# ...The fuck, Ecmandu? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 15, 2014, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182 "2014-07-15T17:15:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/1 "2014-07-15T17:15:16Z")
You are [a sad, broken little toy](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=728397). Question is, what/who broke you? \* - not even sure he’s worth the pitting, except I can’t help but wonder. ---
**Author:** ![BubbaDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bubbadog/32/333_2.png) [@BubbaDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BubbaDog)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/2 "2014-07-15T17:30:59Z")
Yes, pitworthy is a judgement call for this guy. He needs therapy. ---
**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/3 "2014-07-15T17:31:53Z")
I take it this means you understood his wall o’ text? What does it say? ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/4 "2014-07-15T17:33:53Z")
Women kill male losers by not having sex with them until they commit suicide. As a male loser, **Ecmandu** resents this. ---
**Author:** ![Calatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Calatin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Calatin)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/5 "2014-07-15T17:34:59Z")
Do we have any idea about his general background - rough estimate of his age or anything like that? His sentences are jumbles of “word salad” and he reeks of pseudo-intellectualism, accompanied by the world’s biggest chip on his shoulder because he can’t interact w/ women. He just sounds so… immature. ---
**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/6 "2014-07-15T17:35:42Z")
> [@](#): > > Women kill male losers by not having sex with them until they commit suicide. As a male loser, Ecmandu resents this. Oh. Think it would help if we told him it’s for the good of the species? ---
**Author:** ![BubbaDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bubbadog/32/333_2.png) [@BubbaDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BubbaDog)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/7 "2014-07-15T17:37:15Z")
> [@BubbaDog](#): > > Yes, pitworthy is a judgement call for this guy. > > He needs therapy. I retract this statement. The guy’s just a narcissistic tool. He throws out his stupid theory and then declares everyone else to be unintelligent for not understanding it. It’s pretty damn obvious why women avoid him. ---
**Author:** ![Truman\_Burbank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecc23a/32.png) [@Truman\_Burbank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Truman_Burbank)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/8 "2014-07-15T17:38:05Z")
…Or turns them into mass murderers. Darn wimmin! Haven’t seen this poster before, but really feeling some empathy. He’s really pretty pathetic. However, if the problem is with every woman you meet (or don’t), the problem is not ‘out there’. ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/9 "2014-07-15T17:40:51Z")
[I started a thread in ATMB](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=728511) asking why he was allowed to post that all women were psychopaths over and over and over again. This is very clearly hate speech in my mind, and should have been shut down the first time he posted that shit. ---
**Author:** ![Calatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Calatin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Calatin)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/10 "2014-07-15T17:47:58Z")
> [@](#): > > On the downside, I realized that almost everyone on earth is a psychopath. That should tell you all you need to know about the guy. ---
**Author:** ![AndrewL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@AndrewL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AndrewL)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/11 "2014-07-15T17:55:50Z")
It’s astonishing how these ‘why do women keep picking assholes over nice guys like me’ threads invariably end up demonstrating that women are individually making quite rational and reasonable choices in not having sex with the thread starter. Really, though, I feel more sorry for him than anything else. I was once a little like that myself. Not to the degree that he is, but I was once single, lonely, bitter, and badly self-entitled in blaming women for not being interested in me. Then I grew the fuck up, realized that the problem was entirely in me, and proceeded to actually work on fixing my own flaws instead. I don’t think that Ecmandu is anywhere close to being able to do that yet. ---
**Author:** ![Kolga](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e56c9b/32.png) [@Kolga](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kolga)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/12 "2014-07-15T17:56:03Z")
This is a very typical belief of the Men’s Rights Movement/Men’s Rights Activists - that men don’t get enough sex from women and thus are driven to commit homicide or suicide. Bo. Ring. ---
**Author:** ![Darth\_Panda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ee7513/32.png) [@Darth\_Panda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darth_Panda)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/13 "2014-07-15T17:56:16Z")
> [@Calatin](#): > > That should tell you all you need to know about the guy. Can we lock him in a room with **Der Trihs**? ---
**Author:** ![Merneith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/57b2e6/32.png) [@Merneith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merneith)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/14 "2014-07-15T17:58:09Z")
> [@Giraffe](#): > > Women kill male losers by not having sex with them until they commit suicide. As a male loser, **Ecmandu** resents this. As a woman, I’m perfectly fine with it. ---
**Author:** ![Emiliana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f0a364/32.png) [@Emiliana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emiliana)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/15 "2014-07-15T18:15:16Z")
I’m unclear on the concept of sexual stratification in relation to sexual variety. Or on its own. Did I understand him to say that he approaches women in bars and tells them that they are psychopaths driving men to suicide? ---
**Author:** ![Calatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Calatin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Calatin)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/16 "2014-07-15T18:21:14Z")
> [@Emiliana](#): > > I’m unclear on the concept of sexual stratification in relation to sexual variety. Or on its own. > > Did I understand him to say that he approaches women in bars and tells them that they are psychopaths driving men to suicide? No, because if that was the case, then he’d be a “bad boy who treats women poorly but then ends up sleeping with them” as opposed to the “nice guy who operates as a surrogate gay friend.” … or something like that. I’ve given up looking for logic / meaning in his petulant diatribes about how women are evil and manipulative because they won’t sleep with him. Can’t we just all chip in some money and buy the guy a Fleshjack? (I’d suggest a prostitute or an escort, but I’d hate to do that to the poor woman) ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/17 "2014-07-15T18:22:45Z")
> [@Giraffe](#): > > Women kill male losers by not having sex with them until they commit suicide. As a male loser, **Ecmandu** resents this. Also, the “nice guy code” precludes losers from sexually harassing women, which includes any attempt to sit near them or talk to them. Rather than rewarding the nice guys with sex, they instead have sex with the brutes who harass them because they’re all psychotic. ---
**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/18 "2014-07-15T18:22:46Z")
> [@Emiliana](#): > > I’m unclear on the concept of sexual stratification in relation to sexual variety. Or on its own. > > Did I understand him to say that he approaches women in bars and tells them that they are psychopaths driving men to suicide? That was my take-away from the thread. Which was an improvement over sexually harrassing them by simply approaching and talking with them, or by making loud noises. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/19 "2014-07-15T18:23:53Z")
Sorry. Psychopathic. ---
**Author:** ![DaphneBlack](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/daphneblack/32/5389_2.png) [@DaphneBlack](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DaphneBlack)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2014, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182/20 "2014-07-15T18:25:05Z")
Where does the obviously and wildly incorrect view that some tiny percentage of men are hooking up with all the women come from? Do these people not notice that a significant percentage (a majority?) of adult humans are partnered, usually with one other human? Or is it a symptom of only noticing the small social circle around themselves, which consists of only people under the age of 20? [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-fuck-ecmandu/693182.md?page=2)