# That's it. Let's have a Comfort Party.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [February 22, 2003, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823 "2003-02-22T19:53:44Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/221 "2003-03-06T16:05:03Z")

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Ohhhhhhh, \*\*Tygr !!! \*\*. How horrible. I wish the fates would stop pelting ya’ll for a while.

Here, I will stir up the fire while you make your nest in front of the hearth. Then I will get out one of **bodypoet** ’s books to read from. Shhh. Close your eyes, hon.

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  - sending prayers to Tygr’s family \* \*

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**Author:** ![DeVena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dec6dc/32.png) [@DeVena](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DeVena)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/222 "2003-03-06T16:52:56Z")

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**sitting quietly stroking [bTygr**’s hair\*\*

Sweetie, I am so sorry. I wish there was more I could do.

**opens a new box of kleenex’s**

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/223 "2003-03-06T17:07:00Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by todd33rpm \*  
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> (Incidentally, I’m wanting to do this in real life, so if anybody has any private suggestions in addition to what is or will be mentioned here, please e-mail me directly…I need your help, because this gumbo isn’t going to be any good without a little extra seasoning from y’all. )  
> \*\*

Ooooh, guys! Todd’s **good** at soundtracks. A Comfort Party soundtrack would be awesome!

Lemme think on it, Todd, and I’ll email you the name of a tune or two. I’m willing to bet some of the other folks wandering through here will have good ideas, too.

Let’s see…what do I think of when I’m soaping?..

Great idea! [Note to self: Always good to have a radio guy around for parties.]

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/224 "2003-03-06T17:13:51Z")

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[wraps arms around Tygr and works on sending vibes full of strength and comfort]

[issues stern warning to universe:\* Enough! Leave tygr and his family alone!\*]

Doin’ what I can, **tygr.** Doin’ what I can. ☹

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**Author:** ![Washte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/dc4da7/32.png) [@Washte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Washte)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/225 "2003-03-06T17:34:40Z")

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{{ **Tygr** }}

Sorry things are so horrible.

Want me to run you a nice hot bubble bath? I throw the towel in the tumble to get nice and warm for when you get out even.

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**Author:** ![evilmthldy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@evilmthldy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilmthldy)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/226 "2003-03-06T17:37:30Z")

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Oh man, tygr… I’m so sorry! I can relate… it seems like stuff keeps happening in my family too… life can really stink sometimes. I am very greatful for friends like bodypoet… she keeps me from going off the deep end!

I think you need a big hug… everyone gather around… group hug!!!

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**Author:** ![evilmthldy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@evilmthldy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilmthldy)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/227 "2003-03-06T17:38:49Z")

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lynne\_kilii… rub rub rub… how’s that feel? better? hold on… need a brownie… mmmmmmmmmm (licks fingers off and is all ready to start again :O)

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**Author:** ![todd33rpm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a5b964/32.png) [@todd33rpm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/todd33rpm)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/228 "2003-03-06T18:00:55Z")

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{{{Tygr}}}

_ **Todd hands Tygr his old Winnie-the-Pooh doll he’s had since the cradle…small comfort, but a good friend in bad times** _

I’m trying to figure out a polite way of petitioning the fates and asking them to kindly cut it out, if that’s possible. At least I can burn a serenity candle on your behalf, anyway.

**CinnamonGrrrl** , we try to be as welcoming and inclusive as we can, and thanks for being one of ours! The stars weren’t so good here last night, but starting on _Friday_, it’s going to be lovely out and around.

Thanks for the vote of faith, **bodypoet**. This radio guy will DJ for you anytime…currently kicking around “music for soaping” ideas for you.

Remembering friends, lovers and relations who couldn’t be with us…_ **Todd raises another glass of blueberry wine to toast all our absent ones** _

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/229 "2003-03-06T18:18:36Z")

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Oh, Todd! That Moondance song, by Van Morrison. (I think.)

Now _there_ is a soapin’ song. 🙂

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**Author:** ![todd33rpm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a5b964/32.png) [@todd33rpm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/todd33rpm)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/230 "2003-03-06T19:01:46Z")

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Duly noted, **bodypoet**.

_ **Todd makes first entry in little notebook** _

It’s on the top of the stack!

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2003, 7:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/231 "2003-03-06T19:42:58Z")

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Oh, **Tyger** , you poor thing.

:ivylass does a protection dance, sending the evil spirits far far away…somewhere nearer OBL:

After **NinetyWT** is done reading, I suggest a nice long soak in the hot tub…

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**Author:** ![Lynne\_kilii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d26b3c/32.png) [@Lynne\_kilii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynne_kilii)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 2:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/232 "2003-03-07T02:45:46Z")

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**gives Tygr a big big hug, and then makes you a big almost bowl-like cup of hot beverage of your choice (just lemmee know, sweetie)** It’ll be ok. It really will. Just not right now. **wraps a blanket around you**

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**Author:** ![Lynne\_kilii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d26b3c/32.png) [@Lynne\_kilii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynne_kilii)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/233 "2003-03-07T02:49:39Z")

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mmmmmmmmmmmmm, thank you **evilmthldy**!

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**Author:** ![FranticMad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c68b51/32.png) [@FranticMad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FranticMad)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/234 "2003-03-07T03:18:23Z")

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thrash _no no no that’s what I **said** but It’s_\* Not what I MEANT!! \*\* \*

oh – Hi everyone. I was sleeping, what a nightmare. Wow. Chocolate? Okay. Uh, how long have all you women been lying on the bed like this? Really. Did I snore? I see. Yes I am ticklish. No you may not. Stop, STOP. Whaa a a a a a

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**Author:** ![Lynne\_kilii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d26b3c/32.png) [@Lynne\_kilii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynne_kilii)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/235 "2003-03-07T05:20:39Z")

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**giggles in the general direction of FranticMad**

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**Author:** ![auntnut](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f6c823/32.png) [@auntnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/auntnut)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 6:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/236 "2003-03-07T06:18:38Z")

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You guys…DeadlyNightlight’s divorce is final tomarrow (bbq pit) so she needs alot of hugs!!! I invited her over here to the comfort party for some TLC, but, just in case…can some of you head over to the pit and coax her over?

You guys are the bestest!! Thanks…

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**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 6:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/237 "2003-03-07T06:34:32Z")

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What thread is she in?

\<preparing big comfy pile of blankies, kitties and dogs for \*\*DeadlyNightlight\>

Hey ! all you massueses, (sp?), here! Ms. Nighlight needs your lovin’ help!

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**Author:** ![todd33rpm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a5b964/32.png) [@todd33rpm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/todd33rpm)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 12:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/238 "2003-03-07T12:15:39Z")

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Sign me up for the **DeadlyNightLight** Comfort Club! _ **Todd cracks his knuckles and goes to the kitchen for more kosher salt and oil** _

Yesterday started out hectic - four hours spent editing a Coldplay concert for rebroadcast, followed by a former acquaintance that I really didn’t want to talk to swinging by the station - and ended on an upswing. Got my state tax refund in the mail, and finally found a working record changer at an antique shop about half a block from my house.

So, I’m geeked out about it enough that I’m bringing the record changer and a stack of vintage 45s into the den and setting up shop for “the soundtrack.” Oh, and in reorganizing my 45s, I found my original vinyl single of “Moondance” for you, **bodypoet** …so it’s definitely going in this next stack of six songs. I think I’ll throw in Paul Simon and the Dixie Hummingbirds doing “Loves Me Like A Rock” as my pick. Anyone else?

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**Author:** ![evilmthldy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@evilmthldy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilmthldy)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 1:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/239 "2003-03-07T13:09:25Z")

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oooo Karol! I like moondance! hmmmm I’m still thinkin, I went straight to bed last night. was too tired to contemplate anything after going off on the little demons… got tired of the constant fighting… they were better today 🙂

comfort songs… time in a bottle? how’s that one?

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2003, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thats-it-lets-have-a-comfort-party/156823/240 "2003-03-07T16:18:24Z")

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[sticks head through kitchen door]

**DeadlyNightlight** here yet? Hmmm…lemme know when she arrives, we’re whipping up something special in here for her.

**Todd** what’s on our soundtrack so far? We may have to put our heads together and fill that baby up.

[yells in general direction of piling giggling mass of humanity]Hey, is **FranticMad** under there somewhere? Come on out, FM, we have breakfast goodies in here. And chocolate too, of course.

And I found a big ol’ bag of red licorice in the microwave!

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