# These are bad signs for a potential home, yes?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 26, 2016, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788 "2016-10-26T16:31:39Z")\
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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/1 "2016-10-26T16:31:39Z")

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This isn’t me. This isn’t even someone I know. I just want to make sure I’m advising them properly.

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> My husband and I are trying to move our family out of \<state redacted\> and we’ve found an amazing opportunity with a building that has rented apartment units on top and a retail commercial space below in a small town in the state we’ve been looking at for the past year. This is exactly what I’ve been wanting to do (live upstairs, work downstairs) but unfortunately this building is a cash only sale due to a small snag with the deed. Tenant parking is behind the building, but the driveway to access the parking is not on the deed, and one of the two neighbors refuses to put anything into writing in regards to access so a traditional loan won’t go through.

This is jacked up, right? I’m thinking having to pay in cash and having an unreasonable neighbor right off the bat are red flags. I told her I wouldn’t touch such a deal with a ten foot pole, but I don’t really know about these things.

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**Author:** ![burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/burpo_the_wonder_mutt/32/365_2.png) [@burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/burpo_the_wonder_mutt)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/2 "2016-10-26T16:40:28Z")

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Holy frijoles, RUN AWAY!

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**Author:** ![Renee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/renee/32/287_2.png) [@Renee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Renee)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/3 "2016-10-26T16:40:33Z")

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Unless they can get the easement in writing, they should pass. It could be a huge, expensive headache down the road. If they really want it, they could offer the neighbors some cash to get the easement legal.

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**Author:** ![nearwildheaven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90db22/32.png) [@nearwildheaven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nearwildheaven)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/4 "2016-10-26T16:42:36Z")

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> [@burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](#):
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> Holy frijoles, RUN AWAY!

Agreed.

Any time someone refuses to get something in writing in a big flapping red flag.

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**Author:** ![Kent\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kent_clark/32/105_2.png) [@Kent\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kent_Clark)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/5 "2016-10-26T16:46:04Z")

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There’s a reason a bank won’t risk its money on a loan. Are your friends willing to bet that much money?

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/6 "2016-10-26T16:46:21Z")

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Okay. Glad my BS meter isn’t calibrated as poorly as I thought.

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**Author:** ![Azeotrope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/0ea827/32.png) [@Azeotrope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azeotrope)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/7 "2016-10-26T16:49:29Z")

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Regarding deeds, there’s no such thing as a “small snag.” If it were such a minor matter, the seller would have taken care of it years ago.

As for the driveway access, people will sue their neighbors for putting a fence 3" over the property line. “It’s not illegal for me to scatter giant concrete blocks all over my own property! They wouldn’t have wrecked their car if they weren’t tresspassing!”

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/8 "2016-10-26T16:50:04Z")

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I quit reading after “small problem with the deed”. Tell your friends to keep looking.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/9 "2016-10-26T16:57:31Z")

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> [@Azeotrope](#):
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> Regarding deeds, there’s no such thing as a “small snag.” If it were such a minor matter, the seller would have taken care of it years ago.
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> As for the driveway access, people will sue their neighbors for putting a fence 3" over the property line. “It’s not illegal for me to scatter giant concrete blocks all over my own property! They wouldn’t have wrecked their car if they weren’t tresspassing!”

It’s not much better if [the blocks are all in a straight line…](http://www.wftv.com/news/local/man-comes-home-find-neighbor-has-taken-half-his-dr/69553315)

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**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/10 "2016-10-26T17:07:43Z")

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> [@Spice\_Weasel](#):
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> This isn’t me. This isn’t even someone I know. I just want to make sure I’m advising them properly.
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> This is jacked up, right? I’m thinking having to pay in cash and having an unreasonable neighbor right off the bat are red flags. I told her I wouldn’t touch such a deal with a ten foot pole, but I don’t really know about these things.

Sounds like someone’s setting up to sell something they don’t own and forestall the victims learning the truth by making them hesitant to discuss things w/ the neighbors until the seller has split w/ their cash. Sweet, sweet, untraceable cash.

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**Author:** ![Pantastic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/3bc359/32.png) [@Pantastic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pantastic)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/11 "2016-10-26T17:49:57Z")

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If a bank won’t sign a mortgage because of a problem with the deed or title, it’s not a ‘small snag’. It’s a huge issue that will probably derail any attempt by your friend to sell the property later, and will certainly hurt its value. It also probably indicates that there are significant other legal problems with the property. I wouldn’t mind dropping a few hundred dollars on a cheap used car that has title issues of some sort, but is your friend ready to write off the tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars they sink into the house if the problems turn out to be big?

Also, characterizing the neighbors as unreasonable for not wanting to sign over property rights to someone else is not fair to them. There are a lot of explanations for why they don’t want to sign over easement rights - perhaps they have an issue with the property or it’s use, or maybe the seller has angered them in some way, or what the seller wanted them to sign was an unreasonable document. I don’t mention this because I’m worried about unnamed people that none of us have met being offended at being called ‘unreasonable’, but because it is a red flag to me that the seller is either projecting his own issues on the neighbors or that there is more to the story that they’re not telling you.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/12 "2016-10-26T18:39:26Z")

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> [@Pantastic](#):
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> Also, characterizing the neighbors as unreasonable for not wanting to sign over property rights to someone else is not fair to them. There are a lot of explanations for why they don’t want to sign over easement rights - perhaps they have an issue with the property or it’s use, or maybe the seller has angered them in some way, or what the seller wanted them to sign was an unreasonable document.

Good point.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/13 "2016-10-26T19:06:31Z")

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_we’ve found an amazing opportunity_

Red flag.

_unfortunately this building is a cash only sale due to a small snag with the deed._

Double red flags.

_the driveway to access the parking is not on the deed, and one of the two neighbors refuses to put anything into writing in regards to access so a traditional loan won’t go through._

Red flags, set and match.

Unless this couple loves hassle, they should drop their “amazing opportunity” and go find something else.

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**Author:** ![Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim_r.mortiss/32/142_2.png) [@Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tim_R.Mortiss)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/14 "2016-10-26T19:15:00Z")

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If a bank, who is in the business of smelling good vs. bad deals, won’t give you a loan, that’s time to pass.

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2016, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/15 "2016-10-26T19:49:13Z")

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The issue with access can likely be sorted out by speaking to the concerned parties and offering them more money. But what other problems lurk? Get a full survey done and speak to the bank about their other concerns.

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**Author:** ![Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Springtime_for_Spacers)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2016, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/16 "2016-10-27T00:10:34Z")

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I remember looking at a property of which it was said that the City Council may own the front garden (and might at some point want to widen the road and make said garden disappear). _May_ own? Yeah not touching that.

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**Author:** ![ftg](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ftg/32/2801_2.png) [@ftg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ftg)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2016, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/17 "2016-10-27T14:35:20Z")

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Why don’t the neighbors sign anything? One possible answer is that they are unhappy with the cars parking there and want it to stop. They might have no easy way to stop it with the current owners, but they sure aren’t going to make it easy for the next ones. Maybe a good lawyer could use historical access or some such, but that costs $$$.

Such an immense red flag I can’t imagine considering this for more than five seconds.

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**Author:** ![Me\_Billy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e480ec/32.png) [@Me\_Billy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Me_Billy)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2016, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/18 "2016-10-27T17:15:06Z")

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If they are having trouble selling it now, then if you bought it, YOU would have trouble selling it in the future.

Try thinking ahead about these things! (Something people can’t seem to do these days?)

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2016, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/19 "2016-10-27T18:22:48Z")

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> [@Me\_Billy](#):
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> If they are having trouble selling it now, then if you bought it, YOU would have trouble selling it in the future.
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> Try thinking ahead about these things! (Something people can’t seem to do these days?)

She’s asking for a friend, just confirming her hinky feeling. I can assure you, **Spice** is quite smart.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2016, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/these-are-bad-signs-for-a-potential-home-yes/769788/20 "2016-10-27T18:27:29Z")

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It’s actually a person in an online fitness group I have no relationship to whatsoever. Though I tend to be a little shaky in the common sense department, and I find Dopers do much better with this stuff than I do. You guys serve as good BS meter calibrators. So, thanks.

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