# The art of not posting too much.

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [March 27, 2018, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273 "2018-03-27T13:46:15Z")\
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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/1 "2018-03-27T13:46:15Z")

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The art of not posting too much, too often.

Just curious. Without pointing at anyone in particular, I’m wondering if there reallty is a line between posting and posting too much. If Stephen Hawking was a member here, and he posted in every GQ tread, I’m pretty sure the board would consider that an honor and we’d all hang on his every word. Others not so much.

Sure, evreyone has the right to post whenever and wherever they choose. But sometimes “I shit ma pants” type posts are annoying. Skip them you say? Not so easy when you’re reading a thread and following a discussion and “I shit ma pants” appears between 2 posts discussing something you’re interested in. It can kill the flow. Not on the order of a natural disaster, but unnecessarty and unwelcome.

There has to be a balance in everything. Ask yourself, who is the biggest asshole on the board? Why is that person considered an asshole? Probably because they exhibit trollish behavior, that is, behavior that they know pissed off a percentage of the board yet they continue to do it, even when called on it. It’s like they stick their tongue out yell “neener neener, I can do it and you can’t stop me.”

So anyway, what is posting too much?

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**Author:** ![Mr\_Shine](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mr_shine/32/464_2.png) [@Mr\_Shine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Shine)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/2 "2018-03-27T13:51:27Z")

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\*\*Beckdawrek \*\*post in 3…2…1

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 1:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/3 "2018-03-27T13:52:52Z")

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I don’t have an answer for your question, but did you see The Voice last night? I can’t sing very well myself, but I LOVE hotdogs!

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**Author:** ![Jasmine](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jasmine/32/2964_2.png) [@Jasmine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jasmine)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/4 "2018-03-27T13:55:33Z")

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I post quite a bit during the day to alleviate boredom at work, but I think I kind of make up for it by not posting at night, on weekends or, for the most part, while on vacations.

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**Author:** ![Celidin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/cc9497/32.png) [@Celidin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Celidin)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/5 "2018-03-27T13:58:43Z")

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I’d generally recommend follow the advice in this quote, either from Mark Twain or Abraham Lincoln\*:

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> Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.

[\* Or maybe neither, according to random internet sources](https://quoteinvestigator.com/2010/05/17/remain-silent/).

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**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/6 "2018-03-27T14:05:26Z")

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I love cheese!

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**Author:** ![AlonzoSWhitebeard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/71c47a/32.png) [@AlonzoSWhitebeard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AlonzoSWhitebeard)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/7 "2018-03-27T14:05:56Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> If Stephen Hawking was a member here, and he posted in every GQ tread, I’m pretty sure the board would consider that an honor and we’d all hang on his every word. ?

That would scare the shit out of me. Posting from beyond the grave isn’t really on, and a sudden influx of unquiet spirits would tax the moderators in all manner of ways.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/8 "2018-03-27T14:06:05Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> If Stephen Hawking was a member here, and he posted in every GQ tread, I’m pretty sure the board would consider that an honor and we’d all hang on his every word.

Um, I’ve got some bad news for you…

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/9 "2018-03-27T14:16:27Z")

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When I post to debate threads, I think, “how much time and energy will it take to defend the positions I’m taking? Am I willing to make that investment in time and energy?” That helps keep my posting under control in those forums.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/10 "2018-03-27T14:19:32Z")

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I probably only post about half of my responses. Once they are written and reviewed, even I realize that they are shit and delete them.

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**Author:** ![Borborygmi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/borborygmi/32/217_2.png) [@Borborygmi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Borborygmi)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/11 "2018-03-27T15:24:47Z")

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/12 "2018-03-27T15:24:49Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> I probably only post about half of my responses. Once they are written and reviewed, even I realize that they are shit and delete them.

There’s been a horrible mistake. You clearly deleted the wrong half.  
(See, I lurk and lurk til I have a one-liner that I’m chuckling at myself… and then, well, I just _have to_ hit that “Submit Reply” button)

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**Author:** ![Walken\_After\_Midnight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b487fb/32.png) [@Walken\_After\_Midnight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Walken_After_Midnight)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/13 "2018-03-27T15:36:28Z")

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> [@AlonzoSWhitebeard](#):
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> Posting from beyond the grave isn’t really on, and a sudden influx of unquiet spirits would tax the moderators in all manner of ways.

Stephen Hawking may have died, but his voice lives on.

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**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/14 "2018-03-27T15:41:08Z")

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I shall formulate an articulate and succinct reply to the OP’s concerns the moment I have finished shitting my pants.

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**Author:** ![Leo\_Krupe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ebca7d/32.png) [@Leo\_Krupe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leo_Krupe)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/15 "2018-03-27T15:41:28Z")

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Many years ago, I was on a new forum where I became the first member to make first one thousand, then two thousand, etc. up to five thousand posts. No one else was even close. My average was between 17 and 20 posts per day.

Then I had an epiphany, and slowed way down. Now, I try to post only when I have something to contribute to the conversation, to move things forward (not that I think anything I post should be written in stone and saved). Keeping in mind this is a messageboard, I still think it’s best when people write something worth reading, which can be opinions, facts, recipes, etc. I just dislike what are, in my opinion, pointless posts, like “+1” or “I see what you did there,” or some variation, with nothing else behind it.

A reaction like that is fine in conversation, but reading it, to me, is a waste of time. On the other hand, a messageboard is a sort of time waster anyway, so don’t listen to me. It’s just my opinion, anyway.

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**Author:** ![Frodo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/frodo/32/302_2.png) [@Frodo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frodo)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/16 "2018-03-27T15:46:11Z")

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Laziness  
My secret is laziness

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**Author:** ![DCnDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dcndc/32/2842_2.png) [@DCnDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DCnDC)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/17 "2018-03-27T15:46:14Z")

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> [@Jasmine](#):
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> I post quite a bit during the day to alleviate boredom at work, but I think I kind of make up for it by not posting at night, on weekends or, for the most part, while on vacations.

This is me, too. I generally don’t post on the SDMB unless I’m at work, even though I still look at it when I’m not at work.

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**Author:** ![Ukulele\_Ike](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/df788c/32.png) [@Ukulele\_Ike](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ukulele_Ike)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/18 "2018-03-27T15:52:13Z")

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> [@Jasmine](#):
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> I post quite a bit during the day to alleviate boredom at work, but I think I kind of make up for it by not posting at night, on weekends or, for the most part, while on vacations.

At 337 posts in 19 years, I am not about to accuse YOU of overposting.

Also…”Ah Shit Ma Pants” posts? Eh?

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/19 "2018-03-27T15:52:26Z")

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> [@digs](#):
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> There’s been a horrible mistake. You clearly deleted the wrong half.  
> (See, I lurk and lurk til I have a one-liner that I’m chuckling at myself… and then, well, I just _have to_ hit that “Submit Reply” button)

Billy Batts voice;  
“Go get your shoe-shine box boy.”

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**Author:** ![Whiskey\_Dickens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/9fc348/32.png) [@Whiskey\_Dickens](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whiskey_Dickens)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-art-of-not-posting-too-much/811273/20 "2018-03-27T16:03:40Z")

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I don’t mind Beckdawrek. At least she’s positive and generally supportive of others.

She’s definitely not saying “nyah nyah I’m trolling and you can’t stop me.” You’ll have to look under Shodan, regards to find that file.

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