You’re already into the process then, but I’d still recommend THe Complete Idiot’s Guide to Buying a Home. This was useful when I bought my first house.
Other off-the-cuff advice:
-KNOW what your monthly payment will be before you make a commitment. The lender is required to give you a good-faith estimate that lists all the items you’re required to pay and specifies your monthly payment - but they give you this only after you’ve already chosen a loan size and payback period. Ideally you’ll get fluent with the equations for the time-value of money so you can calculate what your principal/interest payments will be using Excel for a given loan size, interest rate, and payback period. Find out what property taxes will be after you buy; they form a major part of your monthly payment. “Will be” is important, because the assessed value will reset at purchase time, and your property taxes will probably not be the same as what the current owner’s is. If you can’t find out the local millage, assume maybe $6000 per year for a $300K house. Likewise with insurance: it’s probably going to be about $1200 per year, but you can call your insurance agency and ask for an estimate/quote. If there’s a neighborhood association, find out the annual/monthly dues; some are minor (mine is $300 per year), but some are much more (I’ve seen $300/month elsewhere).
-The home inspection will turn up some issues. Guaranteed, because every home has some issues, even brand new ones. The trick is to choose a home with a set of issues you can deal with. Some issues are easy to fix/live with, others are not. Example, if there’s high radon levels in the basement, you can typically get that fixed for under $1000; if there’s a water intrusion problem, that could cost a lot more to fix. Don’t let minor troubles scare you away from your dream home. Your offer will be contingent upon an acceptable inspection report, which means you can usually negotiate with the seller for some concessions, e.g. splitting the cost of a radon mitigation system (or if it’s a buyer’s market, making the seller pay the entire cost).
-After you move in, I recommend changing all the exterior locks; you have absolutely no idea who has keys to the old locks.
-I second/third the recommendation for a trial commute. Arrive at the candidate property at the time you would leave for your job in the morning, and see how the drive in goes. Drive back there after work. Congestion due to accidents on that particular day should be discounted, but if there’s a lot of random stop-and-go nonsense, beware.
-Is there a neighborhood/homeowner’s association? If so, include a contingency in your offer that allows you to back out if you find that the rulebook is unacceptable, or if you find that the association’s finances are being poorly managed. Once your offer is accepted, request from the seller a copy of the association rules and this year’s association budget, and scrutinize them. Some associations have really officious rules (e.g. interior window treatments visible from outside must conform to certain style/color requirements), and some associations mismanage their finances, which may require a sudden/surprising jump in annual dues at a later date to restore solvency. Example, my own neighborhood owns its street, which means we are responsible for periodic repaving, which runs about $50,000, and for which we’ve all been chipping in to build up the pile of cash in anticipation. If your association has any major irregular financial requirements like that, find out what they are and make sure they’re being considered in the budget/dues.
That’s all for now.