# THE money shot: Have you ever? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 25, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955 "2009-11-25T21:21:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/61 "2009-11-28T04:05:56Z")
> [@Scougs](#): > > I’m curious about the ones that don’t that automatically assume it equals pulling out at the last minute. I’m more than curious. I’m baffled. (And I’m assuming you have an extra “don’t” in there.) Do you men only have orgasms through intercourse? If that’s what you like, and what your partner likes, more power to ya, but please remember that there are many other sexual activities that can lead to male orgasm. > [@pseudotriton\_ruber\_ruber](#): > > Never really saw what was so exciting from her POV about being jerked off on. It feels good. And I still don’t understand what’s degrading about it. I wish someone would give a better explanation than “it just is.” To answer the question–yes, I’ve received facials. They’re somewhat entertaining, but the risk of getting it in my eye or stuck in my hair makes it less enjoyable than it might be otherwise. If my partner was particularly into it, then it would be worth it, but in the meantime, I’ll take it on the tits, please. ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/62 "2009-11-28T04:17:20Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Causing pain does nothing for me. I’ll assume you know for a fact that recieiving pain (or money shots) do nothing for _her_. Sex is not dirty. I can’t figure out where people draw lines with it. If two people are enjoying sex together, why should come on the titties be clean but 6 inches up from there be dirty? ---
**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/63 "2009-11-28T04:19:03Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > No. It seems too hostile and misogynist to me. Why would I want to degrade somebody I love? > [@Chessic\_Sense](#): > > What makes you think I love her? You’re banging Dio’s wife? ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/64 "2009-11-28T04:31:20Z")
> [@Chessic\_Sense](#): > > What makes you think I love her? I was answering for _myself_. I don’t care what you do. > [@Nzinga](#): > > I’ll assume you know for a fact that recieiving pain (or money shots) do nothing for her. After 20 years together, yes, I know that for a fact. ---
**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/65 "2009-11-28T04:34:27Z")
“I think you should grow to care for people, and maybe even fall in love with them, before you use and degrade them.” - Steve Martin ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 4:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/66 "2009-11-28T04:36:37Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > I was answering for _myself_. I don’t care what you do. > > After 20 years together, yes, I know that for a fact. Well, it’s clear you love her. Enjoy whatever kind of sex floats her boat. And yours. ---
**Author:** ![Astroboy14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df705f/32.png) [@Astroboy14](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Astroboy14)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955/67 "2009-11-29T20:33:25Z")
> [@Nzinga\_Seated](#): > > Sex is not dirty. You’re not trying hard enough. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-money-shot-have-you-ever/518955.md?page=3)