As a liberal here is my take on that. I don’t consider conservatives evil who don’t want the government involved. Ron Paul doesn’t want social security or medicare, and I don’t consider him evil. Goldwater didn’t either, and I don’t consider him evil.
Part of it is that some conservatives don’t seem interested in solving problems. With health reform for example, liberals/democrats realize there is a problem. Some conservatives don’t seem to know or care that our health system is inhumane and unsustainable. That is an issue. Its not that both parties realize there is a problem and have different solutions (liberals want government solutions, conservatives want private sector solutions). It is more that conservatives don’t know or care that there are problems with our health system in the first place (it harms our economic competitiveness, it hurts people, it is unreliable, etc). So that doesn’t help with the ‘conservatives as evil’ meme because they seem to lack empathy. If a conservative came out and said ‘I realize XYZ is a problem, but I don’t think it is government’s role to fix it’ that isn’t evil because they realize there is a problem that needs a solution, just not a government solution. However most conservatives don’t seem to realize/care that there is a problem in the first place. With health care as long as they have good coverage, they really don’t care about what is happening in other people’s lives.
Another reason when I as a liberal consider some conservatives evil it is usually because they show high levels of hypocrisy and self absorption. For example, many of the teabaggers and town hall attendees who criticize welfare and socialized medicine collect social security and medicare. They support government welfare, but only for themselves. The average Fox news and talk radio viewer is 65-67, aka at the cusp of collecting medicare and social security, the two biggest welfare programs in the US.
I started a thread in the Pit about friends of friends who had a major medical problem, but it was hijacked into a debate where the same thing happened. A conservative said welfare was evil, but this conservative collected SS disability payments. The irony was totally lost.
Many in the conservative movement do have a strong degree of entitlement. They (at least the teabaggers and fox news viewers over 65) think they should get welfare and socialized medicine, but nobody else. They should get civil rights, but nobody else.
Look at how conservatives rail and scream about liberty (their liberty), then turn around and try to deny civil rights to gays, blacks, immigrants, prisoners, and almost everyone else.
So a big part of the ‘conservatives are evil’ meme, IMO, comes from how hypocritical they can be. The teabaggers collect social security and medicare, then turn around and rail about how horrible it is that some people are on welfare or might have a public option.
They complain about how horrible it is that someone else is oppressing them by saying ‘happy holidays’ instead of ‘merry christmas’ before going to a rally and trying to take away the civil rights of gays and women.
The eye rolling irony of this (Conservatives on SS and medicare railing against welfare & socialized medicine; conservatives trying to take the rights away from gays, blacks, women, prisoners, etc. while complaining they themselves are horribly oppressed, usually due to something petty and minor) is not lost on people.
Why are we stupid? I ask that seriously. I’ve always felt the opposite.
Liberals may not look at the negatives of some of our ideas (regulation may cost jobs and have negative side effects as an example) but by and large it seems conservatives are generally the ones who can be dogmatic, hypocritical and jaw droppingly dense.
Recently Glenn Beck, in his rants against progressivism, told his audience that he got his education for free at the library. Libraries are a cornerstone of progressivism, and funded by taxes. Nobody at the CPAC convention caught onto this basic fact, which would’ve been obvious to anyone who can think critically.
Many conservatives in the modern US come across as extremely dogmatic, entitled and lacking in basic critical thinking skills.
I don’t include you in that list though (you are more moderate than the ones I’m describing), but I live in a small town in a red state.