# The "I've finished the rhubarb pies" MMP

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Tags:** mmp\
**Created:** [June 6, 2016, 6:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645 "2016-06-06T06:47:38Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![gotpasswords](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@gotpasswords](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gotpasswords)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/81 "2016-06-07T19:52:07Z")

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When it rains, it pours.

Social Security actually managed to declare DH fully disabled two days before he died. Last week, a lump of money appears in the checking account from them. Some of said money was used as the down payment on a new car, and some bills. Today, I discover they’ve yanked all that money back with a description of “reclaiming.” No advance warning, naturally, so my checking account is severely overdrawn.

I’m waiting for a return call from the person that we worked with last at the ODAR office, hoping they can at least aim me in the right direction.

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/82 "2016-06-07T19:55:54Z")

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Howdy Y’all! Another day survived. YAY! I found out today I need to absent myself from the orifice Thursday ( well, not have to, but I think it’s best I not be there) while interviews for my position are bein’ done. Three people, one of ‘em bein’ my assistant. She knows everything there is to know just about so she should be the one if’n TPB have any sense. Of course I have let that be known. Seriously though, she could start tomorrow and hit the ground runnin’.

Leftovers for dindin bein’ there is enough for both of us and then it’s all gone away. **Peaches** I have some chikin thighs thawin’ for tomorrow’s dindin. GMTA! 😃

**BBBobbio** ouch! Glad you feel better today.

**{{{Nettie}}}** hope everything gets better soonest.

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**Author:** ![Sahirrnee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sahirrnee/32/13937_2.png) [@Sahirrnee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sahirrnee)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/83 "2016-06-07T20:12:31Z")

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> [@Buttercup\_Smith](#):
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> **Sari** I have been a very foul mood all day. For no reason at all. Just aggravated with the world.

Yep, no real reason to be, just am.

{{{ **Bbbobbio** }}} I’m glad you are feeling better.  
It’s a bunch of small things, all adding up, but there really is no reason - because none of them are worth it.

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**Author:** ![Reluctant\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/839c29/32.png) [@Reluctant\_A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reluctant_A)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 8:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/84 "2016-06-07T20:16:37Z")

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> [@gotpasswords](#):
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> When it rains, it pours.
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> Social Security actually managed to declare DH fully disabled two days before he died. Last week, a lump of money appears in the checking account from them. Some of said money was used as the down payment on a new car, and some bills. Today, I discover they’ve yanked all that money back with a description of “reclaiming.” No advance warning, naturally, so my checking account is severely overdrawn.
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> I’m waiting for a return call from the person that we worked with last at the ODAR office, hoping they can at least aim me in the right direction.

Yo, that’s fucked up! I hope that you are able to reach an expeditious resolution to that; og knows you’ve got enough to deal with right now…

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/85 "2016-06-07T21:17:08Z")

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Dindin has been ingested and all the leftovers have disappeared. For now. They will re-appear but we won’t discuss when and in what form. Ima do a chikin stir fry tomorrow. So, tomorrow I shall wok on! 😃

**gotti** that sucks! Hope there’s a solution in your favor soonest.

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**Author:** ![Reluctant\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/839c29/32.png) [@Reluctant\_A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reluctant_A)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/86 "2016-06-07T21:20:25Z")

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Man, people actually eat supper at 1700? I don’t even get off work until 1900.

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**Author:** ![Buttercup\_Smith](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/buttercup_smith/32/473_2.png) [@Buttercup\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buttercup_Smith)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/87 "2016-06-07T21:40:15Z")

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> [@VunderBob](#):
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> Actions by TVCTPYouO, or the sound of the universe cocking the fuck with you gun?

PMS-Post Menopausal Syndrome

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 9:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/88 "2016-06-07T21:45:36Z")

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**gotti** , I’d be spitting mad if that happened. I hope the get their [del]asses[/del] behinds in gear soon.

I may get something after all out of my car and it’s accident. Finally a local agent made contact with the other company, Great Harm, and I’ve finally got a call from their agent about getting a damage/totaling estimate made. Every little bit would help when it comes to paying for a new vehicle.

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**Author:** ![JKellyMap](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jkellymap/32/15880_2.png) [@JKellyMap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JKellyMap)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/89 "2016-06-07T22:09:52Z")

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> [@Baker](#):
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> **gotti** , I’d be spitting mad if that happened. I hope the get their [del]asses[/del] behinds in gear soon.
> 
> I may get something after all out of my car and it’s accident. Finally a local agent made contact with the other company, Great Harm, and I’ve finally got a call from their agent about getting a damage/totaling estimate made. Every little bit would help when it comes to paying for a new vehicle.

But there’s good news for you, too… [Topeka and Shawnee County Public Library named Library of the Year, highest honor in U.S. and Canada](http://m.cjonline.com/news/2016-06-07/topeka-and-shawnee-county-public-library-named-library-year-highest-honor-us-and#gsc.tab=0). (I know you “only” share a space there, but still – awesome!).

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**Author:** ![gotpasswords](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@gotpasswords](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gotpasswords)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 10:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/90 "2016-06-07T22:25:09Z")

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Like the health insurance, it’s just something that happens by design. It’s a mix of that he wasn’t alive when they actually paid out the funds and that he didn’t make it out of May. As I understand it, if he’d survived into June, this mess wouldn’t have happened.

I’ve been to the local office where they’re all sorts of nice. Suspiciously nice, really, and surprisingly efficient - I was in and out within an hour. I’ve filled out the form to claim the funds as his surviving spouse, and just have to wait for the “payment center” to get to it. The agent said he requested an expedite on it, so I may be overdrawn for only a week or two. Ugh…

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/91 "2016-06-07T22:50:28Z")

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{{{ **gotti** }}}

I am sooooo tired. and tired. Did I mention tired?

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/92 "2016-06-07T23:07:24Z")

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\*\*gotti \*\*- I hope everything gets straightened out with all due immediacy.

We went to Salsa’s for supper. I’m about to strip down to a robe for an evening of vegging. Counting the minutes till I see the doctor - my pain has decided to congregate in my left elbow. Not amused.

I’m too young to be falling apart!!

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**Author:** ![carnivorousplant](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnivorousplant/32/3563_2.png) [@carnivorousplant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnivorousplant)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/93 "2016-06-07T23:19:17Z")

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> [@gotpasswords](#):
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> The agent said he requested an expedite on it, so I may be overdrawn for only a week or two. Ugh…

That is going to be a lot of bounced check fees.

Damn.

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/94 "2016-06-07T23:55:53Z")

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I feel so domesticated and efficient! I prepped stuff for dindin tomorrow. It’ll just be a matter of heatin’ up the wok and cookin’ it all up which won’t take long. I even made rice which can be heated up easy in the nukelator. Go Me!

**Fonz** we eat dindin early or earlyish most of the time. I also tend to cook stuff that does not take a whole lot of time and also use my slow cookers a lot. We’re geezers. We want our dindin early. 😃

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**Author:** ![Sahirrnee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sahirrnee/32/13937_2.png) [@Sahirrnee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sahirrnee)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/95 "2016-06-08T02:02:21Z")

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> [@carnivorousplant](#):
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> That is going to be a lot of bounced check fees.
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> Damn.

Should be able to get them waived, and the ones who received bad checks may waive the fees as well. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/96 "2016-06-08T02:02:41Z")

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> [@JKellyMap](#):
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> But there’s good news for you, too… [Topeka and Shawnee County Public Library named Library of the Year, highest honor in U.S. and Canada](http://m.cjonline.com/news/2016-06-07/topeka-and-shawnee-county-public-library-named-library-year-highest-honor-us-and#gsc.tab=0). (I know you “only” share a space there, but still – awesome!).

Yep, they had the banner up in the rotunda before I left work, and it’s been on all the local news broadcasts. I’ve said it before, this library is something the city did right. Before it was rebuilt I wasn’t convinced all the “newfangled” stuff was needed. Boy, was I wrong, this place if great.

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**Author:** ![MsRobyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@MsRobyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsRobyn)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/97 "2016-06-08T02:05:06Z")

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Blurf.

Spent the day at irk learning about mental illness and what I need to know to be able to do my job. Damn, there are some crazy people out there, and they work for the gubmint. 😃

Tacos for dinner tonight, courtesy of the sprog. He is becoming a good cook when he puts his mind to it.

Airman and I are watching the original American Pie movie and damn, is it creepy. The sprog is approaching this age and if he ever treats a girl the way the boys in the movie do, I will kill him myself.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/98 "2016-06-08T02:09:34Z")

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Oh, and did you read in the article how the library served cookies today? Want to take a guess at who made them?😃 Fifty dozen cookies. As it works out 30 chocolate with white chips, 149 iced sugar cookies, 114 oatmeal-craisin, 107 chocolate chip, and 1oo each peanut butter and monster cookies.

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**Author:** ![JKellyMap](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jkellymap/32/15880_2.png) [@JKellyMap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JKellyMap)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/99 "2016-06-08T02:26:41Z")

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> [@Baker](#):
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> Oh, and did you read in the article how the library served cookies today? Want to take a guess at who made them?😃 Fifty dozen cookies. As it works out 30 chocolate with white chips, 149 iced sugar cookies, 114 oatmeal-craisin, 107 chocolate chip, and 1oo each peanut butter and monster cookies.

I suspected that was you! That’s great.

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**Author:** ![dogbutler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dogbutler/32/428_2.png) [@dogbutler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dogbutler)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-ive-finished-the-rhubarb-pies-mmp/756645/100 "2016-06-08T03:33:33Z")

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I had my select-a-seat nigth at the hockey arena. I didn’t change anything, I just went for the free popcorn and to hang out with the staff.🙂

> [@FairyChatMom](#):
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> Why am I falling apart all of a sudden??

> [@VunderBob](#):
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> Welcome to my world.

: points and laughs, throws out back and dislocates finger : ow

> [@MsRobyn](#):
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> Blurf.
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> Spent the day at irk learning about mental illness

You could have come to my irk to learn about mental illness.😃 And congrats on the mortgage.

**gotti** , that sucks. Hope it’s fized quick. And {{{{hugs}}}

{{{{ **Nettie** }}}}

Feel better, **Sunny**.

**Fonz** , I’ve gotton in the habit of eating dinner at 2100, even on my days off.

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