“Self-hating” is a ridiculous term, one that shows serious contempt for a person’s autonomy, especially when it’s applied as a blanket term to an entire class of people with whom you disagree. It betrays exactly the sort of arrogance that pisses off so much of the rest of the world when confronted with European and American middle-class and upper-class ideologues.
No, most slaves in the antebellum South weren’t fine with their lives. So what? That’s totally irrelevant to this thread. Just as irrelevant as pointing out the plenty of slaves who, when freed, became slaveowners themselves would be.
I do, however, think that plenty of men in our current society who are forced to register for the draft are fine with their lives. I, for one, am–even though I’ve been robbed of the autonomy of my body in this crucial respect. Do you think I’m self-hating because I’d not prefer to see the destruction of the species than register for the draft? Shit, I registered for the draft on the off-chance I could get student aid.
Let’s take this ridiculous hypothetical further. We could take it down the “I’d melt Hitler’s kneecap down into glue and glue babies on the prolifers” route pretty easily. But let’s try not to laugh it off for a bit, and let’s imagine the worst-case scenario exists.
The president has noticed the drastic decrease in births, and mandated a program by which all able-bodied Americans must get pregnant. Currently the program is headed up by Mike Tyson and Phyllis Schafly, and it consists of herding all women who menstruate into massive harems that are visited by Tyson and his cronies at their pleasure. When the Tyson entourage isn’t raping the women therein, Schlafly is overseeing the harems, guaranteeing that the Bible is the only reading material, whipping any woman who protests her condition, and kicking puppies thrice daily.
Your sister’s been in one of the camps for a couple of weeks.
The president is catching some flak for the conditions at the camps. She calls you into her office. “Look,” she says. “I’m busy. I don’t especially like what’s happening–but the survival of our species is my main concern. If you can submit a program to me, an alternative to the Tyson-Schlafly Plan, I’ll put you in charge of the program. The one non-negotiable is that your proposal must require all able-bodied Americans to get pregnant and to do what they can to complete the pregnancy with live birth.”
Given the situation, what do you do? Do you make a proposal? If so, what’s your proposal?
In case it’s not obvious, the point of continuing the absurd hypothetical thus is to get some people to think about the least horrific conditions under which such a program might exist, instead of the most horrific.