# The Official New York RibFest Thread

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [March 25, 2003, 12:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002 "2003-03-25T12:16:08Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 26, 2003, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/181 "2003-05-26T16:13:59Z")

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_Date and Time:_ June 14, 2003, starting roughly at noon and going until whenever  
_Place:_ Casa Dave-Guy. Please let me know if you need directions, and from whence you are coming. I am easily accessible from the NYThruway, the Palisades Interstate Parkway, the NJTurnpike, the Garden State Parkway, and the buses from PABT and the GWBridge.  
_Cost per Adult:_ Five bucks.

If you have folding chairs or lawn chairs, you might want to bring them. Also, maybe another grill. I’ll supply the charcoal.

Playground facilities close by for wee ones (and the young at heart).

**Definites**  
DAVEW0071 – three adults, cookies and two pies  
RTFirefly – one adult, maybe two, black bean salsa  
Gorgon Heap/Acrylic Vessel – two adults, chicken and Jell-O shots  
tkeana – two adults, homemade brownies  
MsRobyn/Airman Doors – two adults, chips and “mun-cheez”  
FriendBill/HelenWheels – two adults, macaroni salad  
Eutychus/Persephone – two adults, Hawaiian Tuna salad  
Biggirl and Co. – Four adults, beer  
Beerchick – one adult, fruit salad, potato salad, grilling veggies  
MannyL – one adult, a dessert-type thing  
Sakura’s two friends from school – two adults, dunno about side dishes  
Zappo – one adult, barrel o’ Utz and Vernor’s for Mrs. Dave-Guy  
TruePisces/Verrain – two adults, banana bread  
Little Nemo – one adult, ice cream  
Danyne and Mark – two adults, homemade cornbread  
SueDuhnym – two adults, baked beans, maybe veggies, maybe more  
manhattan/canby – two adults, cheese, crackers, and breadage  
Spit – one adult, side dish TBA  
Anita Vacation – one adult, side dish TBA  
SmackFu – one adult, chili  
Frank #2 – one adult, green salad  
rjk/zyada – two adults, fresh baked bread-type stuff  
Billdo – one adult, side dish TBA  
Weirddave/GingerOfTheNorth – two adults, side dish TBA  
Mom and Dad Woo – two adults, maybe watermelon, if I ask 'em

**Definite maybes**  
Cosmopolitan – one adult, side dish TBA  
Morgyn – one adult, side dish TBA

_Sunday Brunch_  
Time: Morning-ish. Y’know. Whatever…

**Attendees:**  
Zappo  
Euty/Persephone  
RTFirefly  
tkeana  
Spit  
Anita Vacation  
TruePisces/Verrain(?)  
MsRobyn/Airman Doors(?)  
Gorgon Heap/Acrylic Vessel(?)  
Danyne/Mark(?)  
Dave/Gingy(?)

We’re still awaiting confirmation that **SueDuhnym** ’s offer of a ride for **Cosmopolitan** still stands. Hope so.

Also, please get your checks or money orders to me ASAP. Sorry, PayPal isn’t an option. I don’t want to harp on this, but we’ve already laid out some dough over the past months to get some of the dry goods, and I have yet to buy the sauce ingredients, pay for the ribs, and arrange for the mountain of ice we’re gonna need. Those of you who have already paid, thanks much.

**Meros** , that’s a rotten shame. We’ll miss you. As far as money, not necessary. You don’t come, you don’t pay. It’s before the cutoff date, so while your presence will be lacking, your financial support is not required.

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### Author: ![Sue\_Duhnym](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@Sue\_Duhnym](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sue_Duhnym)
#### Post date: [May 27, 2003, 9:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/182 "2003-05-27T21:44:42Z")

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Sorry, I’ve been on vacation.

Cosmo, the offer stands and I’ll email you with my address.

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2003, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/183 "2003-05-28T01:40:05Z")

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Way to go, **Sue Duhnym**!!!

**Cosmo** is in _in **IN!!** _

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2003, 11:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/184 "2003-05-28T11:22:57Z")

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_Date and Time:_ June 14, 2003, starting roughly at noon and going until whenever  
_Place: Casa Dave-Guy._  
_Cost per Adult:_ Five bucks.

If you have folding chairs or lawn chairs, you might want to bring them. Also, maybe another grill. I’ll supply the charcoal.

Playground facilities close by for wee ones (and the young at heart).

**Definites**  
DAVEW0071 – three adults, cookies and two pies  
RTFirefly – one adult, maybe two, black bean salsa  
Gorgon Heap/Acrylic Vessel – two adults, chicken and Jell-O shots  
tkeana – two adults, homemade brownies  
MsRobyn/Airman Doors – two adults, chips and “mun-cheez”  
FriendBill/HelenWheels – two adults, macaroni salad  
Eutychus/Persephone – two adults, Hawaiian Tuna salad  
Biggirl and Co. – Four adults, beer  
Beerchick – one adult, fruit salad, potato salad, grilling veggies  
MannyL – one adult, a dessert-type thing  
Sakura’s two friends from school – two adults, dunno about side dishes  
Zappo – one adult, barrel o’ Utz and Vernor’s for Mrs. Dave-Guy  
TruePisces/Verrain – two adults, banana bread  
Little Nemo – one adult, ice cream  
Danyne and Mark – two adults, homemade cornbread  
SueDuhnym – two adults, baked beans, maybe veggies, maybe more  
manhattan/canby – two adults, cheese, crackers, and breadage  
Spit – one adult, side dish TBA  
Anita Vacation – one adult, side dish TBA  
SmackFu – one adult, chili  
rjk/zyada – two adults, fresh baked bread-type stuff  
Billdo – one adult, side dish TBA  
Weirddave/GingerOfTheNorth – two adults, side dish TBA  
Mom and Dad Woo – two adults, maybe watermelon, if I ask 'em  
Cosmopolitan – one adult, side dish TBA  
Morgyn – two adults, fruit salad, if she takes my suggestion

**Sunday Brunch**  
Time: Morning-ish. Y’know. Whatever…

**Attendees:**  
Zappo  
Euty/Persephone  
RTFirefly  
tkeana  
Spit  
Anita Vacation  
TruePisces/Verrain  
MsRobyn/Airman Doors  
Gorgon Heap/Acrylic Vessel(?)  
Danyne/Mark(?)  
Dave/Gingy(?)

Some people still have not committed to a side dish. While this is okay, it would be nice to have a well-rounded selection for the pot luck. It looks like desserts and bread are pretty much taken care of. Anyone interested in bringing a green salad or two? We have the standard variety of dressings, so don’t worry about that.

Soft drinks are also taken care of. We have numerous sodas, as well as lemonade and iced tea for the teetotals and underage.

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### Author: ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2003, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/185 "2003-05-28T12:10:59Z")

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Sorry, **Dave** , but we still haven’t had time to discuss the brunch issue. Things are a little hectic right now. In fact, it’s taking me two days just to send your check.

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### Author: ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2003, 5:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/186 "2003-05-28T17:14:51Z")

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Dave - the check is in the mail (I love saying that; I’ve been told the three great lies are, “I love you,” “the check is in the mail,” and “I’m from the government and I’m here to help you”) for me and the missus. She’s still a ‘maybe’, but at this late date I figured it was time to cough up the dough, just in case. And she’s equivalently a maybe for Sunday brunch.

I’ll try to bring some folding chairs along.

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2003, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/187 "2003-05-28T20:43:06Z")

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Thanks, **GH** and **RT**.

I’ve also recieved dough from **tkeana, FriendBill, MsRobyn, Little Nemo, WeirdGingy,** and **Zappo**.

Keep the funds coming, folks, I’m quintupling the recipe and the price of onions and brown sugar has skyrocketed!

In the “Good News/Bad News” category, I found out today that my wonderful co-worker Danyne and her husband Mark won’t be able to attend. Conflict with another family celebration, it seems. That’s the bad news. The good news is that she said she’d make homemade corn bread muffins anyway, and give them to me the Friday before.

She’s such a sweetie!

(And, **RT** , I always thought the two biggest lies ever were “The check is in your mouth” and “I promise I won’t come in the mail.” :D)

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 30, 2003, 9:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/188 "2003-05-30T21:47:25Z")

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Dollars from Dopers.

Got more dough from **RTFirefly** (along with an entirely appropriate and delightful three lines of Marx Bros. dialogue! Thanks! :D), **SmackFu, Gorgon Heap,** and last but definitely not least, **Anita Vacation**.

This helps greatly, friends and neighbors. I’ll be posting the closing of the list and the final Gang O’ Dopers on Sunday evening.

Again, if you need directions, or my address, phone number, or incriminating photos, just email me, subject line RibFest.

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### Author: ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)
#### Post date: [May 30, 2003, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/189 "2003-05-30T22:29:21Z")

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We’re here for ya, man.

[sub]So long as we get fed …[/sub]

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### Author: ![TruePisces](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/truepisces/32/13628_2.png) [@TruePisces](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TruePisces)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/190 "2003-05-31T08:25:48Z")

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**Darlin’ Dave** , can we give you the money when you’re here next weekend or is that too late?

**Zap** , now that **Meros** is out, do you think it would be possible to get us back to South Jersey before **Verrain’s** birthday celebrations there? (By 1 or 2?) If not, we’ll have to back out of the Sunday Brunch thing and ask to be dropped at a nearby train station (preferrably one that’s running) the night before. Or maybe I’ll just put a leg out and hope to get picked up by someone going in the right direction. 😉

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### Author: ![OxyMoron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@OxyMoron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OxyMoron)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/191 "2003-05-31T17:25:59Z")

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Ack, I never did post to this thread! Am I to late? I’ll send a cheque today!

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### Author: ![OxyMoron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@OxyMoron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OxyMoron)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/192 "2003-05-31T17:41:04Z")

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Cheque? Check. Check.

1-2-3. Check.

Ergh.

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### Author: ![Canby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7c8e57/32.png) [@Canby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Canby)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/193 "2003-05-31T17:48:06Z")

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Eep! Soon as I find an envelope, the check (for two) will be on its way.

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### Author: ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/194 "2003-05-31T18:29:41Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by OxyMoron \*  
> \*\*Cheque? Check. Check.
> 
> 1-2-3. Check.
> 
> Ergh. \*\*

Not ‘Ergh’, dear. That’s how the word is spelled by English speakers everywhere but the USA.

Dave, we aren’t 100% on staying overnight yet. We will let you know as soon as we are.

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/195 "2003-05-31T23:30:58Z")

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**TruePisces** , not a problem, hon. Next weekend is just fine. I’m not ordering the ribs and doing mega-shopping until the following week. If youse guys leave _Casa Dave-Guy_ by noon, you’ll be in South Joisey by two, easy. So stay, nosh, have a bagel and a glass tea…

**OxyMoron** , you are not too late, closeout isn’t until tomorrow. I’m glad you’re going to be attending. Need my address?

**Canby** , no hurry. See note to **True** above.

**Ginger** , I hope you can stay and have brunch, it would be a hellacious lot of driving in one day. You’re still pencilled in.

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### Author: ![Zappo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b3f665/32.png) [@Zappo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zappo)
#### Post date: [May 31, 2003, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/196 "2003-05-31T23:38:42Z")

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> [@](#):
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> **Zap** , now that **Meros** is out, do you think it would be possible to get us back to South Jersey before **Verrain’s** birthday celebrations there? (By 1 or 2?) If not, we’ll have to back out of the Sunday Brunch thing and ask to be dropped at a nearby train station (preferrably one that’s running) the night before. Or maybe I’ll just put a leg out and hope to get picked up by someone going in the right direction. 😉 \*\*

Damn.

My car is full now, as I have the AirmanRobyn clan going out and back with me, together with Booga and his paraphenalia. I dunno if we can squeeze youses in, as the tailgunner seat can’t be used (we have to keep his stuff back there, and it doesn’t latch anyhow), but maybe we can line you a ride with somebody else?

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### Author: ![OxyMoron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@OxyMoron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OxyMoron)
#### Post date: [June 1, 2003, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/197 "2003-06-01T02:01:24Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by DAVEW0071 \*
> 
> **OxyMoron** , you are not too late, closeout isn’t until tomorrow. I’m glad you’re going to be attending. Need my address?\*\*

Thanks! Looks like I’ll be getting there with **Manny** and **Canby** , so that should work.

And I noticed a shocking absence of banana pudding on the menu. It just isn’t a picnic without banana pudding. Sound good?

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [June 1, 2003, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/198 "2003-06-01T03:40:57Z")

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Banana pudding works for me.

And **Zappo** , let’s make sure **TruePisces** and **Verrain** get here, come hell or high water!

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### Author: ![Zappo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b3f665/32.png) [@Zappo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zappo)
#### Post date: [June 1, 2003, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/199 "2003-06-01T04:37:49Z")

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Oh, we’ll get ‘em here. . .we can work sompin’ out.

I gotta talk to Am this week anyway. We can figure out the logistics somehow.

And I get to see **Oxy**! Yay!

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### Author: ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)
#### Post date: [June 1, 2003, 12:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-official-new-york-ribfest-thread/164002/200 "2003-06-01T12:38:25Z")

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I knew I could count on you, **Zap**.

And we \*all \*get to see **Oxy**! Yay!

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