# Tennessee high school AD put on leave after saying girls 'pretty much ruin everything'

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [September 27, 2018, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992 "2018-09-27T03:30:23Z")
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### Author: ![Llama\_Llogophile](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/49beb7/32.png) [@Llama\_Llogophile](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Llama_Llogophile)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/21 "2018-09-27T17:01:20Z")

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I used to be a PE teacher and this doesn’t surprise me at all. There are good people trying to do good things in PE, but the field is still largely dominated by morons.

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### Author: ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/22 "2018-09-27T18:44:40Z")

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> [@Jasmine](#):
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> “Adam and Eve”? Really?!

Adam got his own show.

> **[Adam Ruins Everything](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adam_Ruins_Everything)**
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> Adam Ruins Everything is an American educational comedy television series starring Adam Conover that ran from 2015 through 2019 on TruTV. The series endeavors to debunk common misconceptions held by the public on a variety of topics.
> Adam Ruins Everything is based on a CollegeHumor web series of the same name, and stars comedian Adam Conover; Conover himself said that he was inspired to produce the webseries based on interesting feedback from a stand-up bit based on "Have You Ever Tried to Sell ...

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### Author: ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/23 "2018-09-27T19:01:13Z")

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I’d actually argue that Adam is worse off in the Adam and Eve story. Eve is tricked by a wily serpent. Adam basically does is because he sees Eve doing it. And then, while they both hide, Adam is the one who lies to God. Yes, there is that one scripture that says that it was that Eve was the one deceived, not Adam. But that only means Adam did it knowingly.

Plus, even if you don’t agree, God does still blame both of them, not just Eve. He doesn’t say “Because of Eve, I now have to punish both of you.” He treats them both as having “eaten of the forbidden tree.” Women have a hard childbirth, and men have to work the ground. Both become mortal, and both are driven away from the Garden.

I know that’s not the point, but seeing that logic of “it was all Eve’s fault” always bugs me.

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### Author: ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/24 "2018-09-27T19:07:16Z")

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All I can come up with as an excuse to ban athletic shorts is that they are so baggy that, when working on some athletic equipment, you can see things that aren’t meant to be seen. But that wouldn’t have anything to do with girls, just the length and baggy legs of the clothing.

So just require the longer shorts with smaller leg holes.

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### Author: ![Llama\_Llogophile](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/49beb7/32.png) [@Llama\_Llogophile](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Llama_Llogophile)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/25 "2018-09-27T19:24:12Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> All I can come up with as an excuse to ban athletic shorts is that they are so baggy that, when working on some athletic equipment, you can see things that aren’t meant to be seen. But that wouldn’t have anything to do with girls, just the length and baggy legs of the clothing.
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> So just require the longer shorts with smaller leg holes.

When I was coaching high school sports I would sometimes have to ask female athletes to tuck in their shirts because they would ride up or billow open when doing certain exercises or skills. Not a big deal when handled professionally.

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### Author: ![actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e79b87/32.png) [@actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/actualliberalnotoneofthose)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/26 "2018-09-27T20:21:33Z")

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A lot of these school people should be fired for stupidity and their misuse of the English language, before even getting into all the other stuff.

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### Author: ![actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e79b87/32.png) [@actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/actualliberalnotoneofthose)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/27 "2018-09-27T20:25:21Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> All I can come up with as an excuse to ban athletic shorts is that they are so baggy that, when working on some athletic equipment, you can see things that aren’t meant to be seen. But that wouldn’t have anything to do with girls, just the length and baggy legs of the clothing.
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> So just require the longer shorts with smaller leg holes.

Maybe it’s the fact that you can “tell what religion” (I know it’s an old saying that doesn’t really apply in modern US) a man is when he wears athletic shorts. Personally, I never wore/wear athletic shorts or sweatpants in public because I don’t like displaying my genitals that clearly.

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### Author: ![nightshadea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7ba0ec/32.png) [@nightshadea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nightshadea)
#### Post date: [September 27, 2018, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/28 "2018-09-27T21:02:49Z")

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heres even more stupidity [https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=862983](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=862983)

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### Author: ![Isamu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7c8e57/32.png) [@Isamu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Isamu)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 12:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/29 "2018-09-28T12:52:09Z")

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It was just a typo guys! I meant “Girls run everything”! Just like the Jews. We can still say that right?

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### Author: ![WillFarnaby](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/willfarnaby/32/514_2.png) [@WillFarnaby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WillFarnaby)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/30 "2018-09-28T13:46:37Z")

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> [@naita](#):
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> Students and others are of course supporting him and saying it was obviously just jokes.
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> Which they probably were. Fueled by and reinforcing systemic misogyny.

Hmm. Systemic misogyny in a public school culture dominated by women and where females dominate males academically.

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### Author: ![Great\_Antibob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47c2d/32.png) [@Great\_Antibob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_Antibob)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/31 "2018-09-28T14:53:59Z")

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> [@WillFarnaby](#):
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> Systemic misogyny in a public school culture dominated by women and where females dominate males academically.

Which alternate dimension was that again?

That is, the one where principles, superintendents, coaches, and other middle and upper managers aren’t overwhelmingly male?

And where the test score differences aren’t marginal but “dominating”?

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### Author: ![WillFarnaby](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/willfarnaby/32/514_2.png) [@WillFarnaby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WillFarnaby)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/32 "2018-09-28T14:59:33Z")

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The one where they are called “principals”.

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### Author: ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/33 "2018-09-28T15:06:27Z")

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> [@WillFarnaby](#):
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> Hmm. Systemic misogyny in a public school culture dominated by women and where females dominate males academically.

I don’t think this is correct at all; do you have a cite?

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### Author: ![Great\_Antibob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47c2d/32.png) [@Great\_Antibob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_Antibob)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/34 "2018-09-28T15:17:39Z")

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> [@WillFarnaby](#):
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> The one where they are called “principals”.

Nice. Now, if you could point out where I could find that alternate dimension, I’ll be just peachy.

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### Author: ![naita](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/naita/32/5862_2.png) [@naita](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/naita)
#### Post date: [September 28, 2018, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/35 "2018-09-28T19:44:01Z")

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> [@WillFarnaby](#):
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> Hmm. Systemic misogyny in a public school culture dominated by women and where females dominate males academically.

Yes. Just like toxic masculinity is propagated by both men and women. Glad to see you’re finally trying to see beyond your knee jerk biases.

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### Author: ![Batano](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b487fb/32.png) [@Batano](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Batano)
#### Post date: [September 29, 2018, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/36 "2018-09-29T08:18:53Z")

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> [@Jasmine](#):
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> “Adam and Eve”? Really?!
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> Is Eve allowed to make a statement defending herself? :dubious:

yes, but She’ll be questioned by outside counsel. Adam will be questioned by the Senators

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### Author: ![dead0man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/edb3f5/32.png) [@dead0man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dead0man)
#### Post date: [September 29, 2018, 10:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/37 "2018-09-29T10:21:33Z")

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> [@Great\_Antibob](#):
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> Nice. Now, if you could point out where I could find that alternate dimension, I’ll be just peachy.

[link - National Center for Education Statistics](https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/ntps/tables/Principal_raceXgender_Percentage&Count_toNCES_091317.asp)

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### Author: ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)
#### Post date: [September 29, 2018, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/38 "2018-09-29T15:12:27Z")

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> [@dead0man](#):
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> [link - National Center for Education Statistics](https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/ntps/tables/Principal_raceXgender_Percentage&Count_toNCES_091317.asp)

Awesome; I did not know that. Thanks for the cite!

Now do you have stats for “superintendents, coaches, and other middle and upper managers”?

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### Author: ![Great\_Antibob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47c2d/32.png) [@Great\_Antibob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_Antibob)
#### Post date: [September 30, 2018, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/39 "2018-09-30T01:49:57Z")

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> [@dead0man](#):
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> [link - National Center for Education Statistics](https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/ntps/tables/Principal_raceXgender_Percentage&Count_toNCES_091317.asp)

That’s awesome!

I didn’t realize 54% was a “dominating” proportion! Good to know.

Also, since we were talking about a high school AD, it’s good to know that only [about a third](https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/ntps/tables/Table_2_042717.asp) (from the same site) of high school principals are female. It only goes past 50% after elementary schools are included. Feel the domination!

It’s just amazing how statistics on elementary schools are totally relevant at the high school level.

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### Author: ![Kimstu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ecd19e/32.png) [@Kimstu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimstu)
#### Post date: [September 30, 2018, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tennessee-high-school-ad-put-on-leave-after-saying-girls-pretty-much-ruin-everything/821992/40 "2018-09-30T03:21:04Z")

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> [@Great\_Antibob](#):
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> I didn’t realize 54% was a “dominating” proportion! Good to know.

Note that in public **high schools** , such as the one in the OP’s link, [principals are overwhelmingly male](https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2009/2009323/tables/sass0708_2009323_p12n_03.asp): 71.5%/28.5% male/female ratio for principals in public secondary schools, 60%/40% for combined elementary/secondary, and about 41%/59% for elementary alone.

So the alleged “female dominance” in “public school culture”, as manifested in principal gender ratios, is really just an artifact of the longstanding assumption that dealing with **young** children is “women’s business”. Once children get to be teenagers, it is still largely taken for granted that their highest-ranking authority figures will be male. (School district superintendents are [overwhelmingly male](https://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2016/11/16/few-women-run-the-nations-school-districts.html) as well.)

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