# Things you do that nobody else understands

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 5, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321 "2008-11-05T18:45:26Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 15\
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**Author:** ![Ronald\_C.Semone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/cc9497/32.png) [@Ronald\_C.Semone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ronald_C.Semone)\
**Post date:** [November 7, 2008, 1:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/41 "2008-11-07T13:12:15Z")

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> [@Sitnam](#):
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> Coldblooded would wear more clothes, I am VERY warm blooded.

No, this is a common misconception. A lizard, for example, can endure extremes of cold because it is cold blooded; its blood’s temperature will adapt to the ambient temperature and the lizard will not feel cold. A human is warm blooded; it’s blood has to be maintained at rought 98.6 degrees F. As the ambient temperature goes down, the body has to work harder to keep the blood at 98.6 and that is why warm blooded creatures, including man, feel colder.

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [November 7, 2008, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/42 "2008-11-07T14:19:53Z")

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> [@Ronald\_C.Semone](#):
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> No, this is a common misconception. A lizard, for example, can endure extremes of cold because it is cold blooded; its blood’s temperature will adapt to the ambient temperature and the lizard will not feel cold.

Have you asked them?

Cold blooded animals love to bask in a warm spot. That seems to me to indicate they do feel cold, there just isn’t anything they can do about it.

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**Author:** ![Unsquare\_Dance](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/b3f665/32.png) [@Unsquare\_Dance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Unsquare_Dance)\
**Post date:** [November 7, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/43 "2008-11-07T15:36:33Z")

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I call my mother “Mothra.” People don’t get it, but it’s contagious. She’s even adopted it as her internet nickname.

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**Author:** ![FlyingRamenMonster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@FlyingRamenMonster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FlyingRamenMonster)\
**Post date:** [November 7, 2008, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/44 "2008-11-07T16:34:22Z")

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> [@Marconi\_Schmeese](#):
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> I pull out my hair and eat the root end. It’s called trichtillomania. My parents still give me crap about it. My husband still holds my hands still sometimes. I’m 33.

I totally do this. I pick at my skin too, though I’ve managed to cut back since that’s more obvious and makes people ask me why I have tiny scabs on my arms.

I pace a lot. I don’t get how people can just stand in one place while nothing is happening. Sometimes I get up and walk around in the middle of meals because man, I’m just sitting here and eating. That’s boring! This is another thing I try not to do around other people because they ask me where I’m going and don’t seem to understand “I’m just walking”.

I talk to myself, as in I make up entire conversations with people. For instance, if I have to write a paper or something I will walk around and try to explain my main concepts to a pretend person. Or I talk in Russian to a pretend Russian because hell, I get no practice otherwise. I don’t talk out loud but I do move my lips, so there’s another thing I can’t do in public. I slip up sometimes though. I wonder how many times I’ve been the crazy lady :smack:

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**Author:** ![GypsyBitch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b9bd4f/32.png) [@GypsyBitch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GypsyBitch)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 6:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/45 "2008-11-09T06:43:01Z")

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I move a lot. I have this personal goal to live in as many cool places in the U.S. as possible. My family thinks that I am ‘lost’ or ‘running away from something’. I am neither…there is nothing like the adventure of a road trip with my trusty side kick, MiAmor (my dog) to discover a new place. Love it! Pure freedom…

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**Author:** ![GypsyBitch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b9bd4f/32.png) [@GypsyBitch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GypsyBitch)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 6:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/46 "2008-11-09T06:47:09Z")

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> [@Snowboarder\_Bo](#):
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> The work that I do is fairly niche market, and I am well paid. I would estimate that there are only about 100-200 people in the country who do what I do, at the same level.
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> When I work, I often work 8a-12mid 7 days a week, sometimes for more than 4 weeks at a time.
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> By concentrating my work hours and charging a decent amount for my services, I am thus able to take lots of time off to do what I want.
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> It is not an easy life, and it certainly isn’t for everyone, but I am very happy with it. 😃

Hey…sounds like we have the same strategy…and possibly, the same job 🆒

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**Author:** ![foolsguinea](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/foolsguinea/32/14751_2.png) [@foolsguinea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/foolsguinea)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 7:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/47 "2008-11-09T07:13:06Z")

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> [@RoOsh](#):
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> I think in words.

I largely think in words though not as utterly as you. I do hear in my mind many words that I read & all that I write; & see (in type) in my mind many words that I hear & all that I say. But I don’t tell people this, so no idea what they’d think.

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What do I do that people don’t understand? …I read the SDMB.

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**Author:** ![foolsguinea](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/foolsguinea/32/14751_2.png) [@foolsguinea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/foolsguinea)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 7:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/48 "2008-11-09T07:18:11Z")

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> [@FlyingRamenMonster](#):
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> I don’t talk out loud but I do move my lips, so there’s another thing I can’t do in public. I slip up sometimes though. I wonder how many times I’ve been the crazy lady :smack:

Oh, I envy you. I shout at the walls, I talk in almost my conversational volume while walking by myself, I mutter quietly in tone without phoneme if trying to hold it in, & it can be bursting to get out. It’s painful.

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**Author:** ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/49 "2008-11-09T19:26:03Z")

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> [@Hogwash](#):
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> So what _do_ you do?

> [@GypsyBitch](#):
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> Hey…sounds like we have the same strategy…and possibly, the same job

I am a theatrical Production Electrician. In a nutshell: I plan and supervise the installation of lighting rigs for theatrical events, television, film, corporate events, trade shows, etc. Sometimes I am also the programmer.

It’s not a job or a life for everyone, **jtsPimp** , but I can’t really imagine living any other way.

hmmmm I see some trouble here. Gonna have to add **Hostile Dialect** to my list. \<sigh\> work work work… 😃

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**Author:** ![RedRosesForMe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/91b2a8/32.png) [@RedRosesForMe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RedRosesForMe)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/50 "2008-11-09T19:38:04Z")

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I fold small bits of refuse into neat squares. For instance, straw wrappers or empty sugar packets, candy wrappers and the like. It’s a trait I picked up from my dad.

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**Author:** ![Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c77e96/32.png) [@Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Speaker_for_the_Dead)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/51 "2008-11-09T20:42:00Z")

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I wave my arms around in front of me when I’m excited. If it’s a confined space, I wiggle my fingers together. It’s just a good way for me to channel nervous energy.

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**Author:** ![Bongmaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Bongmaster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bongmaster)\
**Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/52 "2008-11-13T20:42:43Z")

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> [@Marconi\_Schmeese](#):
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> I pull out my hair and eat the root end. It’s called trichtillomania. My parents still give me crap about it. My husband still holds my hands still sometimes. I’m 33.

I am SO glad to hear I’m not the only one doing things like this. For me its my fingernails/cuticles, they look like they’ve been through a shredder.

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**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 4:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/53 "2008-11-14T04:39:53Z")

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**I Ching**

Nobody knows what the hell I’m doing when I throw three coins six times and write down a sequence of numbers. I’m not one of those “ask one question in a reverential manner and meditate on the answer” either. I tend to ask follow-up and clarifying questions.

Of course, now that I’m training to do support for a company that has a lot of **i** (product name) stuff, I joke that I’m working on their next product, the iChing. 😛

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**Author:** ![janis\_and\_c0](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/janis_and_c0/32/21_2.png) [@janis\_and\_c0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/janis_and_c0)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/54 "2008-11-14T06:06:22Z")

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I chew paper, I’m not sure why, and I don’t do it as much as I used to, but I’m the only person I know who does this.

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**Author:** ![control-z](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/eada6e/32.png) [@control-z](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/control-z)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/things-you-do-that-nobody-else-understands/471321/55 "2008-11-14T20:14:16Z")

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Neat freak is about all I’ve got. Can’t stand crumbs on the floor or counters.

Also obsessive with my car, no eating, limited drinking if you’ve proven you’re not a spiller. Nothing stays in my car except the essentials; cell phone, garage door opener, MP3 player, sunglasses. Any junk I’m carting around has to come out of the car when I get home. I do have a pickup truck that I’m not as picky about. At least the interior anyway.

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