# The punks who assaulted my daughter (long) **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 26, 2008, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262 "2008-06-26T01:14:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 16
**Author:** ![Bricker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@Bricker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bricker)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2008, 9:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/301 "2008-08-26T21:33:06Z")
[QUOTE=norinew] I have an update that I’d rather not post on a public board. Anyone who is interested should feel free to email or PM me, and I’ll get back with you. Thank you all again for all of your support. [/QUOTE] Your PMailbox is full. ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2008, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/302 "2008-08-26T23:12:48Z")
[QUOTE=Bricker] Your PMailbox is full. [/QUOTE] I received a message in this regard, and have emptied my PMailbox. Re-send at will. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/303 "2008-09-25T14:21:32Z")
I was served papers just a few minutes ago. Court will be on October 2nd at 9AM. Just thought some of you might like to know. ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/304 "2008-09-25T14:23:26Z")
Yes, thank you! Lots of luck. ---
**Author:** ![Archergal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c89c15/32.png) [@Archergal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Archergal)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/305 "2008-09-25T14:40:03Z")
> [@norinew](#): > > I was served papers just a few minutes ago. Court will be on October 2nd at 9AM. Just thought some of you might like to know. Thinking good thoughts for you. ---
**Author:** ![Antigen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/848f3c/32.png) [@Antigen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antigen)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/306 "2008-09-25T14:49:09Z")
Good luck, **norinew**. I think you’ll feel a wave of good vibes coming out of the internets for you on Oct 2nd! ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/307 "2008-09-25T15:02:32Z")
> [@Antigen](#): > > Good luck, **norinew**. I think you’ll feel a wave of good vibes coming out of the internets for you on Oct 2nd! Thanks! Yes, I believe I’ll be feelin’ the Doper lurve. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Risha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/5fc32e/32.png) [@Risha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Risha)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/308 "2008-09-25T15:21:13Z")
Yay! Good luck. Will **mudgirl** have to testify in some way, or are they just using her previous statement? She’s so young… I’m assuming that if she does, you’ll have to be careful prepping her. I have no idea how I would do it. ---
**Author:** ![lunar\_elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/35a633/32.png) [@lunar\_elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lunar_elf)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/309 "2008-09-25T16:01:05Z")
Wow, that’s so weird! I was **just** thinking about this yesterday and was looking for the search feature (if it’s working…lol) to find the thread. Good luck! Good vibes! ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/310 "2008-09-25T16:21:44Z")
> [@Risha](#): > > Yay! Good luck. > > Will **mudgirl** have to testify in some way, or are they just using her previous statement? She’s so young… I’m assuming that if she does, you’ll have to be careful prepping her. I have no idea how I would do it. Her name does not appear on the subpoena, and she’s received none of her own. Nonetheless, I just left a voice mail for the ADA who’s handling the case to make sure that she won’t have to appear. If she will have to appear, we’ll work with her ahead of time to minimize trauma. As it is, I’ve requested my hubby put in for that day off work so he can come with me, because I think it may be somewhat traumatic for me. But I’ll get through it, and hopefully justice will be served. ---
**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/311 "2008-09-25T16:23:24Z")
Good luck and good feelings your way. ---
**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/312 "2008-09-25T16:25:46Z")
I’m a bit confused…_you_ were served papers? I’m assuming this is a notice the trial/arraignment/plea is going forward? Good luck to you! ---
**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/313 "2008-09-25T16:27:35Z")
> [@ivylass](#): > > I’m a bit confused…_you_ were served papers? I’m assuming this is a notice the trial/arraignment/plea is going forward? > > Good luck to you! Subpoenaed as a witness, most likely. ---
**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/314 "2008-09-25T16:28:14Z")
> [@norinew](#): > > As it is, I’ve requested my hubby put in for that day off work so he can come with me, because I think it may be somewhat traumatic for me. But I’ll get through it, and hopefully justice will be served. It probably will be, but you’re doing great. I’m glad this is moving forward. ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/315 "2008-09-25T16:35:14Z")
> [@ivylass](#): > > I’m a bit confused…_you_ were served papers? I’m assuming this is a notice the trial/arraignment/plea is going forward? > > Good luck to you! Yes, I’m considered a ‘witness’, even though I didn’t actually _see_ anything. I’m assuming it’s because I’m her mother, I’m the first person she told, and I’m the one who called the police. Thanks, everyone, for the good wishes! ---
**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/316 "2008-09-25T16:51:20Z")
Good luck, **norinew**! I’ll be crossing my fingers on October 2nd. ---
**Author:** ![appleciders](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@appleciders](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/appleciders)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 5:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/317 "2008-09-25T17:10:14Z")
> [@Bricker](#): > > Your PMailbox is full. This made me laugh out loud, after the tension of this thread. We’ve got quite a caring community here, and it’s good to see that in such times. **Norinew** , we’re all behind you on this one. Best of luck. ---
**Author:** ![Drain\_Bead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47774/32.png) [@Drain\_Bead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drain_Bead)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/318 "2008-09-25T19:00:58Z")
At least around here, if you want to subpoena a minor child to come to court as a witness, you HAVE to subpoena the parent and have them attend with the child. Usually the subpoena will mention bringing the child, though. ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/319 "2008-09-25T19:22:47Z")
> [@Drain\_Bead](#): > > At least around here, if you want to subpoena a minor child to come to court as a witness, you HAVE to subpoena the parent and have them attend with the child. Usually the subpoena will mention bringing the child, though. Yes, I’m certain laws around here would require attendance of a parent or guardian with the child, as well. But in this case, she is not mentioned at all in the subpoena. I have called the ADA who is listed on the papers and left a voice-mail asking for clarification on whether **mudgirl** needs to come with me or not. If not, I think I’ll wait until closer to the court date to talk to her about it. A week can seem like an awfully long time when you’re 8, and she’s doing well, and I’d hate to have her worrying about this for a whole week. ---
**Author:** ![Tequila\_Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/41988e/32.png) [@Tequila\_Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tequila_Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262/320 "2008-09-25T19:29:00Z")
I just had to chime in with my thoughts and wishes headed your way, and for a positive outcome on all of this. (I am glad I am able to post these now, too.) Your strength in doing what’s best for your daughter is an inspiration, Norine. Good on you. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262.md?page=15) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-punks-who-assaulted-my-daughter-long/454262.md?page=17)