# Test Subjects Wanted (clothing optional) Part II

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152>\
**Category:** The Game Room\
**Created:** [September 5, 2008, 9:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152 "2008-09-05T09:06:41Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Don\_Draper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b2d939/32.png) [@Don\_Draper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_Draper)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/61 "2008-09-19T16:39:53Z")

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I’d like to get a love relationship reading please. Yes, there is a specific person in mind.

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**Author:** ![Merhouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@Merhouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merhouse)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/62 "2008-09-19T16:58:12Z")

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> [@Pixilated](#):
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> Yes, yes! you are and you did not come across as a jerk. I appreciate everyone’s patience - the yearly outlooks take a wee bit longer to do than some of the other options, so I try to do the shorter pulls while at work during downtime.
> 
> I will get yours done tonight or tomorrow while I’m off work.

Thank you SO much, **Pixilated**! There is absolutely NO rush at all – please take your time. I just wanted to make sure I hadn’t fallen through some internet fourth dimension or something 😉

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**Author:** ![Jayn\_Newell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Jayn\_Newell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jayn_Newell)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/63 "2008-09-19T17:02:35Z")

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> [@Merhouse](#):
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> Thank you SO much, **Pixilated**! There is absolutely NO rush at all – please take your time. I just wanted to make sure I hadn’t fallen through some internet fourth dimension or something 😉

Nah, the forth dimension is very stable. It’s the sixth you really need to watch out for.

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**Author:** ![Madd\_Maxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Madd\_Maxx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Madd_Maxx)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/64 "2008-09-19T17:17:06Z")

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> [@Pixilated](#):
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> I pulled the cards - and nearly fell over w/ the one that represented your state of mind atm… are you really like that, a bit on the mad side??? And to pull another card supporting the first… yup, uh-huh.

Well, I am upset at the situation at work, and it does have me a bit on the depressed side as well. So um, yeah, I guess I kind live up to my name.

> [@Pixilated](#):
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> Did you keep an open mind when you had the round table? Did you pay attention to body language and the like? Are you being stubborn, wanting to keep things the way they are instead of trying something new???

My “roundtable” yesterday was via IM, so I couldn’t tell anything about body language etc, but we are hopefully having another one today via conference call so I’ll do what I can. And no, I didn’t really keep an open mind. I have looked at all the factors and have in my own mind come up with what I think is the best course of action given that information. I’m unable to convince the other people in my group that my suggestion is the best course of action.

> [@Pixilated](#):
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> Ok - you got me, hit me with another follow up question if you like, and feel free to send in private. But at least tell the fellow dopers just how mad you truly are! 😃

I might take you up on that. I’m trying not to give too much detail here at the moment.

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/65 "2008-09-19T17:49:50Z")

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I’m in. I would like to have a reading on romance - limited to the end of this year.

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**Author:** ![Mosier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ea924/32.png) [@Mosier](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mosier)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/66 "2008-09-19T18:37:05Z")

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I would like a yes or no reading, please!

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/67 "2008-09-19T20:08:51Z")

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> [@Jayn\_Newell](#):
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> Nah, the forth dimension is very stable. It’s the sixth you really need to watch out for.

Thank you Jayn\_Newell, all 6 of my senses spurted out Dr Pepper… do you realize just how much that stings? not to mention how messy it is??? :dubious:

😃

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/68 "2008-09-21T05:23:07Z")

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> [@Merhouse](#):
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> I would appreciate a yearly outlook reading.
> 
> Thanks 😃

You/your state of mind  
Someone who has not deviated from the norm for a long time, which indicates a possible block in change, growth, of living vs co-existing.\*

Sept 23 - Oct 31  
This is a time of unreliablity. Arguments may be on the rise, just for the excitment and mental fizz. Mental iritiblity can be a problem.

nov 1-dec 21  
Someone’s being dishonest here and it’s you. Repression, denial, projection, displacement may be in play. Look carefully at your attitude and beliefs, especially where your emotions are strongly involved.

dec 22-jan 31  
be especially attentive to what you are doing with your energy and attentions. You can accomplish a great deal with the wave of energy being made available to you at this time, be careful that you do not get carried away but please take advantage of it.

Feb 1- March 19  
Now is a time to slow down and proceed at a slower pace before you give yourself a tummy-ache.

March 20-April 30  
Look slowly and deeply into the heart of the matter and see past the superficialities of the surface. Consider the history of the situation in depth, and learn from the past. Learn from the wisdom of others - especially those more experienced than you. Do not rush into a decision, ponder and study the situation  
carefully.

Mayday  
Dark clouds are clearing and there is sunshine ahead. This is not a promise that it will never rain again, or even that the storm is over, but it does indicate that there is something to be gained through by this passage through the storm and the sooner you learn what it is, the sooner the storm will end.

June 21- july 31  
Friendly cooperation with others is necessary to reach mutual goals. Willingness to give and receive assistance and support is also required. Ask friends for help and suggestions, listen with respect, and accept the gifts willingly offered.

Aug 1- Sept 22  
Help has arrived from someone who normally gets it wrong, but dont worry, this time they’ve gotten it right! Gratitude and praise are in order.

\*I originally started out the reading with a new deck that I had just gotten. I hesitated, being unsure of the energy conbined with the unfamiliarity of the cards so I decided to switch back to my preferred deck. When i pulled the first card from the preferred deck, it matched the translation of the first card pulled from the new deck.

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 6:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/69 "2008-09-21T06:29:27Z")

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> [@Mauvaise](#):
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> I was just thinking about doing something like this: I’d like a #3, please (love type relationship) and yes, there is someone specific in mind. Thank you for doing this 🙂

i decided to try a combo-spread for this one - hope it works out.  
The other person’s state of mind:  
This person is the one who appears from nowhere, captures your heart and makes you feel like the monarch of the world - or leaves you heartbroken and cast aside. This person is dynamic, wild, and perhaps a bit chaotic.

Their feelings for you:  
This person craves excitement, the unusual and exhilaration: they yearn to be taken out of themselves for awhile… are you the person who can do that?

You:  
There is a need for stamina and endurance.

Your heart’s desire:  
someone mysterious and emotional

First steps to realising your dream:  
You have the skill to heal breaches of friendship anfd trust, and bring together those who have been seperated. Make the effort to get in touch. Be seen, be heard, and make connections.

What might hinder you:  
There is a deep yearning for a more spiritual or mystical element to your life.  
Because of your skills to counsel others, you may neglect yourself.

What might help you:  
You’re the old fashioned hero who takes over without being asked when you are defending what you believe is right. Just be careful that your anger does not hinder you.

The result:  
Step back for a moment and gain an overview of the situation. Actions you take and decisions you make now will have significant repercussions in the future, so make sure they are right and fitting.

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**Author:** ![shantih](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f6c823/32.png) [@shantih](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shantih)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 12:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/70 "2008-09-21T12:17:24Z")

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How nifty! If I may, I would like to request a yearly outlook.

Thanks!

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**Author:** ![Merhouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@Merhouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merhouse)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/71 "2008-09-21T13:05:50Z")

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> [@Pixilated](#):
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> You/your state of mind  
> Someone who has not deviated from the norm for a long time, which indicates a possible block in change, growth, of living vs co-existing.\*
> 
> \*I originally started out the reading with a new deck that I had just gotten. I hesitated, being unsure of the energy conbined with the unfamiliarity of the cards so I decided to switch back to my preferred deck. When i pulled the first card from the preferred deck, it matched the translation of the first card pulled from the new deck.

Wow, thank you 🙂

I find this particularly interesting, and yes, I’ve been running in place (OK, sitting in place) for quite a while now. The cards certainly wanted to make this clear enough 😉

I am certainly going to ruminate about the rest of the reading. It’s a bit disconcerting, but it may actually be more honest than I’d want to admit!

Thanks for your time, **Pixilated** 😃

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**Author:** ![Mauvaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mauvaise/32/11084_2.png) [@Mauvaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mauvaise)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/72 "2008-09-21T15:36:24Z")

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> [@Pixilated](#):
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> i decided to try a combo-spread for this one - hope it works out.

Thank you - and I would feel safe venturing that this was a true reading and not made up?

If it was made up, maybe you were channeling and didn’t realise 😉

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/73 "2008-09-21T18:29:16Z")

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> [@Mauvaise](#):
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> Thank you - and I would feel safe venturing that this was a true reading and not made up?
> 
> If it was made up, maybe you were channeling and didn’t realise 😉

Correct - I pulled the cards.

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/74 "2008-09-21T18:59:34Z")

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> [@Zebra](#):
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> I’m not sure how this applies to my situation. But thanks anyway.
> 
> A general outlook for me, or number 3 romantic with no person (but me) involved would be nice.

BTW, with the insight you gave me in regards to the situation I am in better understanding of the cards and would like to offer a private followup, if you dont mind.

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/75 "2008-09-21T19:10:03Z")

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I’d be interested in knowing how accurate everyone’s “You/state of mind” card was no matter the spread.

And I’ve only had a couple of guesses on real or fake (Yearly outlook not included) and I really am interested so I can keep a journal (I note how I am feeling, where I do the spreads, the time, etc) because even though I may be pulling the cards, sometimes I just dont “feel” the energy so if I am way out in left field, I’d like to know how it matches up with my environment/state of mind at the time.

And anyone who has been lurking but doesnt want a public-posted reading, I can accommodate a private posting. Just indicate in your post if you wish to have it private.

So far I have left on my list:  
Jayn\_Newell  
Malkavia  
Antigen  
Buran  
WormtheRed  
Zebra (followup)  
Jragon  
Nava  
LurkMeister  
evensven  
The new and improved Superman  
Khadaji  
Mosier  
Shantih

and I’m waiting for Madd Maxx to decide on his followup (sorry MM, but the energy was annoyingly strong on your pull and their nagging at me that I left it unfinished).

Did I miss anyone?

Just areminder that Sun & Mon’s are usually pretty hectic so I may not be able to pick up another reading until Tues.

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**Author:** ![Mosier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ea924/32.png) [@Mosier](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mosier)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2008, 7:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/76 "2008-09-22T07:24:40Z")

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I’m on the list! Can’t wait! I honestly doubt I’ll be able to tell the difference between a legitimate reading and a made up one, though.

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2008, 10:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/77 "2008-09-22T10:34:54Z")

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I just wanted to take a moment here to SCREAM! :eek: aaaagghghhhh!

Looking over my posts I’ve just now seen how awful my spelling and grammer have been. oooh-shay :smack:  
sorry bout that

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**Author:** ![sandra\_nz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eada6e/32.png) [@sandra\_nz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sandra_nz)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2008, 11:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/78 "2008-09-22T11:10:18Z")

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May I ask a question?

Should I stick with the job I have now and see it through, or start looking for something else?

Thanks in advance. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2008, 10:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/79 "2008-09-23T10:37:58Z")

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> [@Jayn\_Newell](#):
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> I"ll take a yearly outlook please 🙂

You/your state of mind  
You draw energy from others rather than from the source, having lost awareness of that fundamental connection. Pull yourself back down to earth, and most importantly, breathe. ground. center.

Sept 23 - Oct 31  
Be careful not to become the “martyr mother” who “sacrifices everything for you” and then expects them to sacrifice everything for you forever. Respectively, dont become the “smother mother” who refuses to let their loved ones grow up and become independent. If you give to the point of exhaustion, you wont have time to take care of yourself and rage or cruelty directed at those who rightfully depend upon you may occur.

nov 1-dec 21  
This is a time when clear and focused will and determination to carry through on decisions is necessary. You will be able to burst the bonds of an outgrown way of being and move on to the next level. this is a time to take action based on clear spiritual will. there is great strength and great potential for good.

dec 22-jan 31  
This is the time for resolution of seeming contradictions and paradoxes in the situation. Someone or some part of the situation is cloaked in confusion, and your muddled thoughts must be stripped away, revealing truth. The information you need is now available, and as soon as you have that burst of insight and “get it”, it’s time to make changes based on your newly clear understanding.

Feb 1- March 19  
There is a terrible problem. Illusions and delusions are rife. Misunderstandings escalate. A cold shower is definately in order.

March 20-April 30  
You may have become overly focused on the differences and disagreements that seem to seperate you from others, and this may prevent you from achieving your potential for happiness. If you are feeling alienated, unwanted, and lonely you need to refocus on what you have in common with those around you, far and near. You may need ot heal your own attitudes and beliefs that contribute to these feelings of seperation, and you could usefully consider how you might find reconciliation with others. Forgiveness may be a key.  
Move toward allowing others to be closer to you, gradually dropping the defensive attitudes that hold them away and keep you alone. Dont wait for others to make the first move; reach out to them with compassion and selflessness.

Mayday  
You may feel unable to move forward. There could be 2 reasons for this: It may be that such a journey is inappropriate at this time and should be delayed until certain conditions are met, or it may mean that you are delaying yourself with your own fear. If you are satisfied that the journey is in the right direction for you, prepare for it carefully and once you have done so, go for it. Waiting will not make it easier. If it is just fear holding you back, find your courage and step out boldly.  
Dont trick yourself into pretending to yourself that you are moving forward when in fact, you are taking a dozen inappropriate paths in order to avoid the one truly right path. The name of the game is distraction and misdirection - both are a kind of false magic that gets us nowhere.  
You may even find yourself on an inappropriate journey, possibly even as undesireable as the path of destruction (for self or others). Consider carefully where you are going here. Consider your major, long term goals in life and ask yourself how “this” journey helps you to move toward them. Is this perhaps a destraction, a detour, or a fatal stepping off of a cliff? Only you can decide if you want to take another step in this direction and why.

June 21- july 31  
You may be the main obstacle in your own path. It may be neccessary to transform attitudes and behaviors. You will be gently warned, pointing out an alternate path you might want to try. Cooperate, or the result will not be a good one.

Aug 1- Sept 22  
Now is the time to really focus and really concentrate on a project or process, especially one involving the creative arts. Spontaneity balance by self-discipline will help you achieve your goals. Strive for elegance and simplicity. This is a time to bring out and share qualities that you have nurtured in private.

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**Author:** ![Pixilated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@Pixilated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixilated)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2008, 10:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/test-subjects-wanted-clothing-optional-part-ii/462152/80 "2008-09-23T10:48:49Z")

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> [@Mosier](#):
>
> I would like a yes or no reading, please!

Most likely

No

Be careful - there is trickery going on, or  
he who hesitates is lost, or  
play it safe  
energy shifts from one extreme to another, resulting in warped results.

The supporting card only magnifies the above, indicating even more energy involved.

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