The Frugal Corner

this is mainly in response to the first post…but honestly…if my mom were like that I would be so embarassed…there was a time when all I had were totally outdated clothes from cousins…now I’m not usually too worried about fashion…but wearing “hammer pants” 4 years after they went out of style was really embarassing… just a reminder to save your kids the grief I could have had if I hadn’t told my mom how bad it was.


The only thing a nonconformist hates more than a conformist is another nonconformist who does not conform to the prevailing standards of nonconformity.

That’s a good point. Now, clothes for babies and little kids can be handed down until they’re worn out because fashion isn’t so much of an issue. (If you live in a social circle where your baby must wear brand new Gymboree outfits on a daily basis, well, that’s pathetic, IMHO.)

When kids get to be school aged, I agree that it’s cruel to subject them to outdated handmedowns. Still, I don’t spend a lot of money on my 9 year old. We live in a neighborhood where jeans and tee shirts are just fine; he’d look out of place if he had all new, expensive clothes. When he gets older, I assume he’ll be more concerned about clothes and I assume I’ll “encourage” him to contribute some of his own money.

I bought the Complete Tightwad Gazette ( with a gift certificate) yesterday and am enjoying breezing through it right now.

I wanted to pass on this defrosting tip I read about:

Instead of defrosting meat (or whatever) on a plate, put it in either a teflon/aluminum/steel or cast iron pan and it will defrost faster. I was doubtful of this, so I tried a painless test. I put an ice cube in the teflon pan and an icecube on a plate. With in five minutes the icecube on the teflon was a puddle. The plate one took three hours to disolve.

Are you loving it? I have all three issues but I’m contemplating getting the bound version because of the few new pages. :slight_smile:

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VV- I am about 1/2 way through and I just love it. I guess there are a few additions to it that are not in the prior three books. since I don’t have the three, I cannot tell you what it would be.

I haven’t flipped through it all the way, but the one thing that does annoy me so far is the fact that there are no internet addresses for any of the places/companies she recommends. Whether this is an oversight from the first printing time( before the popularity of the internet) or ALL these companies don’t have websights, I can’t tell you.

You can get the book via Borders for about $15 instead of $19. But check it out in the book store first to see what the additional info may be and if it’s worth it to you.

I just saved X amount of mula yesterday by taking down my clear shower curtain liner that suffered badly from rusty well water build up and put it into the washing machine with a cup of white vinegar. It came out perfectly clean. I’ve made this curtain liner last about three years so far.

When the holes on the shower curtain fray from the washings ( cold water will do it as well as regular daily abuse) I just use a hole punch to make a new hole.


Make it your mantra ‘I want that barcolounger ,but absolutely will not bid above $30 for it’. - Yankee Blue

Well, word of mouth is always good. If you have a particular talent, you could offer to say, landscape his yard in exchange for his fees or half the lawyer fees.

You can do what we did. My husbands sister married a lawyer and we bartered. Hubby built a house for them ( damn nice one too.) and one of the life time deals we have is legal representation for the rest of our lives. Now I can finally go on that bank robbing spree.


Make it your mantra ‘I want that barcolounger ,but absolutely will not bid above $30 for it’. - Yankee Blue

Another idea to save toilet paper, especially before a party or gathering is to stomp on the roll before you install it. This will keep people ( and toddlers) from merrily unwinding it at your expense. (That and getting cheap TP for parties is another idea too.)

This is why, if you think about it, the paper in the public johns is such a pain in the ass ( in more ways than one) to use.

I wanted to revive this thread because 1) I started it 2) we have lots of newbies board that might have good ideas.

I’d like to add a few more:

Go through your house, room by room if you have too, and make a list of things you Need and *Want *. Then keep an eye out for sale flyers for said items. Review and prune the lists as often as necessary.

I made a list of the toys that I would like to find for my children. Mind you the oldest is only 2, but there are a few of them out there that I really like and wanted for myself when I young. I had ten items on the list and I hit a subdivision garage sale yesterday. One was a Fisher Price Pirate action play set. Store price $36.00. This set had all the peices and even the well worn box. Not at thing missing. I paid the asking price of $16.00, telling the boy that he deserved full price for his hard work of keeping his toys in excellent shape.

The other was baby hangers. You can buy them 10 for $1.00 at the store, or, like me two dozen for a quarter at a garage sale.

Fudge, I forgot to add this. Bear with me, Short Attention span Woman.

After you make your list of things to keep an eye out for at garage sales, ask your friends to do the same. Tell them if the product is in good condition, you will go as high as (name your price).

I’ve done this for years, the kids don’t get smaller. When my oldest was wearing a size 9 months, I got summer weight pj’s on sale for $2.35 a pair. I bought 3 pairs in size 12mo,18mo,24mo,2T,3T,and 4T. The kid couldn’t have cared less if they were all pretty much the same design. His Dad couldn’t understand why I spent $40 on pj’s, until I drew him a picture.

I guess I am somewhere in the middle on this. I am definitely a frugal soul; I clip coupons, buy generic aspirin and the like, shop for sales at the grocery, stock up when it’s on sale, buy as much as possible from “everything $1” stores, and frequent yard/garage sales (cheaper than auctions any day). However, I do buy some food items only in certain brands because for some things there IS a major difference. Store brand cotton balls are not significantly different from Johnson & Johnson. Store brand American cheese slices are very significantly different from Land 'O Lakes American cheese. The cost is higher but it is worth it to me, because the one is a thoroughly enjoyable product while the other is a colored plastic substitute. My bottom line isn’t ONLY what does it cost, but am I getting the best deal I can while sticking to things that I know will be used and enjoyed. That said, I thought I would comment about the “store brand same as national brand” idea.

For some products, this is true. I work for a major foods manufacturer, and in addition to our own well-known national brands, we used to pack the same product for a variety of stores and chains (called “private label business” in our industry) under their own brand or generic name. Our brand name product is made with a certain standard of ingredient. Store brand product might be made with the same ingredients. Depending on the week’s operations at the factory, it might also be made out of the leftover/damaged product that was made previously, now ground up and put back into the hopper to run through the line a second time. Notice that I’m not saying there’s anything unsanitary or crooked about this; the regrind product was made with exactly the same methods of sanitation as branded product, and it was identified in its specs somewhere as “xx% regrind”, sold only to customers for whom that was an acceptable standard. However, that end product was somewhat inferior to the branded product, in the sense of less consistent performance (since the % of regrind varied) and poorer overall quality (more likely to break into pieces, etc, due in part to the double processing). My mother, who was a lunchroom lady for many years, commented once about the inconsistency of product they got through the commodities program: that one time it cooked up one way and the next week the exact same cooking process produced something of completely different texture and flavor - this was an instance of what was obviously regrind product coming in (institutional cooking is one of the biggest markets for “seconds” product, since the expections are not as rigorous and particular as for, say, a white-tablecloth restaruant). I reiterate that I’m NOT implying that generics or store brands are made of factory floor sweepings or sawdust, and in some cases they really are the identical product with a different label. But in some instances, the difference between generic/store brand and regular branded is very real, not just in your head, and not just in the commercials. Knowing this, the decision is simply whether the difference is perceptible and significant to you, and if so, whether it is worth the price difference. For some products, I find that it is.

Just my .02.

Oh, by the way, in addition to suggestions others have posted, I’d like to mention an often-overlooked food outlet. If you live in a decent-sized city, there is probably a foodservice company that is open to the walk-in public. (Foodservice suppliers normally sell to restaurants, hospital cafeterias, caterers, etc., and deliver it on trucks.) In our town it is Gordon Foodservice - look under foods wholesalers in the yellow pages. They are an excellent source for bulk items, they have no membership fees or requirements, and they are often cheaper than the warehouse clubs. I buy eggs there in cartons of 2 and a half dozen for $1.55 - about the price of 1 and a half dozen at the retail store. Black peppercorns are about four dollars for a little tin at the grocery; at the foodservice store, a two pound cannister costs less than $6. They have most of the same foods as the warehouse stores, including milk and frozen foods, but I find they are usually cheaper, plus the lack of membership fees is a savings. They carry only food and food-related items (paper plates, plastic utinsels, pans, and the like), so you can’t buy big cases of toilet paper or laundry soap there. But I highly recommend you check it out for your food shopping needs.

Here’s a mind blower for you if someone hasn’t already said it. After talking to some drug reps this is what I’ve learned:

Other than vitamins, medicines do not expire. The only reason they have expiry dates on them is so you have to buy more. Bayer and other companies ship all of their unsold expired medicines to third world countries to be used there.

This is the second time I’ve heard this and I have never been able to find a cite for it, more for my own peace of mind than to wave under someone’s nose. Can someone supply a respectable website that backs this up for me, please?

I wish I had a site for you Shirley, I only know what the drug rep told me. I know this does nothing for your peace of mind as I could be some maniac trying to kill you and yours with expired tylenol, if you find one, let me know. I don;t work at that doctor’s office anymore or I would ask the reps themselves, sorry.

Also there is a cookbook, my mother bought it call the four ingredient cookbook and all of the recipes (a ton of them) require four ingredients or less.

Here’s a few good ones:
(1) don’t buy clothes at thrift stores-go to the source! Ask your local funeral director if you can have the clothes off corpses-you can get a great Armani suit for nothing (of course it might smell a bit-but drycleaning will take care of that!)
(2) pick up “road kill” off your local highways-raccoon and deer taste mighty good-and less cholesterol than beef!
(3) check out your local dump-many grocery stores dump overage canned goods there-you can get em for nada!
(4) in the fall, visit your local orchards-chances are you can have all the overripe/rotten fruit you can carrY!

Thank you all, for your excellent advice. Mr. Na and I are currently living on $1400 a month with $800 of that going towards rent. We try to live frugally, and so far we are succeeding. When I get a job, then we’ll see.

I have a question for any tightwads living in California. I need health insurance, and the cheapest I can find is Blue Cross at $70 a month, which we can’t afford. I’m not accustomed to having to pay for health insurance (I’m Canadian), so I’m completely lost here. Any suggestions?

My own suggestion is to ask for useful stuff for gifts. I really don’t like receiving knick-knacks, so I ask for the stuff I don’t buy for myself, like clothing, cd’s, books. The rest of my family are happy to give me stuff I really want, and they say it’s much easier to shop for gifts that way.

A word about buying used shoes for children: Everybody has a different way of walking, and it shows up in the sole of the shoe. Compare your shoes to someone else’s and you’ll see what I mean. Wearing shoes that have already comformed to another person’s walk can cause serious back and joint problems, especially during years of growth. Make sure that you check the soles and insides of shoes for wear before you buy them. The less the better.