# The Meet a Single Doper thread

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 29, 2003, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364 "2003-08-29T03:45:35Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 14\
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**Author:** ![Ms\_Macphisto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b487fb/32.png) [@Ms\_Macphisto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ms_Macphisto)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/141 "2003-09-06T02:23:14Z")

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Don’t feel too lonely **Idle Thoughts** :

24 (soon to be 25)  
Female  
Vancouver

Just finished grad school (M.Sc. woohoo!), about to go spend a month in Europe. I enjoy reading, primarily fantasy, going to concerts when I can afford to, hanging out here, and trying not to let my pool shark skills get too rusty.

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**Author:** ![Grelby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grelby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grelby)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 3:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/142 "2003-09-06T03:04:53Z")

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18  
Male  
Central Massachusetts.

Though I’m actually doing this single thing. It rocks. We can talk when I get to Burlington VT next year ;).

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**Author:** ![Corixidae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9d8465/32.png) [@Corixidae](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Corixidae)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 3:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/143 "2003-09-06T03:29:29Z")

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31  
Male  
Seattle metro for the last 18 months, but I spent my first 30 years in Utah and survived non-LDS and unmarried. Go figure.

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**Author:** ![Daowajan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@Daowajan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daowajan)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/144 "2003-09-06T03:39:07Z")

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ok, sure, why not.

20  
female  
Madison for now. I’m dreaming of moving out of the midwest once I graduate.

other girls for me, please.

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**Author:** ![Lisa-go-Blind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Lisa-go-Blind](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lisa-go-Blind)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 7:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/145 "2003-09-06T07:21:20Z")

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18  
fuhmahlee  
Louisiana

Likes: standing in lines, completing standardized tests, mopping

Dislikes: numbers, animals, movies with Catherine Keener

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**Author:** ![mipiace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@mipiace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mipiace)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/146 "2003-09-06T18:25:00Z")

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> [@](#):
>
> \*Originally posted by Sunspace \*  
> \*\*Hi **mipiace** , I work for the largest division of a British-based company. This division, however, is based in Toronto, and is enough larger than the rest of the company that the tail is wagging the dog, so to speak. The division is a formerly-independent company that was bought near the peak of the tech boom. Unfortunately, while I had dreams of being transferred to Merrie Old England, what actually happened is that, after a reorganisation, the Englanders came _here_.
> 
> I guess there just isn’t the need for tech writers to actually move around. Unless they change jobs.
> 
> Hence the constant learning and new skills. Web pages. Web-services programming. Video editing. 3D modelling. Cartooning. Eventually _something_’s got to click… \*\*

Wow, that happened to a lot of people and a lot of companies. Unfortuantely with rapidly changing technology and a globaly fragile economy, things like that happen. Tech stocks are paticularly fragile (just ask my stock broker - and my portfolio is a prime example sine it is worth a bout 1/4 what it was about 4 years ago)

I’m not sure what to offer, to accomplish your goal and stay marketable. But perhaps working for a Bristish based company could be a plus. Could it help you get your foot in the door of other British based companies? Unfortuantely I think the cost of living is pretty high in the UK (not compltely sure but I’m betting some UK dopers could elaborate here) and that is going to affect your move unless a company is willing to pay your moving expenses…pretty glum huh?

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**Author:** ![vivalostwages](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/d07c76/32.png) [@vivalostwages](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vivalostwages)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/147 "2003-09-06T19:09:57Z")

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turning 38 in a few days  
F, hetero  
CA.  
Doing all right.

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**Author:** ![whistlepig](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/73ab20/32.png) [@whistlepig](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whistlepig)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/148 "2003-09-06T19:12:27Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by LindyHopper \*  
> \*\*OK, I’ll bite…🙂
> 
> Age: 34
> 
> Sex: Male
> 
> Location (and here is the sticking point): Montana  
> See, it’s the location that gets me every time. The closest woman in this thread is **MissTake** (and how _you_ doin’?), in Minnesota. I grew up in Tulsa (hi, **sunfish**!), so I have connections there, but it’s still many many miles away.
> 
> Oh, well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? \*\*

Well, I vouch that LindyHopper is a  
great guy, having met him at the one and only Montana Dopefest (all four of us). He’s worth traveling to Montana for, I’m sure.

Me?

41 years old  
straight male  
Mensa, dogs that weigh more than 40 pounds, rafting, skiing, etc,

And I wish that this thread did me and LindyHopper some good in meeting a great gal who lives (or wants to live) in Montana.

Whistlepig

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**Author:** ![whiterabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cab0a1/32.png) [@whiterabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whiterabbit)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/149 "2003-09-06T19:32:50Z")

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What the hey.

27 years old  
Female (straight)  
New Orleans, LA  
Geeky stuff – science fiction (B5 is the best ever!), fantasy, and in a non-geeky vein, I love animals of almost any description

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**Author:** ![Salem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8c91f0/32.png) [@Salem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Salem)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/150 "2003-09-06T21:35:21Z")

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Psst, **Redfury** , here ya go: llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll  
Just in case you drop another one.  
No need to thank me, what the l, it’s just a letter, there’s at least 25 more.

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2003, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/151 "2003-09-06T23:05:03Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by whistlepig \*\*\*  
> And I wish that this thread did me and LindyHopper some good in meeting a great gal who lives (or wants to live) in Montana.  
> Whistlepig \*\*

I don’t suppose either of you would be willing to relocate? Say, somewhere near the eastern edge of PA, since I’m hoping to get a job and move there in the nearish future? I don’t have anything against Montana, per se (well, cold weather and shorter daylight time, but other than that . . .), but I’d have a hell of a time finding a job there. Plus it puts me thousands of miles away from both friends AND family.

Dang it, here I am, great gal and all, and I know **no** single males of an appropriate age within a hundred miles.

Well, ok, one. But he thinks we’re both too messy to live happily ever after together. Feh.

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**Author:** ![LucysLogic101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@LucysLogic101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LucysLogic101)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2003, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/152 "2003-09-07T03:48:56Z")

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[didnt we do this already?](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196391)

but for the record [my post from that thread]

female  
18  
location: lansdale, PA…yeah, you probably haven’t heard of it, it’s another one of those insignificant little suburbs outside of Philly.  
occupation: full time student; lifeguard, depending on pool-availability  
127 lbs, 5’ 3", bobbed unnaturally red hair (so sue me), blue/green eyes (depending…they do change)  
Me: outgoing, very affectionate, loud…oh bother, i dont know… oh, i will say one thing though - though i’m not a vegetarian, i am quite the tree hugger.  
currently: a freshman, commuting to university in my area  
likes: old movies (1930-1960), foreign films, boho/hippie fashions, trees, writing, reading, ee cummings, art (creating and admiring), swing dancing (i havent taken lessons…lets just say i learn by watching), drum corps, Queer Eye, Classic Rock (Hendrix, Boston, etc), Pink Floyd, Joni Mitchell, ska, alternative rock, the beach, mountains, walking barefoot…look, i’m easy to please, okay?

dislikes: smoking, closed minds with open mouths, alcohol (personally - can’t stand the stuff…others? drink if you like, i just won’t drive you home at night)

looking for: well…i wasn’t really looking…i just felt like sharing =D but if i sound interesting (?es possible?), go right ahead…it’s not like any of you are in my area anyway

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**Author:** ![ems](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/cdc98d/32.png) [@ems](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ems)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2003, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/153 "2003-09-07T18:33:13Z")

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Mmmmmm…what the hey!

Sex: Female  
Age: 26  
State: Well I am currently “between continents”. I am English and have worked in Norway for almost 2 years but the corporate big bosses decided I was getting settled there with friends and a life so they decided to ship me off elsewhere. I am back at my parents in the UK waiting for my US working visa which arrived a couple of days ago. So another few days vacation and next week I am jetting off to live in Wyoming.

Sorry trying and failing to make myself sound interesting…but it is all true

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**Author:** ![qwanderer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/7ea924/32.png) [@qwanderer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/qwanderer)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2003, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-meet-a-single-doper-thread/198364/154 "2003-09-07T19:07:18Z")

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What the hell. The guy I have my eye on doesn’t seem to be biting. Heeeere, fishy, fishy, fishy!

Age: 20 1/2 (physically), 45 (mentally), 15 (emotionally).  
Sex: female  
Location/State: Bryn Athyn (figure it out, it makes sense to _me_) but I wish I were in London

Let’s see. I’m quite tall (cursed Swedish blood,) and not exactly slender (cursed Italian blood,) but not too bad looking, all things considered. I own over thirty bandannas. I give really good backrubs. I have an incredible tolerance for people that other people consider annoying. I don’t eat dairy products. I like watching action movies, but have not seen an incredible number of them.

Important to know: In accordance with the fact that four years ago my emotional age was about six, and I had not yet been introduced to the concept of _other people,_ my dating experience is null.

Maybe I’d better stick to my little hometown.

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