# The Straight Dope Super Double Secret Clique... Lets just get it out in the open.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [November 14, 2001, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347 "2001-11-14T17:35:30Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Why\_A\_Duck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/13edae/32.png) [@Why\_A\_Duck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Why_A_Duck)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/61 "2001-11-15T18:25:54Z")

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:: looks at feet, kicks dirt around…

I wish I was in a clique.

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**Author:** ![tiggeril](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tiggeril/32/7234_2.png) [@tiggeril](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiggeril)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/62 "2001-11-15T18:36:48Z")

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Well, 1999 registration date, 4-digit post count, and your screen name involves ducks.

Yep, definitely an Oldtimer. Get yer rocker, a blanket, and a glass of Scotch.

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**Author:** ![blur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/dbc845/32.png) [@blur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blur)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/63 "2001-11-15T18:41:17Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Jophiel \*  
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> If you want to know more about the inner working of #SD, catch me in channel or mail me or consult your local library. No need to hijack this further. \*\*

How is it a hijack, I started thread, and I asked the follow up question to you. You and your friends are just out to get me, aren’t you? 🙂

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> \*Originally posted by Maeglin \*  
> **So consider me named. I’m in a clique and I’m proud!**

No no no… cliques are a bad word, you’re in various groups. 🙂 And I’ve never seen you be an ass to someone, just because they are not in your group, so groups aren’t a bad thing.

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> \*Originally posted by Maeglin \*  
> **It was only very recently that someone called me a cliquemeister for the very first time and I was-- taken aback and a little flattered as well.**

I remember, thats what really inspired this thread. Not that I think you are, just that I’m sick of seeing people called a Clique Meister and expecting that to be a legitimate arguement.

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> _Originally posted by tiggeril \*  
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> So… now am I not only the Dreaded Lick Monster of #straightdope TM, I’m in the Elite Clique TM and the Middle-Aged Oldtimer Clique TM TOO?!_\*

Lick Monster maybe, but Dreaded, never.

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> \*Originally posted by tiggeril \*  
> \*\*Well, 1999 registration date, 4-digit post count, and your screen name involves ducks.
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> Yep, definitely an Oldtimer. Get yer rocker, a blanket, and a glass of Scotch.\*\*

Not only 1999, but May of 1999. Maybe we should pull the chair and blanket over for **Why A Duck** so he/she can rest their well weathered SD bones.

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**Author:** ![Biggirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/biggirl/32/3294_2.png) [@Biggirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biggirl)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/64 "2001-11-15T18:53:07Z")

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> \*Originally posted by blur \*  
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> > \*Originally posted by Maeglin \*  
> > **It was only very recently that someone called me a cliquemeister for the very first time and I was-- taken aback and a little flattered as well.**
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> I remember, thats what really inspired this thread. Not that I think you are, just that I’m sick of seeing people called a Clique Meister and expecting that to be a legitimate arguement.
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Here I am, a cliquemeister and all, and people still ignore me. It just ain’t worth the dues.

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**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/65 "2001-11-15T19:04:24Z")

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LOL – Sorry, Blur. Hadn’t occured to me that this was **your** thread 😃 Ummm… ask away then if you want. (We 3/99 people get no respect)

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**Author:** ![Kiki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dc4da7/32.png) [@Kiki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiki)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/66 "2001-11-15T19:07:53Z")

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Registered December 1999 - check  
Four digit post count - check  
In a clique?? - nope 😕

I’m probably the most insignificant old timer here. I’ve formed one or two friendships since joining this board and that’s it. I would like to feel like more of the “in-crowd” but I don’t and I’ll openly admit that it’s my own fault. I’m somewhat shy IRL and I don’t want to make the first move towards forming a friendship (I assume that’s done by sending e-mails) and no one here has shown any interest in getting to know me IRL… so there you go. I’m not going to let that keep me from reading and posting because I love this place. I’ve just resigned myself to the fact that I’m not well known and that’s fine. I still feel that I make some sort of contribution here… no matter how insignificant it may be.

And because this is the pit I just want to add… Fuck!  
[sub]Whew! I feel much better now.[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Why\_A\_Duck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/13edae/32.png) [@Why\_A\_Duck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Why_A_Duck)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/67 "2001-11-15T19:34:08Z")

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> \*Originally posted by blur \*  
> **Not only 1999, but May of 1999. Maybe we should pull the chair and blanket over for Why A Duck so he/she can rest their well weathered SD bones.**

Oh yeah, there’s the ego boost I was looking for this afternoon (I’m a drake BTW).

In a way I think my reply will address this thread nicely though. I may have a May '99 registration date, but prior to about June of 2000, I think my post count may have been 1, if that. I’ve been reading Cecil’s books since they first came out, but never had AOL so I didn’t get involved in that MB. However, when Unca Cece gained a web presence, I rushed right over to sign up. I didn’t post a lot because quite frankly I felt intimidated.

Nothing to do with cliques or anything, but I could tell just by reading that this was a fairly tight community. I didn’t feel that I was being excluded, but I also knew that I didn’t have the time to get the feel of the board. I didn’t want to just barge right in and make a nuisance of myself, so I lurked for a while. Then life took over and I ended up not being here for a year.

When I came back, I had the time to start paying attention to the group dynamics and learning the pace and flow of things around here. I’ll be the first to admit that I still have no clue what’s going on around here half the time, but I don’t feel there’s any intentional effort being made to exclude me either. I’m just grateful that this crowd exists.

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**Author:** ![Demo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/demo/32/8472_2.png) [@Demo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Demo)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/68 "2001-11-15T19:49:56Z")

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Well, I don’t know about the rest of you losers, but us **BAD** s (Bay Area Dopers to you losery newbies) are definitely a clique. We sit around at every Dopefest, talking about how we can take over he board and how much we hate the rest of you all.

And don’t let the chat people tell you different. They do the same thing.

And some of us are on the old-timer clique e-mail discussion list that says who we should be flaming that week. Don’t let anyone tell you differently.

Hey, **Why A Duck** , have you changed your screen name recently? Your email address looks familiar to me, but not your screen name.

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**Author:** ![Why\_A\_Duck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/13edae/32.png) [@Why\_A\_Duck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Why_A_Duck)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 8:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/69 "2001-11-15T20:03:59Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Demo \*  
> \*\*Hey, **Why A Duck** , have you changed your screen name recently? Your email address looks familiar to me, but not your screen name. \*\*

Oh sure, I finally remember to check the Show Signature box when I post. Does anyone pay attention to that? Noooooo.

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**Author:** ![Demo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/demo/32/8472_2.png) [@Demo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Demo)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2001, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-straight-dope-super-double-secret-clique-lets-just-get-it-out-in-the-open/93347/70 "2001-11-15T20:10:06Z")

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Arrgghhh! Sorry, I just read that. Well, makes sense why your email sounded familiar. 😉

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