# Things Others Care Deeply About That You Don't Give A Rat Doot About, Frankly

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 13, 2002, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875 "2002-06-13T16:18:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![Jodi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@Jodi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jodi)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/1 "2002-06-13T16:18:08Z")

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These are things you hear others talking about, even debating with great passion, and think “Huh. There’s something I don’t give a shit about.” I’m interested to hear what sorts of things are on others’ lists. This is not an invitation to criticize others’ lists or to defend the value of your personal favorite thing because it appears on someone else’s list.\*\* So relax, it’s all in fun, jeez. I’ll go first:

_Attack of the Clones_

_Buffy The Vampire Slayer_

Professional wrestling

The World Cup

Healthcare reform

Wine

Traffic

Enron

Organic farming

Video games/roll playing games

Um, that’s all I can think of now.

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**Author:** ![lolagranola](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ea5d25/32.png) [@lolagranola](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lolagranola)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/2 "2002-06-13T16:24:47Z")

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I’m game, even though my beloved Buffy appeared on your list. 😛

Sports! And my husband is one who keeps starting hockey threads here as well.

Uh, that’s mostly it. Name your sport. Car racing. Football. Basketball. Whatever. It’s all crap to me.

Oh, whoa, wait. One more. Cars. My husband starts explaining all about different cars to me, and all I hear is “Blah blah blah Lola”. Kind of like when the adults talk on _Peanuts_.

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**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/3 "2002-06-13T16:46:06Z")

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Tennis

Golf

Pro Football

Working Out

Frank Herbert’s books

Fashion

Bloody Mary Recipes

Seafood

Coffee

sportscars

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**Author:** ![booklover](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/85f322/32.png) [@booklover](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/booklover)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/4 "2002-06-13T16:51:01Z")

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NASCAR (actually, most sports except for soccer and gymnastics)

General car discussions

Makeup

Star Trek/Star Wars

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/5 "2002-06-13T17:07:39Z")

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I’ve never seen Buffy or The West Wing so I guess I can’t comment about them. Wait… I just did.

Survivor  
The World or Stanley Cup  
Basketball  
Dale Earnhart  
Hanging chad  
Miracle diets  
Martha Stewart  
Pam Anderson  
Porn  
Soaps  
Feng Shui

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**Author:** ![Darwins\_Finch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darwins_finch/32/20304_2.png) [@Darwins\_Finch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darwins_Finch)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/6 "2002-06-13T17:10:45Z")

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Sports.

Politics.

Other people’s sex lives.

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/7 "2002-06-13T17:45:02Z")

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Sports (any/all, unless some one I personally care about is playing in the game)

BuffyVPS  
West Wing  
Any medical show on TV  
Religion  
Chocolate  
Cars  
Wrestling  
Fashion  
Nail polish  
Shoes/Shoe shopping  
other people’s sexual events  
anyone’s digestive tract  
Damn. Wonder what I find to talk about?

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**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/8 "2002-06-13T17:47:24Z")

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Figure skating  
Survivor  
Name brands of clothing or make-up

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**Author:** ![MrVisible](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/46a35a/32.png) [@MrVisible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrVisible)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/9 "2002-06-13T17:50:55Z")

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Sports

Religion (Really, if it wasn’t for religious organizations casting gay people as evil and wrong, it just wouldn’t show up on my radar.)

Beanie Babies

Anime

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**Author:** ![ultress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/7c8e57/32.png) [@ultress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultress)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/10 "2002-06-13T17:53:19Z")

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Politics  
Sports  
Cars  
Cats  
bodily excretions/fluids  
the weather in general

I’m sure as soon as I hit the send buttom I’ll have ten more come to mind

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**Author:** ![auntie\_em](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5e9695/32.png) [@auntie\_em](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/auntie_em)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/11 "2002-06-13T17:56:02Z")

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OK, see, I thought this thread was going to be about BIG political issues as opposed to, say, people’s passion for _Buffy_ or a good Cabernet.

So I was all prepared to come in with the big guns about Major Issues about which I’m _juuuuuuuuust_ now starting to give a flying hoot, like:

[ul] a) Politics. Sure, I found _local_ politics remotely interesting, because our City Council is a freak show (complete with childish pranks and antics that could rival a 13-year-old on his best day). But I didn’t really follow national politics, which means ditto for issues like

b) The Environment. I suppose I cared in a _remote_ way, like “Damn shame about all of those dead seagulls”, but only recently have I cared to the extent of going to more expense/inconvenience, like eschewing fabric softener and dryer sheets, buying (more expensive) environmentally friendly household items, or making my own floor cleaner out of vinegar and vegetable oil instead of dropping a bottle of Pine Sol into my cart on my next trip to the store. This goes the same for

c) Labor Practices. While one of my best friends was picketing in front of her local GAP store, I was furtively buying GAP items online, and hiding my J.Crew catalogs when she came to my house (usually loaded down with clothes she’d bought for me at the Salvation Army in an attempt to get me to stop shopping at the blacklisted stores). The shit was cute, looked good on me, and I could get it delivered right to my door. Now it may just be a handy coincidence that I can’t really afford to clothes shop anymore, but I can pawn it off as protest… [/ul]

…or stuff about which I don’t yet give a hoot, for example:

[ul]d) Although my job entails staffing a volunteer council that advocates for the needs and rights of local senior citizens (and even though my beloved mother is a senior, and I myself will likely be one someday), I don’t really give a hoot about most of the stuff they talk about at the meetings. I talk a good game, but when it comes right down to it, I consider it my job to offer technical and administrative assistance to these people, not to join them in lobbying against budget cuts during the Legislative session.[/ul]

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not like the guy who thinks seniors should be killed off _Soylent Green_-style or exiled to a remote island. So far, however, charity in this arena is still “at home” for me. In other words, if MY mother goes into a nursing home and doesn’t get adequate care, hell yeah I’m gonna be up in arms. But right now I just don’t feel any passion about senior issues as a whole. Perhaps that’s because I associate them with WORK…?

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**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/12 "2002-06-13T18:44:23Z")

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Survivor  
The Real World (I watched the first season 10 years ago and part of The Real World - California, but I haven’t been interested since)  
Computer Programming or Networking  
Religion  
Politics to a certain extent - I have my issues but as a whole I’m not interested  
The Sopranos (Don’t even have HBO)  
Sex in the City (see above parenthetical notation)  
Spiderman  
Scooby Doo

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**Author:** ![Mr.Blue\_Sky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Mr.Blue\_Sky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Blue_Sky)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/13 "2002-06-13T18:49:35Z")

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“Professional” sports  
Politics  
Celebrity causes (unless they can prove they had said causes BEFORE they became celebrities)

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**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/14 "2002-06-13T19:09:09Z")

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Television programs  
Movies  
Role-playing games  
Most sports  
Dale Earnhardt (although I’m game for almost all other NASCAR discussion)  
Politics  
Labor issues, as **auntie em** said above

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**Author:** ![simple\_homer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de0a6/32.png) [@simple\_homer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simple_homer)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/15 "2002-06-13T19:19:04Z")

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sports

what others think about me

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**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/16 "2002-06-13T19:26:49Z")

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Beer.  
Professional basketball (unless it’s the Philadelphia 76ers, in which I’d develop a minor curiosity out of city loyalty).  
The Beatles. Hate 'em, actually.  
Turning the clock back to the 1950s to make the world a better place.

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**Author:** ![jk1245](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/49beb7/32.png) [@jk1245](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jk1245)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/17 "2002-06-13T19:28:56Z")

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NASCAR  
Star Trek  
Most Network TV  
Pro Wrestling  
the NBA  
Doing my homework in these last 4 weeks of grad school 😃

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/18 "2002-06-13T19:29:58Z")

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Well, there was a time when Buffy would be on top of my list. Now I’m obsessed and I want my life back goddamnit!

Anywho:  
The Sopranos  
Sex and the City  
Shoot, **every** TV show _except_ Buffy, The West wing, and The Shield.)  
Politics  
Monty Python  
Anime

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**Author:** ![Morgainelf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Morgainelf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgainelf)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/19 "2002-06-13T19:33:44Z")

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Sports  
Sports  
Sports

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**Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-others-care-deeply-about-that-you-dont-give-a-rat-doot-about-frankly/113875/20 "2002-06-13T19:59:06Z")

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Sports  
TV  
Movies  
Art  
Fashion  
Wine  
Most political issues  
Most celebrities, esp. those famous for being famous ala Zsa Zsa  
Electronic gadgets apart from computers  
Interior decorating  
Finance  
Gardening

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