[QUOTE=MichaelQReilly]
…It boggles my mind that people choose to live where they do. I live right near the northern part of main street in Glastonbury, so I can literally be in downtown Hartford in 5 minutes assuming no traffic. But sometimes I drive out to the eastern part of town to take my dog to the reservoir and I see these million dollar homes. I don’t know who would want to live there, it would take an hour round trip to pick up one thing from the grocery store. The kicker is they are being built on what was previously farm land, so that someone like me, who would love to buy a small farm one day, will literally never be able to.
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Well, after I got out of the Navy (I used to be on the USS San Juan, like aruvqan’s husband, IIRC), my first job was in Glastonbury. It took about 15 minutes of house hunting to realize that there was no way we could afford a house in Glastonbury, so we ended up another 20 miles down the road, in another town. Now, I’m making more, and my wife is working, too, but we are pretty well established in our town. To move closer to work (which is now in Hartford, for me), we’d have to uproot our son from school, his friends, his Boy Scout troop, etc. Since my whole childhood as an Army brat was an unending series of constant moves (I went to 13 different schools in 6 different states and foreign countries before going off to college), I’d rather not do this.
On the other hand, my wife and I each drive 30 miles each way to work. This may still not be sustainable in the long run, considering the rising cost of fuel.
Also, MichaelQReilly, I’d add that the “northern part of Main Street in Glastonbury” is a fairly crowded, busy area. This area consists of restaurants, strip malls, gasoline stations, another strip mall (including a Home Depot and a Shaw’s), more restaurants, with a smattering of houses that are gradually being torn down or converted to businesses. This area is also a stone’s throw from East Hartford. All in all, I can see why people would want to be in a more rural area like South Glastonbury or the like. If I could afford it, I’d live in one of those houses you describe. Instead, I live another 20 miles out.