# Things that infuriate you well beyond their actual importance

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 4, 2024, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712 "2024-09-04T02:18:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2026, 11:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2701 "2026-02-05T23:41:12Z")

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They where not trying to sell anything, just get money for a school trip.

I donno. There was a parent nearby. It’s some sort of a trip they where going on. But, they said to my wife it was a ‘Mission to a reservation’. So I’ve not a clue. My wife gave them twenty bucks. We are not religious at all but all travel is good for kids.

See what’s out there, and make up your own minds is my opinion. Perhaps Native Americans will change their minds about what religion is. Who knows.

Edie Brickell nailed it.

[I know what I know, if you know what I mean](https://genius.com/36883569/Edie-brickell-and-new-bohemians-what-i-am/I-know-what-i-know-if-you-know-what-i-mean)  
[Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box](https://genius.com/12996364/Edie-brickell-and-new-bohemians-what-i-am/Philosophy-is-the-talk-on-a-cereal-box)  
[Religion is the smile on a dog](https://genius.com/12996289/Edie-brickell-and-new-bohemians-what-i-am/Religion-is-the-smile-on-a-dog)

And

[Philosophy is a walk on the slippery rocks](https://genius.com/12996424/Edie-brickell-and-new-bohemians-what-i-am/Philosophy-is-a-walk-on-the-slippery-rocks)  
[Religion is a light in the fog](https://genius.com/12996379/Edie-brickell-and-new-bohemians-what-i-am/Religion-is-a-light-in-the-fog)

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2026, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2702 "2026-02-05T23:48:04Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> They where not trying to sell anything, just get money for a school trip.

Okay, my point was really more about “The kids probably didn’t want to be doing whatever they were doing.” Selling, begging for donations, whatever.

> [@enipla](#):
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> See what’s out there, and make up your own minds is my opinion. Perhaps Native Americans will change their minds about what religion is. Who knows.

Have we not done enough to those poor people already?

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2026, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2703 "2026-02-05T23:54:26Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> Have we not done enough to those poor people already?

I meant change the minds of the kids.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2026, 11:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2704 "2026-02-05T23:56:46Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> “The kids probably didn’t want to be doing whatever they were doing.” Selling, begging for donations, whatever.

Welcome to the new economy under the GOP.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2705 "2026-02-06T00:00:36Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> I meant change the minds of the kids.

So did I.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 12:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2706 "2026-02-06T00:03:16Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> So did I.

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> Have we not done enough to those poor people already?

So, we’ve already done to much to privledged white kids? I’m not following you.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2707 "2026-02-06T00:14:13Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> So, we’ve already done to much to privledged white kids? I’m not following you

No, we’ve already done too much to Native Americans, so maybe don’t give missionaries money so they can go and harass them at their homes. Would you appreciate it if someone was paying missionaries 20 bucks to ring _your_ doorbell?

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 12:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2708 "2026-02-06T00:20:02Z")

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OK, I get you. I just thought that the travel might be good and the white kids could learn something from native americans.

Harasment is right out. I was not in on the discussion. I mostly assumed, second hand, that it was some sort of missionary movement. I deplore that.

My Wife just left for a meeting. 100 women from [our town] that makes a difference. $100 a quarter, each. Then they vote on what organization to give it all too. That’s a chunck of change.

The rules are simple. Nothing political or religious. Meals on Wheels would be OK. Homeless shelters. Dumb friends league. That sort of stuff.

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**Author:** ![PatrickLondon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/patricklondon/32/4422_2.png) [@PatrickLondon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PatrickLondon)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 12:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2709 "2026-02-06T12:16:37Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> I just thought that the travel might be good and the white kids could learn something from native americans.

If that’s really what the money was for…

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**Author:** ![Shoeless](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shoeless/32/7099_2.png) [@Shoeless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shoeless)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2710 "2026-02-06T14:57:32Z")

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My wife had some minor surgery a couple weeks ago, and I had to use the restroom there a couple times while I was waiting. (Too much coffee!) They had those motion detector towel dispensers in the restrooms, and they were set to only dispense about four inches of towel. Barely enough to get a grip on to tear off, but waving your hand in front of the sensor to get it to roll out more towel was futile. So, wave hand, dispense four inches of paper towel, tear it off, wave hand again, etc about four times until you had enough paper towel to dry your hands off. Very annoying. On the other hand, I’d rather have that than the folded paper towel dispenser that’s packed so tight you can’t get just one or two towels out and wind up pulling out a three inch thick stack.

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**Author:** ![pjd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pjd/32/3009_2.png) [@pjd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pjd)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 4:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2711 "2026-02-06T16:08:55Z")

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> [@Shoeless](#):
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> On the other hand, I’d rather have that than the folded paper towel dispenser that’s packed so tight you can’t get just one or two towels out and wind up pulling out a three inch thick stack.

Those things really piss me off. Especially when they have a notice  
attached that says “Save the planet - please only take 1 or 2 sheets”  
(or words to that effect.)

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**Author:** ![sciurophobic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cab0a1/32.png) [@sciurophobic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sciurophobic)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2712 "2026-02-06T18:17:42Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> Gas pump ‘commercials’. Yes, you have a captured audiance, but give it a break just for once.
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> They often startle the hell out of me.

The second button from the top on the right will mute it.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2713 "2026-02-06T19:20:20Z")

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Thanks. I’m constantly fighting hearing issues. Current hearing aids where $6000. I just pisses me off.

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**Author:** ![GESancMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gesancman/32/2923_2.png) [@GESancMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GESancMan)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2714 "2026-02-06T21:20:50Z")

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> [@pjd](#):
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> > [@Shoeless](#):
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> > On the other hand, I’d rather have that than the folded paper towel dispenser that’s packed so tight you can’t get just one or two towels out and wind up pulling out a three inch thick stack.
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> Those things really piss me off. Especially when they have a notice  
> attached that says “Save the planet - please only take 1 or 2 sheets”  
> (or words to that effect.)

The problem here is the employees, not the dispenser. The employee packs too many towels into the dispenser, under the misguided assumption that they won’t have to fill it as often. Packing them too tightly has the opposite effect.

Back when I ran a restaurant, this was a constant battle with my employees.

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**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2715 "2026-02-06T21:25:37Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> Hey guys, if you don’t ring the bell, you won’t get an answer. And you won’t get money if you don’t get peoples attention.

Hey guys- please do not ring my doorbell- unless you have a package I have to sign for, or you are emergency services.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2716 "2026-02-06T21:31:03Z")

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So people should just stand there until they are noticed?

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**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2717 "2026-02-06T21:34:42Z")

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No, if you want to sell something- dont come to my door at all. I aint buying. Period. (many are scams anyway) Not even for Girl Scout Cookies (we get ours from a table outside the local Ralphs).

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2026, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2718 "2026-02-06T21:37:08Z")

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Well… yeah.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2026, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2719 "2026-02-08T22:56:27Z")

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> [@DrDeth](#):
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> Hey guys- please do not ring my doorbell- unless you have a package I have to sign for, or you are emergency services.

Personally, I’ll make an exception for Girl Scout cookies.

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**Author:** ![Ludovic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@Ludovic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludovic)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2026, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-that-infuriate-you-well-beyond-their-actual-importance/1006712/2720 "2026-02-09T00:17:01Z")

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> [@sciurophobic](#):
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> The second button from the top on the right will mute it.

This used to work, but now rarely works where I am, and all along the East Coast. I press every button and no muting occurs. However, the local 7/11s don’t have ads at all, so I frequent them for my gas. (Ironically, they were the first ones I remember to do audio advertising at the pumps, in the form of PAs that were continuously blasting ads for their in-store products. But they’ve since dropped those as well: it’s been years since I remember hearing one.)

If what they say is true about gas profits, then this advertising hurts them from my perspective since I won’t buy anything from a store in which this occurs. I just get my gas, giving the franchisee a minimal profit, and then leave, buying my convenience-store-type products elsewhere. And then I never frequent that location again. But that has less effect when on a long road trip.

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