nothing I want to wear but my closet is stuffed full.

I always need new shoes.

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