# THE money shot: Have you ever? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 25, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955 "2009-11-25T21:21:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/41 "2009-11-27T04:22:36Z")
> [@MeanOldLady](#): > > What the fuck kind of choir boy shit is that? Can’t pull a lady’s hair or jizz anywhere but into her reproductive organs? Do you fuck with your shirt on? Pulling hair does nothing for me. Causing pain does nothing for me. I didn’t say I don’t jizz _anwhere_ but in the reproductive organs, just not on the face. That strikes me as degrading and mean. I’m not into showing dominance. I don’t need that. And yes, sometimes I leave my shirt on. Socks too. ---
**Author:** ![Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/13edae/32.png) [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Interconnected_Series_of_Tubes)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/42 "2009-11-27T04:28:40Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Pulling hair does nothing for me. Causing pain does nothing for me. I didn’t say I don’t jizz _anwhere_ but in the reproductive organs, just not on the face. That strikes me as degrading and mean. I’m not into showing dominance. I don’t need that. > > And yes, sometimes I leave my shirt on. Socks too. Fair enough. Sounds really boring to me; to each their own I suppose. But to bluntly _state_ that people who like flavors other than vanilla pure as the driven snow can’t possibly love each other is stupid. That’s ignorant, inflammatory and extremely insulting. ---
**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/43 "2009-11-27T04:29:31Z")
I won’t swallow (I honestly hate the taste and it burns going down), and I’d rather not have it in my mouth because I feel like a jerk if I spit, so I always tell guys to let me know and they can shoot it wherever they want. It’s never been anywhere near my eyes, but then again no one’s ever expressed any desire to specifically shoot all over my face. Usually it just goes on my chin and down onto my boobs and they think it’s way hot. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/44 "2009-11-27T04:44:20Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Pulling hair does nothing for me. Causing pain does nothing for me. No one said you had to rip the hair from the follicles. > [@](#): > > And yes, sometimes I leave my shirt on. Socks too. Yeah, sometimes I like to do my taxes in bed. Two birds with one stone, ya know. ---
**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/45 "2009-11-27T04:46:23Z")
Socks, too. FWIW, I’ve never had the desire to spooge on a partner, nor have I been asked. ---
**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/46 "2009-11-27T05:23:26Z")
> [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](#): > > Fair enough. Sounds really boring to me; to each their own I suppose. > > But to bluntly _state_ that people who like flavors other than vanilla pure as the driven snow can’t possibly love each other is stupid. That’s ignorant, inflammatory and extremely insulting. I didn’t see where he said or even implied that; he said he didn’t want to degrade someone he loves, not you (replacing he), not anyone else. And yes I agree with him. ---
**Author:** ![Cumberdale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8c91f0/32.png) [@Cumberdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cumberdale)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/47 "2009-11-27T05:34:20Z")
> [@John\_DiFool](#): > > I didn’t see where he said or even implied that; he said he didn’t want to degrade someone he loves, not you (replacing he), not anyone else. And yes I agree with him. I got the impression that is what he was implying: > [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Degrading someone you love is a contradiction in terms. > [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > To anyone. It’s absurd to even argue the point. There is a difference between playful dominance (for want of a better word) and hurting or abusing someone. As was said, you don’t have to rip the hair out of someones head, but a playful tug can be quite exciting. Also, it’s not only the woman who gets the “rough treatment”. Men can enjoy having their hair pulled (or whatever) too. ---
**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/48 "2009-11-27T05:54:49Z")
Another vote for “When I go, I want it to be in her”. Pulling out at the last minute seems to diminish the experience. I already know my penis it looks like when its ejaculating and I don’t need any visual proof that it happened so what’s the point? ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 6:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/49 "2009-11-27T06:09:42Z")
> [@Cumberdale](#): > > I got the impression that is what he was implying: > > There is a difference between playful dominance (for want of a better word) and hurting or abusing someone. As was said, you don’t have to rip the hair out of someones head, but a playful tug can be quite exciting. Also, it’s not only the woman who gets the “rough treatment”. Men can enjoy having their hair pulled (or whatever) too. To me, it doesn’t seem like a loving act, but to each his own. I’m pretty vanilla. ---
**Author:** ![Spezza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Spezza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spezza)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/50 "2009-11-27T12:39:10Z")
We do it, but not often. Usually only happens in the shower or after I’ve given her a really good pounding, in which case she is asking for it. And since we’re on the topic… while others have expressed their disdain for getting it in the eye, my girl would rather it in the eye than the hair. If I get it in her hair I’m in trouble. ---
**Author:** ![dhkendall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a9adbd/32.png) [@dhkendall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dhkendall)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/51 "2009-11-27T13:22:46Z")
Wife has never asked, and I’m pretty sure she never will. I’m along the lines of **wheresgeorge04** and others on this. Although, had things been different in my life, and I wound up with a partner who wanted that, I’d gladly accomodate her. No matter to me, because, hey, this is sex we’re talking about! As Woody Allen once said, “The worst sex I ever had was still right on the money.” If she wanted me to do it with a tutu and singing La Traviata, well I better brush up on my Verdi! 😉 (Actually, the tutu would be too much for me, not because of the obvious, but because I’ve found that I can’t be wearing _anything_, not even socks or blankets (to link to a few earlier comments) while in The Act, because I’d overheat and it ceases becoming pleasant at that point. I’ve realized that because of my wife’s more conservative nature in matters sexual than me, there will be some things that I will more than likely never experience in my sexual life that I would like to try. However, I’m extremely satisfied with the sex we do have, so I don’t worry about it too much. I’m sure we should all keep that in mind. ---
**Author:** ![Is\_it\_safe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/6de8d8/32.png) [@Is\_it\_safe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Is_it_safe)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/52 "2009-11-27T18:35:37Z")
M-40, F-23 We do it and both enjoy it. She finds it thrilling (her word) and it makes her feel wanton (also her word). I like it because, well I just really like it. Controlled degradation as noted above. Happily married if that adds anything to this ---
**Author:** ![Scougs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scougs/32/3158_2.png) [@Scougs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scougs)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/53 "2009-11-27T18:49:49Z")
I’m curious about the ones that don’t that automatically assume it equals pulling out at the last minute. In my opinion, there’s an awful lot more to a good sex life than putting Tab A in Slot B, and lots of other exciting ways of having orgasms together. And when he orgasms, it’s gotta go somewhere! Having said that, I’m not into facials, but just about anywhere else. I love watching him and feeling hot dollops spurting over my boobs, as I bring myself off with my vibrator. Nothing humiliating in that. TMI? I really hope none of my IRL friends find the Dope! ---
**Author:** ![Peg\_Leg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90db22/32.png) [@Peg\_Leg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peg_Leg)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/54 "2009-11-27T19:31:42Z")
Many many times. Given and received. Prefer receiving. With us, there is no dominance or submissiveness. It is just plain good and yummy fun. ---
**Author:** ![PlainJain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@PlainJain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PlainJain)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 8:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/55 "2009-11-27T20:02:31Z")
It doesn’t do anything for me, but it’s such a small thing thing along with all of the other messy things associated with sex, why not? ---
**Author:** ![Aji\_de\_Gallina](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aji_de_gallina/32/260_2.png) [@Aji\_de\_Gallina](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aji_de_Gallina)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/56 "2009-11-28T00:56:12Z")
> [@Jophiel](#): > > Another vote for “When I go, I want it to be in her”. Pulling out at the last minute seems to diminish the experience. \*\* I already know my penis it looks like when its ejaculating\*\* and I don’t need any visual proof that it happened so what’s the point? Too good ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/57 "2009-11-28T01:57:15Z")
Technically speaking the Money Shot != cumming on the face. The money shot is the visible ejaculation of the male, no matter what the target. Even though I’m a straight male, I have experienced this. I shot myself in the face once. ---
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/58 "2009-11-28T02:46:02Z")
> [@Boyo\_Jim](#): > > Even though I’m a straight male, I have experienced this. I shot myself in the face once. That’s hawt!! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![taco\_machine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e47c2d/32.png) [@taco\_machine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/taco_machine)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/59 "2009-11-28T02:58:39Z")
I personally think not pulling out at all is a far better experience. It fulfills the basic biological urge to reproduce and is far less messy (assuming she’s on birth control!) ---
**Author:** ![Chessic\_Sense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7c8e57/32.png) [@Chessic\_Sense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chessic_Sense)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/60 "2009-11-28T03:36:52Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Why would I want to degrade somebody I love? What makes you think I love her? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955.md?page=4)