# This video makes me feel bad and it's all your fault. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [December 2, 2011, 12:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827 "2011-12-02T12:37:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 12:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/1 "2011-12-02T12:37:13Z")
[http://www.itsnotyouitsthem.com/](http://www.itsnotyouitsthem.com/) Expect to hear from my lawyers, Chicago Reader and your moms. Where’s my free stuff? ---
**Author:** ![Soylent\_Juicy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/82dd89/32.png) [@Soylent\_Juicy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Soylent_Juicy)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/2 "2011-12-02T16:37:50Z")
Would you please be kind enough to summarize it? The Powers That Be have that site blocked at my work for some reason. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/3 "2011-12-02T16:46:12Z")
It’s a couple of guys talking about how the Personal Responsibility Movement has gone too far, and how the universe will balance out if we put the blame for our lives back on others. Put the I back in Victim! I blame the Powers That Be at your workplace. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/4 "2011-12-02T18:20:05Z")
I blame you, **tdn**. Thanks for NOTHING! (I assume that was a satirical video.) ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/5 "2011-12-02T18:26:13Z")
> [@Soylent\_Juicy](#): > > Would you please be kind enough to summarize it? The Powers That Be have that site blocked at my work for some reason. If it’s a picture or a video or a game I can be guaranteed I’m blocked at work. Me: Oooh that looks interesting. \ **Content blocked by your organization.** Reason: This Websense category is filtered: Illegal or Questionable. Which was the specific reason this time. Yeah, thanks for leading me there. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/6 "2011-12-02T18:38:19Z")
Hey, don’t blame me. As I learned from that site, it’s never my fault. ---
**Author:** ![Satchmo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/satchmo/32/4223_2.png) [@Satchmo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satchmo)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/7 "2011-12-02T19:54:46Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > I blame you, **tdn**. Thanks for NOTHING! > > (I assume that was a satirical video.) I certainly hope so! ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/8 "2011-12-02T20:14:11Z")
Too subtle? ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/9 "2011-12-02T20:38:43Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Too subtle? Too close to the reality of too many people. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/10 "2011-12-02T20:44:52Z")
True enough. ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/11 "2011-12-02T20:52:30Z")
Yip, it’s my fault. I’m sorry, **tdn**. I promise I’ll make it up to you. I’ve already moved on to taking responsibility for things that aren’t my fault.But then I won’t actually do anything I said ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2011, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/12 "2011-12-02T20:57:15Z")
The bottom line, though, is… where’s my free stuff? ---
**Author:** ![Nametag](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nametag/32/406_2.png) [@Nametag](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nametag)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2011, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/13 "2011-12-04T02:58:09Z")
> [@BigT](#): > > Yip, it’s my fault. I’m sorry, **tdn**. I promise I’ll make it up to you. > > I’ve already moved on to taking responsibility for things that aren’t my fault.But then I won’t actually do anything I said So…passive assertiveness, then? ---
**Author:** ![Lust4Life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecc23a/32.png) [@Lust4Life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lust4Life)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2011, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/this-video-makes-me-feel-bad-and-its-all-your-fault/604827/14 "2011-12-06T20:47:46Z")
Thanks a bunch **TDN** , now I realise that I’ve been victimised all of my life, and have taken the blame for things that others are resonsible for. I WAS feeling happy but now thats gone. And I blame YOU !.