The kindness of strangers: share your stories

I once lost my set of keys (house, car, everything) at a dog park that’s along two miles of the Mississippi river. Naturally, I had walked the whole thing and had no idea where I’d dropped them, but was able to get a ride home. That night, I got a call from a Blockbuster video store near the park. Someone had found the keys and taken them there, since I had a little Blockbuster rewards keyfob on there. The clerk at the store scanned it, found my phone number and I got my keys back. Hooray to the person who found them!

Last winter, my husband and I vacationed in Playa del Carmen, Mexico. It’s just a short ferry ride away from Cozumel, so we spent a full day on the island, getting completely sunburnt and spending all the money we’d brought for the day in the process. After a long day, we got in line to take the last ferry back to Playa, and when we tried to board, found out that the tickets were only one-way. And we had no more money, and no credit cards on us. And we don’t speak Spanish. Fortunately, a man behind us in line overheard what was going on, ran to an ATM and got us enough money to buy a return ticket. We learned that he’s launching a diving tour business, so the next day we repaid him at his booth. he sure saved us from an uncomfortabe situation!

Many years ago, when I lived in a different city from my fiance (Typo Knig), I was travelling to his town for the weekend. My cat was riding in the car with me. I had to stop a few miles before I got there, for some reason, and when I got out of the car, the cat bolted (yeah, I know, dumbass for not having her in a carrier). I shouted “help” to the parking lot in general as I took off after her. A couple from the next car over dug out flashlights and helped me search for the cat for nearly an hour; every time we thought we heard her, she bolted again. Ultimately I had to give up, thanked the couple profusely, and went on my way.

There’s a happy ending fortunately; Typo Knig and I went back an hour or two later and called for the cat… and she came running. I guess she realized she was lost and was grateful for the sound of my voice. Needless to say, I was FAR more careful on future trips - I didn’t have a carrier, but I made sure to put a leash and harness on her before I took her to the car on future trips, and made sure to have the leash/harness in hand before I opened the car door when I arrived.

Another one: same cat, same residence: This was back when cats were not as often kept indoors. She had disappeared for 24 hours. I went out looking for her, hear her meowing nearby, looked, and found her on the roof of a 2-story apartment building directly behind mine. As best as I could figure, she had run up a tree nearby and leapt onto the roof. Fortunately, the building was garden-style apartments with balconies, rather than my own townhouse-style. So I went up the stairs and knocked on a door at random, asking the lady who answered if I could use her balcony to try to get my cat down. Bless her, she said yes; let me stand on her patio furniture, and provided some freshly-discarded chicken guts as bait. It took a few minutes (once, I got my hand on the cat and nearly caught her but her leg got caught in the gutter) but the cat was ultimately rescued.

Don’t flame me… the next cats I owned were strictly indoor cats

I keep mine inside the front bumper of the car. That way I can get it if I have locked myself out…but the spare key in my wallet means that is rare.

Many years ago, when Mrs. Khangol and I were newlyweds, we were driving across state to visit my parents for Easter. We left Friday evening after work for the three-hour drive. It had been raining on and off all day, but we didn’t realize it had been raining very heavily in other parts of the state, to the point that some roads were flooding.

On a small two-lane state highway, we came over a small rise and drove into what had become a pond: the ditches had overflowed and there was over a foot of standing water across the highway. It was around 9pm, a very dark night, I was doing around 60mph, and had absolutely no chance to stop or even slow much before we hit the water. We went water skiing, the car under no control of mine, and ended up in the ditch on the far side of the road, where it settled quickly until the water was up to the steering wheel.

We were out in the country, many files from anything like a town. But there was a house about a quarter of a mile up the road, with lights in the windows. We slogged out of the car and made our way toward it, soaking wet, muddy and totally bedraggled. This was long before the advent of cell phones.

I helped my wife up the steps to the porch and knocked on the door. An elderly lady answered, looking like a Norman Rockwell grandmother, from the apron she was wearing to the gray hair done up in a bun. I know how we must have looked to her, but as soon as I told her the situation, she took us in, gave us hot coffee and cookies, brought a phone book and a phone, and let me call a tow truck. While we waited she clucked over us and refilled our coffee and offered to cook us some eggs.

When the tow truck arrived, we walked (waded) back down the road to our car. The driver of the truck was looking at the situation, and when we greeted him, he told us it was going to be a bigger job than he expected, or could handle alone; he was going to have to get some help. But he said the first thing he had to do was get us out of the rain. We got into his truck and he drove us the fifteen miles or so to his home (where he had been sitting, warm and dry, when we called – his garage was closed at night, but his line was routed to ring at home for tow calls).

He took us into his house, introduced his wife, and explained the situation. She found us dry clothes, put ours in to wash, made us a pot of coffee, gave us food, and let us call my parents (long distance). Meanwhile, her husband went back out into the rain to pick up a guy who worked for him and they went to get our car.

For the next couple hours we sat in those people’s home, warm and dry, chatting and watching television. The two men got our car out of the ditch and towed it back to the garage, and immediately began to work on it to do what they could to get it drained and running, which mainly involved changing the oil and flushing the cooling system. Our host called the local sheriff’s office to let them know that “the highway is flooded again” (apparently it was a common problem spot – he called the deputy he talked to by his first name) and somebody should go out and put up the High Water signs and the smudge pots.

Around 2am the owner of the garage came home and said our car was working, though of course the seats were very wet. We changed back into our own clothes, and I apprehensively asked him how much I owed him.

He charged us (as I recall) $20 for the tow, and also for the filter, oil and coolant he’d replaced. He charged us nothing for the labor. The bill still came to more cash than I had on hand; we were very young newlyweds and didn’t have a credit card. (Way back then, I knew very few people who did.) He took our out-of-town personal check without even blinking an eye. We thanked him and his wife profusely and with great sincerity, then got into the car (squishy, but running), and finished the drive to my parents’ place.

Those people – the old woman who let us into her home and fussed over us while we waited for the tow truck, the garage owner and his wife – showed such incredible kindness and thoughtfulness to two young people in need, that we have never forgotten them. Had we not met up with such good, decent people, our memories of that night would be very different.

What wonderful, heartwarming stories!

Years ago, I was in an accident in Louisville, Ky., but lived in a smaller town 50 miles away. The car was driveable, but I didn’t know if there was internal damage. I’d talked to my parents and they said to limp on home. I got on the Interstate, afraid to go more than 40 or 50 mph, but afraid to go slower, either, for fear some giant semi would zoom up on me and flatten me. I drove for around 20 minutes like that, blinkers flashing until someone in a big pickup truck pulled up beside me, motioned for me to roll down the window, and hollered, “everything OK??”

“I’ve been in an accident and don’t think I should go very fast!” I hollered back.
“Where are you going?”
I shouted back the name of the town.
“We’ll get in behind you!”

And that they did. They put on their flashers and hovered behind. I felt very safe and so grateful someone thought to see to my welfare.

Here’s one of the times I helped someone. It was a small thing, but I know she was grateful. I pulled into the grocery parking lot, parked, and as I walked in, noticed a young woman struggling to unlock her car door (with a coat hanger). A very young child was in the seat of the cart. To my horror, when I came out some 45 to 60 minutes later, she was still struggling with the door! I walked over and asked if there was anyone I could call. She said her husband had another key, but he couldn’t leave work to bring it to her. I asked her where he worked; it wasn’t far. I told her to get the baby and hop in. We drove to the place he worked, got the key and drove back, where she was able to instantly get in her car and go home – finally. I couldn’t believe no one had helped her in all that time I was in the grocery. And I felt bad that I hadn’t immediately gone to her assistance! :frowning:

Since I once trained as an EMT, I’ve offered my help to people in distress, many times. I’m always amazed that once I come in and “take over,” people are willing to help. But it’s that first step that people seem hesitant to take. I’ve helped diabetics who’ve let their insulin get low and collapsed, and one memorable time, a kid who’d passed out from a nicotine overdose while dipping snuff! We were stopped on the Interstate due to an accident, and his parents panicked. Once he threw up, he came around.

Ahhh… The kindness of strangers.

The one that stands out most in my mind took place when I was 18. So, quite a few years ago. I was living on my own for the first time, and had no family within 2000 miles.

I had taken my car in for a repair that ended up taking all of my money. And some money I didn’t really have. So the next day, when the SAME thing that caused me to take the car in in the first place happened again, I took it back to the same shop.

Me: “It’s still not working”

Shop: “We fixed the probelm. This is something else.”

Me: “But it’s doing the SAME THING!”

Shop: “Too bad.”

The manager was smirking at me the whole time. I was desperate; I had no more money and I had to have a vehicle to get to work. No work = no money. I tried asking if there was any way I could have it looked at again, or could pay in installments, or give them something for collateral… Nope.

At this point, to my utter horror, I could feel tears welling up.

Me: Lip quivering, eyes watering, voice quavering… “Please? I have to… need my car… No money…”

At this point, two total strangers came over from the waiting area. A young woman and a slighty older gentleman. The woman put her arm around my shoulders and gave me a fresh hankie. “It’s ok.” She told me, “They try to rip everyone off.” Then she glared at the manager.

The gentleman leaned across the counter and calmly, but very earnestly explained to the manager that is was his DUTY to make sure my car worked, and that he should feel ASHAMED of himself treating me like that, and if he didn’t do something for me RIGHT NOW he was going to leave, take his car, and never come back, and tell all his friends…

The managers eyes got bigger and bigger. He took my paperwork, went back and talked to his mechanics, and my car was fixed. Within 20 minutes. No charge.

I said thank you to these two angels at the time, but I hope they know how huge their standing up for me was. It made me feel much less alone in the world.

Amen. This doesn’t rise to the level of the other stories here, but I was feeling pretty beat up after my son was born (long labor, delayed decision for c-section, and then a surgical complication during delivery). One of my nurses (newly on shift after I woke up after surgery) was so great. She did some big things that were good, but also little things. I remember she said she wanted to make me feel “more human” again (boy was that apt) and when she noticed my chipped nail polish she said “Let’s get that fixed” and tracked down some nail polish remover wipes. It was the smallest thing, but I was just so grateful that she seemed to understand how I was feeling, and that little things might matter.

This line right here brought tears into my eyes. I’ve been here, where the world seems unfair enough but your own body betrays you and makes you cry. Kudos to your kind strangers.

Actually, as I read through these stories, every one makes me want to sniffle. Keep them coming, guys, and great idea for a thread, Skald.

I know. What is that, one cigarette? :smiley:

Not a stranger, but just as appreciated.

I went one day to buy groceries, and locked my keys in the car. I didn’t realize what I did until I went to laod up.

I went back in to the store to see if I could use the phone to call my wife, who turned out to be not at home, so I was stranded. The cashier who checked me out was a friend, so she gave me the keys to her car so I could get home, unload, and bring back the spare key so I could unlock my car. This went way beyond the call of duty, and I told the store manager what happened. She was honored for what she did.

BTW, when I was bringing her car back to the store, I took it through the car wash and filled her gas tank as my ‘Thank You’.

That same cashier also died in a motorcycle accident with her husband the year before I was laid off and moved to Virginia. I cut out her obit and put it with the family obits in the big Bible.

When my dad and I traveled to Seattle for vacation, it seemed that in the beginning everything went wrong.

The day before our red eye flight, I had just gotten back to town from a Elton John/ Billy Joes concert in Ames, IA. The concert was held in the football stadium and I brought home a nasty sinus and ear infection. Needless to say, the descent into Seattle with my mucous filled head was quite painful, plus I couldn’t hear shit. We arrived in the darkness of night, rented our car & tried to make it to our motel.

We seemed to be going round and round; we couldn’t find it. I was too sick and exhausted to do my job as “navigator” with the map. After about an hour of going in circles and then getting totally lost, I was crying and Dad was steaming. We stopped at a Denny’s to get our bearings.

Our waitress instantly picked up on our being exhausted tourists & asked some questions. Dad told her the situation, including that I was sick with an ear infection and could barely even hear.

This angel of a lady gave us precise instructions to get to our motel. She calmed us both down and even referred us to a health clinic in case I needed to go the next day.

Dad was so touched by the kindess of our waitress that before we left Denny’s, he put a $50 bill under his coffee cup and stood at the doorway to make sure that she picked it up instead of the bus boy.

As it turned out, we were only 3 or 4 miles from our motel. We just kept missing it for some reason.