# The Doorman cometh **URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-doorman-cometh/1027911 **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share **Created:** [February 23, 2026, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-doorman-cometh/1027911 "2026-02-23T18:44:34Z") **Posts on this page:** 1 **Showing post:** 16
### Author: ![I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/i_love_me_vol.i/32/521_2.png) [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/I_Love_Me_Vol.I) #### Post date: [February 24, 2026, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-doorman-cometh/1027911/16 "2026-02-24T04:10:52Z")
> [@Beckdawrek](#): > > Sorry. But yes, I judged him. In my tiny lizard brain my spidey senses perked up. > > I’m in a real anxious mood today. Another day I might feel less bothered. I think that’s OK. Something in a more primitive part of your brain was alarmed (even if you couldn’t say why exactly) and it set off your defense mechanisms. I don’t think it was “judgement” so much as an instinctive reaction to perceived danger. Those senses can keep you alive. They can also leave you feeling silly. Note: This post comes only about an hour after I semi-chastised Beck for “judging” all delivery people based on YouTubes of some fetchboyz\* being assholes. She wasn’t really being _that_ judgmental in [that thread](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-likely-is-uber-to-ban-me-if-i-do-a-credit-card-charge-back-for-food-that-was-never-delivered/1027885), but I push back against some generalizations when I come across them. “Beck, you judged.” “Beck you didn’t judge.” Rather inconsistant! \*Band name? Maybe. --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-doorman-cometh/1027911)._