# THE money shot: Have you ever? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 25, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955 "2009-11-25T21:21:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/21 "2009-11-26T13:58:25Z")
> [@jjimm](#): > > It’s not something I desire to do, and nobody I’ve slept with has specifically requested, except one: an ex wanted me to jizz on her face, so I obliged. **Almost the entire lot landed in her eye and stayed there because she was lying on her back,** and she started crying. She never asked me again and I never offered. Because it hurts, dammit! My ex-BF shot me in the eye once, and ever since then the only time I’ll allow a facial is when hubby and I are in the shower and I can wash off immediately. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/22 "2009-11-26T14:38:44Z")
> [@Avarie537](#): > > Because it hurts, dammit! My ex-BF shot me in the eye once, and ever since then the only time I’ll allow a facial is when hubby and I are in the shower and I can wash off immediately. Poor Ralphie! Guess this is something else he isn’t getting for Christmas. Ho Ho Ho 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Rushgeekgirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rushgeekgirl/32/3715_2.png) [@Rushgeekgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rushgeekgirl)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/23 "2009-11-26T14:52:28Z")
I don’t think that I would care for it, but I wouldn’t complain as long as I can squeal and scream “FIND A TOWEL GET IT OFF!!!” after. It might be worth it to see his reaction, although I imagine it could kill the mood. ---
**Author:** ![lucky\_henry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bc8723/32.png) [@lucky\_henry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lucky_henry)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/24 "2009-11-26T15:33:40Z")
The LAST thing I want to do when I’m ready to blow is to pull out. ---
**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/25 "2009-11-26T22:23:14Z")
I’m a male, and have no desire to come on my wife’s anything. It feels too nice inside, and on the face seems designed to humiliate. Just my opinion, YMMV. Joe ---
**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/26 "2009-11-26T22:24:20Z")
> [@sunstone](#): > > I pretty much have the urge to “deposit” it as far and deep into the vagina as I can. She seems to agree. Perfect answer. > [@lucky henry](#): > > The LAST thing I want to do when I’m ready to blow is to pull out. As is this. Joe ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/27 "2009-11-27T00:56:44Z")
No. It seems too hostile and misogynist to me. Why would I want to degrade somebody I love? ---
**Author:** ![EmAnJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/d2c977/32.png) [@EmAnJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmAnJ)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/28 "2009-11-27T02:00:03Z")
Female. I let my husband do it once in a while if that’s the sort of sex we’re having (dirty). I sometimes do it in the shower while I’m giving him a BJ. I remember when I was much younger my boyfriend would use the pull out method. One time it shot from down there all the way into my eye! Man that hurt, and it looked even worse! I had to make up some story to explain it to my parents. From then on, though, I always turn my head to make sure it doesn’t get in my eye or nose. ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/29 "2009-11-27T02:11:47Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > No. It seems too hostile and misogynist to me. Why would I want to degrade somebody I love? I always wondered why people find it degrading? I mean, I can see why people think that. I just mean…I don’t fully understand why it should be so? ---
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/30 "2009-11-27T02:31:31Z")
^^ I’d guess it’s because splashing or throwing something in someone’s face is usually not a positive thing. It’s a cultural thing, I bet. ---
**Author:** ![Maiira](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f04885/32.png) [@Maiira](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maiira)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/31 "2009-11-27T02:35:36Z")
Hell no. The one time it happened was when the BF wasn’t aiming properly and it ended up on my face. I closed my eyes just in time, so I didn’t get a whole lot there, but even then, my eyes were the brightest, angriest shade of red I’d ever seen. It went away after awhile, but it’s not exactly something I want to repeat. Butt, boobs, or stomach? Sure! Face? No way. ---
**Author:** ![Princhester](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/3e96dc/32.png) [@Princhester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Princhester)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/32 "2009-11-27T03:15:00Z")
> [@panache45](#): > > My partner prefers to swallow 🙂 . . . but back before we met, yeah, many times. You gave your partner facials many times before you met? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/13edae/32.png) [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Interconnected_Series_of_Tubes)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/33 "2009-11-27T03:26:21Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > No. It seems too hostile and misogynist to me. Why would I want to degrade somebody I love? Degradation under controlled conditions with somebody you love and trust can be very exciting for many people. Male, 24, monogamous relationship. It’s an occasional treat, rarely am I left wanting. ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/34 "2009-11-27T03:30:34Z")
Degrading someone you love is a contradiction in terms. ---
**Author:** ![Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/13edae/32.png) [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Interconnected_Series_of_Tubes)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/35 "2009-11-27T03:34:32Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Degrading someone you love is a contradiction in terms. Maybe to you. ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/36 "2009-11-27T03:46:10Z")
To anyone. It’s absurd to even argue the point. ---
**Author:** ![Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/13edae/32.png) [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Interconnected_Series_of_Tubes)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/37 "2009-11-27T03:59:37Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > To anyone. It’s absurd to even argue the point. Really? You’ve never pulled your SO’s hair? Never grabbed and kissed them aggressively? You’ve never whispered dirty things in your lover’s ear let slip an exciting erotic insult or two, or used any objectifying/possessive language whatsoever? Or had angry, rough ‘make-up’ sex? You’ve never used any restraints, tried any power-exchange situations or costumes (schoolgirl, headmaster, cop, robber, maid) or spanked your girlfriend? You don’t find _any_ of these situations attractive in the least and never partake in them? I agree with you that there’s an absurd argument being made here, but that’s all. Then again, I’m not the one making absolute assertions about what people in ‘love’ (is there a more individualized concept in existence?) should do to each other or flatly stating that anybody engaging in the above actions couldn’t possibly have genuine feelings for their partner, you are. Sorry for the hijack. ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/38 "2009-11-27T04:09:45Z")
> [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](#): > > Really? You’ve never pulled your SO’s hair? Never grabbed and kissed them aggressively? You’ve never whispered dirty things in your lover’s ear let slip an exciting erotic insult or two, or used any objectifying/possessive language whatsoever? Or had angry, rough ‘make-up’ sex? You’ve never used any restraints, tried any power-exchange situations or costumes (schoolgirl, headmaster, cop, robber, maid) or spanked your girlfriend? You don’t find _any_ of these situations attractive in the least and never partake in them? None of the above. I do not, and never have had any impulse to hurt or degrade or humiliate a sex partner, especially not my wife. And no, I find nothing exciting about any of those things. ---
**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/39 "2009-11-27T04:18:16Z")
> [@Princhester](#): > > You gave your partner facials many times before you met? 😉 Perhaps they just hadn’t been properly introduced. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/40 "2009-11-27T04:19:02Z")
What the fuck kind of choir boy shit is that? Can’t pull a lady’s hair or jizz anywhere but into her reproductive organs? Do you fuck with your shirt on? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955.md?page=3)