Tell us about the time you were most frightened

Mine also pales in comparison here, but it was scary at the time. My family was visiting a place along the Washington State coast. My little brother and I had been turned loose to play on the beach. We’d picked our way down some steep bluffs and of course we lost track of time while we wandered down the beach and poked around in tidepools and such. Anyway, I suddenly realized that the tide had had been coming in for some time, and was now rising fast. We were on a narrow strip, maybe 3 feet wide, between waves rolling in and the cliffs. The path back up was not marked and we couldn’t find it. Pretty soon our feet were getting wet – the high tide mark on the rocks was well above our heads.

Anyway, I finally decided to just climb up the rocks before the water got any higher. I picked my way up and coached my brother on where the handholds and footholds were, and we eventually made it up. It was VERY scary – especially since I was responsible for my brother. We were maybe 11 and 7 at the time.

Hmmm, so many to chose from. There was the time I was lost in the desert with a herd of sheep and a couple muts and had to spend the night in a canyon. Or the time a snake popped out of a bag of wool I was carding. Or the time I realized half-way up a mountain that I’m scared shitless of heights. Or the time I got a call from an EMT that my boyfriend (now husband) had a “falling accident” and the line cut out before I could find out if he was ok and what hospital he was at (eventually I found him; he had slipped on the ice and broken his leg). Or the time they had to perform an emergency c-section on my sister, and we almost lost both her and my nephew (but that’s another happy ending).

But the time that really takes the cake was a month and a half ago. My father has Parkinson’s Disease, and at times he can barely walk, but, man, can he swim, go up and down stairs, and play pool and ping-pong. So, one sunny but chilly Friday afternoon, he and my neice and I were going for a swim. My father and I had jumped in while my mom was getting the neice into her swimming regalia (swimsuit, bubble, goggles), but I had to put her ear-plugs in because they can be a bit tricky. So, I’m standing in the shallow end and she’s on the side and we’re having a heck of a time getting them in right. My mom, meanwhile, is wiping off the lawn chairs so she can have a seat.

Then it dawns on me: Where is Papa? I saw him dive in and swim to the shallow end to give Mom his watch, but…

I look over to the deep end and see nothing but bubbles coming up to the surface. I start screaming and swimming as fast as I can; I see him totally motionless at the bottom of the pool. Eight feet down. This is an image that will haunt me for the rest of my life. My mom, in a fit of super-human, Girl-Scout-trained strength and clarity, jumps in fully-clothed and drags him up. He’s blue but breathing raggedly as she drags him towards the ladder in the shallow end. Meanwhile, I’m having a frantic, not-to-coherent conversation with the 911 operator. And my father just walks right out of the pool and sits down, seemingly unaffected if a bit dazed. The cops and EMTs come and take him away to the hospital.

Mom and I get changed and are preparing to go over to the hospital to see him. I go to lock up the gate around the pool, and as I’m doing so what should wander into the yard but a black bear. I look at him, he looks at me, I realize there’s nothing but a flimsy gate between me and him, and I start to panic. My mom starts to come out the back door to see what’s taking so long, and I think my exact words were, “Holy shit, it’s a mother-fucking bear!” But the bear kept moseying past the house, so my mom and I hopped in the car to go pick up my sister (who lives a couple houses away), when lo-and-behold, the bear is sitting pretty in her yard …

This is a great thread – lots of interesting, scary stories here. Here’s mine:

When I was 12, my family was stationed at a US Army base in Germany. I loved Germany, but around that time we started learning about WWII and the Holocaust in school. I think we read the Diary of Anne Frank and a couple other Holocaust related things, and I developed a grim fascination with the subject. I checked out a bunch of books from the library, read about how the Nazis would round people up, shoot them in the streets, send them to concentration camps, etc. My dad took my sister and I to visit Dachau, which made it even more incomprehensible and frightening that this beautiful, friendly country I was living in could have done such evil. Then, one night there was a windstorm and part of the fence that surrounded the base blew down, and some neo-Nazi punks broke in, trashed the base theater, and spray-painted swastikas all over the place. So that brought the possibility to my already feverish 12 year old brain that there were still actual Nazis out there.

My family lived in a house in a little German town off base. One night, not long after the neo-Nazis had broken into base, I took my bike down to the little general store in the center of town to buy some candy. I was looking around, when suddenly I noticed, to my horror, a big poster tacked to a wall advertising the Hitler Youth! I didn’t speak much German, but I recognized “Hitler Jugend,” and the swastikas were a dead giveaway. My mind started racing a hundred miles a minute. I decided I’d better get home immediately, so I dropped what I was holding and headed for the door. Outside it had suddenly gotten very dark, and just as I was about to leave the building, a car pulled up outside and stopped right in front of the store. It had dark tinted windows, which rolled down to reveal a couple young guys in dark clothes with shaved heads. Holy shit, I thought – skinheads!!! They didn’t get out of the car, but just sat there, and one of them turned and looked at me for a moment. I was in a panic, sure, somehow, that neo-Nazis were prowling the streets and would kill me if they figured out I was American. I went over to the old woman behind the counter – the woman who had always seemed so nice, but suddenly seemed cold and distant – and asked in halting German if I could use the phone to call my parents. No, she said, I’d have to go use the phone in the church up the street. So I walked around the store for a few minutes, waiting for the car of skinheads to drive away. But they just sat there, not doing anything, and all the while that horrible Hitler Youth poster was hanging over my head and I had the feeling the woman behind the counter was staring at me. Finally, I decided to risk it, so I waited for a moment when I thought the skinheads weren’t looking, then I ran out of the store, jumped on my bike, and pedaled furiously to the church to call my parents. I got to the church, jumped off my bike, and tried the door – it was locked. Holy shit, holy shit! I pounded on it for a second to no avail, then jumped back on my bike and zoomed home as fast as possible. To my annoyance, my parents were singularly unconcerned about the neo-Nazi invasion. The next day they walked me back down to the store, took a look at the poster, and explained that it was an advertisement for a new book or magazine or something about the Hitler Youth, not a recruiting poster. I felt like a moron. The old lady who worked in the store seemed completely friendly and normal again. The “skinheads” I’m still not sure about – most likely they were regular people with short haircuts minding their own business, but who knows. Overall it was just a big case of overactive imagination

So that’s probably the most scared I’ve ever been. I’ve been in much greater, actual danger a couple times since then, but that was when I was older and felt more able to take charge of the situation. Being 12 and thinking the Nazis were out to get you – whew.

Mine is pretty weak compared to the rest of these but it scared the crap out of me.

I was 16 and on a 96 mile, 9 day canoe trip on the Flambeau River in northwest Wisconsin. It was about 4 days in and we hadn’t seen anyone or a city for a couple days. We set up camp early, as we got to rest the whole next day. Now, there wasn’t a road, let alone a city for miles from our campsite. After setting up, one of the girls and I decided it would be fun to explore the forest a little. It was beautiful there. There were huge trees that were all crooked and covered in lichen, also the ground was covered in boulders and everything was covered in moss. It reminded me of something out of a fairy tale.

We were walking and talking for awhile, and then I noticed the tress had changed to pine and I couldn’t see anything familiar. We did a good job of staying calm and trying to figure out wich way the campsite was. I tried listening for the rapids of the river we were camped next to, but we couldn’t here anything. We started yelling at the top of lungs for the two counselors that were in charge of our group so that we could follow thier voices out, but they couldn’t here us. We tried just turning around and walking the way we thought we had come, that only brought us to an area with lots of old poplars.

She started freaking out (I was just as freaked, but I wasn’t gonna show it) and I told her it would be Ok and we needed to stay calm. That was the moment panic tried to take hold. It was also the most humbling experience of my life. I’ve been lost before, but not in the middle of a huge national forest with nothing but the clothes on my back and scared girl with me.

I started backtracking again. I don’t know how (probably just chance) I found the fairy woods again but I did, eventually. After that it was easy enough to find our way out. We were gone a total of 3 1/2 hours. We got yelled at and were scraped and bruised but we made it and didn’t tell anyone we got lost. On after thought I think they figured that out on thier own, since they were looking for us for the last hour we were gone.

I should probably add that I have been in more dangerous and scary situations than this, but this was the most small and alone I’ve ever felt.

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The most frightening moment I’ve ever had happened when I was about sixteen and was staying home alone while my parents were out of town. It was late at night, and I was in bed, trying to sleep through a terrific thunderstorm. Suddenly, the burglar alarm went off. I raced over to the panel to check to see which door had been opened, and horror washed through me. Four zones were flashing, indicating that at least four people were in my house!

I slipped grandparents’ bedroom and fished beneath the bed for the shotgun my grandfather keeps there. I loaded it with shaking hands, but then thought that the shotgun only has two rounds . . . I put down the shotgun and went over to his gun cabinet, grabbing an SKS and a bannana clip. I even locked the bayonet in place. I was loaded for bear, I tell you!

I locked the bedroom door behind me and cautiously slipped down the stairs. At the bottom, I let out a little shriek: there was a human figure before me! My finger went to the trigger, but luckily, my grandfather had trained me well with weapons. I stopped to be certain of my target before firing. It saved my grandmother’s mirror.

I swept the whole house, locking every door behind me (so the criminals would be trapped in a smaller area), expecting the police to show up at any minute. I didn’t find any intruders, so I went over to the downstairs alarm panel and turned off the blaring siren. My heart was hammering almost as loud as the horn’s wail. Where were the police? It had been at least ten minutes and I knew from a couple of false alarms that they always arrived within five.

I called the alarm company to see if they’d been dispatched and discovered that they hadn’t even recieved an alarm call at our residence. He told me to check the circuit box. The mystery was then solved: the violence of the storm had torn away some of our shingles and had let water in. It was dripping down onto the circuit box and caused a short. While I was talking to the guy, the alarm went off a few more times. Frustrated and suffering from the after-affects of a bad scare, I impatiently reached in and ripped out the board, silencing the alarm.

I went back to bed, putting the SKS beside the shotgun under my bed. I figured I’d take my chances with no alarm if someone tried to break in.

Nothing will scare the shit out of you like a lost kid, that’s for sure.

This one happened to a friend of mine. Glad it didn’t happen to me, or I think I would have lost it.

“Mr and Mrs. Smith” were taking a carload of kids from her local church to an amusement park a few hours’ drive away in one of the huge church vans. At one point, they all stopped at a roadside rest. It took more time than Mrs. Smith had intended, and she was a bit irritable trying to herd them all back into the van.

As they drove away, the kids were teasing her: “Ooops! You left Michael behind! Oh, no! Bill’s not in here!” She decided to ignore them. A few minutes later, one of them spoke up. “Uhh Mrs. Smith? Rusty’s not here.”

“Yeah, okay,” she said, rolling her eyes. Rusty is her own son, and he was about six at the time.

“No,* really*. He’s not here.”

“Good! I never liked him anyway!” Mr. and Mrs. Smith exchanged a chuckle.

“Seriously! He’s not in here!”

Mrs. Smith thought the joke had gone on long enough. “Rusty! Where are you?”

“He’s not in here! Honestly!”

Mrs. Smith was getting mad. She stopped the van, got out and went to look, figuring she’d find him on the floor under someone’s jacket, giggling his ass off. She made everyone get out and searched the van, panic dawning as she realized this was no joke. Her son really was missing.

She herded everyone back into the van and burned rubber as she swung the van around, breaking every conceievable traffic law on the way back to the rest stop. When they got there, they all fanned out to search for him, but no one had seen a little boy with bright red hair. She broke down in hysterics, certain he’d been kidnapped. Mr. Smith tried to calm her, got everyone back into the van and decided to head to the nearest State Trooper station.

When they arrived, they were told that the Troopers had Rusty. A kind stranger had seen him, running in the median. Poor kid was trying to run to catch up with the van! She had coaxed him into his car and drove him to the Trooper station.

Later, Mrs. Smith told me that she regretted the first words that came out of her mouth, but she was so panicked that she wasn’t thinking clearly: “I TOLD you never to get into a car with a stranger!”

On a side note, she told me she could never stomach the movie “Home Alone” and not just because it’s a crappy movie. Brought back too many bad memories.
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Reminds me of the time at the beach during a large family gathering when my younger cousin spent all day with us. My father asked my mother, what time her brother was coming back for the boy. My mother said “I don’t know, didn’t you ask him yourself?” :confused: Turns out, my uncle forget that he, not his wife who came in another car, was supposed to take him. :smack: He went home with his older sister who just happened to passing by. :o

A different kind of terror for me was when I burned my entire right forearm with hot grease. The blisters were at least 1.5 inches high and some were as long as 3 or 4 inches. It wasn’t the pain, it had burned so deeply there was no pain but my mom was at work and I was all alone and I remember screaming with terror thinking my entire arm would be burned black, that I would have no skin left, or have to undergo multiple surgeries. I was 15…old enough to have some idea but not old enough to be mature about it. And the worst was, at first my mom just wouldn’t believe me, she thought I was exaggerating. To her credit, she nearly fainted when she finally came home and saw how bad it was.

Thankfully the scars are so faint now you can hardly see them.

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Wow- these stories are of real life situations involving danger. The most scared I’ve ever been only involved my overactive imagination and no danger at all.

I was out for my morning run before work, and it was autumn so my runs were getting progressively darker as the winter drew near. I run in the park near my home which is technically open from dawn to dusk. On this particular morning I made it out of the house at around 5:45 am and it was still really dark, so the place wasn’t open yet and none of the lights lining the park access road were on.

I ran off of the road as I usually do, onto an asphalt path. After about 15 minutes, the darkness and silence, mixed with the cold air (which was making my eyes a bit watery) and my lack of glasses (they slip off the bridge of my nose when I sweat) combined to instantly freak me out a bit. Just as I was realizing that anyone could jump out from behind a tree or bush and club me to death, about 20’ up ahead I noticed a very unnatural movement. I froze, as my heart started beating out of my chest. I had to blink a couple times to clear the wateriness from my eyes, and even though I was afraid to get any closer, I inched forward. As my perspective changed a bit, I saw an unusually large, roundish creature looking back at me, also frozen still.

I blinked again and it turned and sort of waddled/flapped off to the right, as the cadence and sound of my heart increased about 10-fold. And then I noticed what it was.

A turkey. There was a turkey in the park.

I stood there for another 2 or 3 full minutes, willing myself to calm down. I had been scared nearly to death by a frickin’ bird. Eventually I was able to continue my run, and after another 15 minutes the sky began to lighten enough that I was much more comfortable.

The next day, I started bringing a flashlight along on my runs.
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Revenge of the Turkey! :eek:
It must have been Thanksgiving Time! :smiley:

It wasn’t anything like the other stories here, but I did get quite a scare when I was rollerblading to school a few years back. It was during the fall when leaves covered many areas and I was in a rush to get to school to write a test so was going very fast. Unfortunately a few minutes after I left my house I went over some wet leaves at the wrong moment and got sent off balance and eventually fell hard on my back. Luckily I always wear a helmet so when my head smacked the pavemet I was only dazed and my backback broke most of the fall. It was a really nasty tumble so an old couple who witnessed it stopped their car to ask if I was ok and if I needed help. I got up, sort of checked myself and said, “thanks, but it looks like I’m fine”. Feeling somewhat humiliated I continued on. About a minute later I felt my right wrist hurting pretty badly. I thought it might be broken, but I continued on anyway under the assumption that is wasn’t (hey, I spent alot of time studying for that test and I’d be damned if I’d let something like a sore wrist keep me from it). Of course the pain worsened as I went on and I started to find it really difficult to keep my balance.

After what seemed like forever, while skating in pain, I came up to a small bridge that looked like this (but without any water since it was nearing winter). I was still feeling dazed and the pain in my wrist was very sharp at that point so I wasn’t feeling too confident going across. But I have to get to school! I said to myself. I got up and started rolling across relatively fast when at about halfway across my bag gets caught on the railing which causes my whole body to swing right at the rail…

for a few painful seconds I was staring head first at the bottom of the locks while desperately holding onto the rail with one normal wrist and one broken wrist. After unhooking my bag I was able to get past the bridge and continue on to school. I have to say I don’t even remember how I was able to continue on and get to school safely since I was so shaken I could hardly stand upright. Once I got to school I kindly asked a stranger if he could help me and he drove me to the hospital.

This all happened when it was dark outside so if I fell over that bridge I doubt anyone would have seen me, assuming I survived the fall of course. It probably wasn’t as bad as I remember but I do distinctly remember the combinaton of pain and fear.

a couple come to mind:

having to inspect and deal with unexploded or partially detonated munitions was scary, but at least I was trained to deal with them in a fashion.

I had no training to deal with when my 3 year old daughter spiked a very high fever, became very ill and rapidly dehydrated. We got her to the hospital and on fluids & antibiotics, but seeing her so sick, so vulnerable, yet so unable to do anything just unmanned me.

Things I have some control over scare me, but when I have no control over things that affect the ones I love it truly frightens me.

Different kind of frightened.

I rented a CAT D4H to do my driveway work. October. 11,200 feet in the Rockies with snow coming down.

My brother stuck it. Stuck it good. Peat bog. I had a Case 680 on site but could barely even get the machine close to the dozer. The 680 was not 4x4. Not that it would have probably mattered. It just wasn’t big enough.

The CAT weighs in at 20,000 lbs.

If he and I could not wiggle that thing out of there, the only thing that was going to get it out was another dozer. It took me 2 months to set up the rental on the one stuck in the ground.

Winter had arrived.

The ground was freezing and the tracks and road wheels where having trouble moving in the icy, frozen bog. Rocks that kept falling in also threatened to throw a track.

I was starting to worry that I had just rented this machine for 6 months, or possibly bought it. It was sinking. If we could not get it out, it was going to cost me thousands upon thousands of dollars that I just did not have.

We considered a semi-tow truck, but there was just no way to get it close enough to do any good.

I had just cut and logged out about 2 cords of wood.

So. We would raise the blade and the ripper and pile as many logs under as we could under them, then lower them and try to raise the dozer, hand dig and put a few logs under the treads. After 8 or so hours of doing that the dozer was almost out of the muck. I then took a VERY heavy duty chain I have (15 feet long, weighs 70 pounds[half inch I think]) and hooked it to an eye on the corner of the blade. Hooked that chain to a huge tree and managed to use the blade hydraulics to pull on the dozer and inch it out.

14 hours later, in the muck and cold at about 2 am, we got it out.

Rhiannon8404 was in labor with our son. Everything was going just fine, she was getting by just on pain meds, no epidural, just the way she wanted. She was dilated, but the baby didn’t seem interested in making his way our, so the doctor decided to break her water to try to speed things up.

We went from peaceful and serene to a scene straight out of E.R. in a matter of seconds. The baby’s heart rate plummeted, doctor and nurse start working frantically. I heard the doctor, under his breath, saying “come on, little guy, hang in there”, as they prepared to whisk her off for an emergency C-section. I suppose it must have taken about 5 minutes, but I felt like I aged about 5 years, sitting outside the OR (they wouldn’t let me in, just in case). I just sat there, trying not to think about anything, until finally I heard the baby crying.

Eight years later, my heart is still racing just thinking about it.

9/11

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9/11
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I’m glad someone mentioned this first (being mindful of the thread where people said they were sick of NY’ers bringing up 9/11 all the time).

My sister worked at the WTC, and that morning I was sure she was dead. My heart just stopped when the TV showed the first tower collapsing (we could even see the smoke from the school where I worked).
It wasn’t until that night that we finally heard from her - she had decided to go shopping before heading to her office that day, and she was just about to go in when the first plane hit.

Other scary things? Being the first one to find various family members dead (grandfather, grandmother, even my mother when I was a teenager).
Certain siblings still call me a jinx…

Gee. A couple come to mind. Tomorrow is the one year anniversary of my father’s sudden death. Massive brain hemorrhage, hit him out of nowhere, he was brain dead and never awoke. That was frightening because I knew I wouldn’t get to see him alive again, and well…even at 44, a man needs his Dad. Yanno ?

When my son was 11 months old, he had surgery to do a reimplant on a congenitally defective ureter. It went well, and he recovered without complication but as anyone who has done this knows, sending your kid down the hallway while they’re awake and crying for you so they can be put under general anaesthesia is awful.

Two weeks ago, we had a really bad fight with our 16 year old son. Much upset, much misunderstanding, crying, etc. He stomped out to go in the back yard and cry and yell, as is his way. Eventually I walked outside, listened to him, he came back in. And we all went to bed at some point.

I woke up the following morning around 7:30, and went downstairs. His room was empty. He was not in the family room on the computer, gaming. He was gone. I felt the most profound fear, because as near as I could see, he’d fled during the night.

I went up to awaken my wife, and said with tears coming right up, " Wife, The Man-Cub is gone. He’s not in the house". She said, " oh yeah, he walked to his pal’s house at 1am to sleep over there, but I wasn’t about to wake you up to tell you that".

Wallet, I was in NYC and went down to that area, as an EMT that morning. I talked to my parents before hitching a ride with an ambulance downtown. Then… they did not hear from me again, and watched both towers fall. From 9am to 6pm, they were sure I was dead. The sobbing I heard on the phone when I got a cellular signal and talked to them that evening will always be with me. I felt such guilt- misplaced, of course- for putting them through that.

-shudder-

Cartooniverse

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Wallet, I was in NYC and went down to that area, as an EMT that morning…

Cartooniverse
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Please accept a simple and heartfelt “thank you”.
Sorry about your dad - you’re right, it’s tough no matter how old you are. :frowning:

Stuck in a really really wide rip tide.

Also, two sailing ones. When I was about 8, I was sailing with my older brother and his friend and we tipped. For some reason, they thought it would be a good idea if I went to the end up the mast and tried to lift. The mast snagged my life jacket and the boat began to turtle (Sailing lingo for mast straight down into the water). As it was turtleing, I was sliding up the mast, but I could only go as far as the halyards. Just as I was blacking out, I felt the boat rising. My brother had managed to turn the boat perpindicular to the wind, and that, combined with the boyancy of the drowning kid on the mast, popped me up out of the water.

The next sailing one was sailing in Superior, on a boat chartered from the charter company of doom that I shall never use again, in a vicious thunderstorn. No gas, no depth meter, broken radio, and lightening repeatedly striking. I, as the captain, had the job of keeping everyone calm. While I held on to a big metal wheel in a boat that had a nice big metal lighting attracter (some might call it a mast) sticking straight up. When I felt my hair stand on end, I knew we were going to be struck. I took my hands off the wheel, weather helm whipped us to port, and I just waited for the strike. That never came.

The last was my toddler falling into a campfire. Missed grabbing the little guy by a centimeter. He was in for a milisecond, but had a nasty burn on his hand. I grabbed him and sprinted to the lake and dunked him in. I also found out that the backroads of northern Minnesota have a top speed of about 70. By the time we got to the ER, had had actually fallen asleep. He still has a few scars from that.

As far as current events, I have to put my dog down. Sometime this week. I dread it.

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As far as current events, I have to put my dog down. Sometime this week. I dread it.
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Oh no! I’m very sorry to hear that.

Three things come to mind. Mostly run of the mill, but terrifying to me. When I was 15, my mom died. The moment she stopped breathing for good (I was sure there was going to be some miracle and she would amazingly be healed) was the most terrifying of my life. Knowing that I would never see her alive again, knowing I had to go through the rest of my life without a mom, and being left with an abusive father that detested me was the scariest thing I’ve ever faced.
The second was when I was newly divorced. I had started working for the first time ever, and had to leave my kids with their dad (A well meaning guy but a total putz who had never taken care of the kids by himself before) while he took them to a birthday party. In the middle of my shift, I got a call from the neighbors that my little 1 1/2 year old son had ridden a scooter full speed down an entire flight of cement steps, landing on his head and that there was a huge bump and blood everywhere. The 10 minute (usually 25 minute) ride from work to the hospital were so scary. I had no idea what I would find when I got there. He turned out to be just fine, only a mild concussion, but it was a long time before the ex got the kids again. The last one happened last week. I woke up in the morning in a glorious mood. Got up and went to let the dogs out to go to the bathroom. I called to Dudley, and he didn’t move. Okay, he’s done that before. Called him again even louder, still didn’t move. Went over to wake him up, and he’s stiff as a board with his eyes wide open. I knew my “puppy” was old, but I was not expecting it. I’ve had dogs die before, but never when I was the adult. I had no idea what to do. I couldn’t move a hundred pound lab by myself, I had no idea what I should do, my other dog was freaking out and howling and I was having major panic attacks and hyperventilating. I don’t exactly know why it was so scary, it just was. I’m just starting to sleep through the night without having nightmares and waking up screaming.