Oddly enough, I’ve been rewatching our Buffy DVD’s over the past few weeks, partly to see if the show was as good as I remember it being.
It is… and it isn’t.
Season 1 is OK. They’re trying to get the show established, introduce the characters, give them personalities. A lot of good one liners (mostly from Cordelia - “Oh, Willow, so you’ve seen the softer side of Sears.” “I must call everybody I’ve ever known right now!”) But it isn’t close to being the best that Buffy was capable of being.
Season 2 and 3 are better. Some really strong episodes, Oz is introduced, the characters are stronger. Some idiocies are resolved (really, did they have to keep Buffy’s mom as clueless as to Buffy’s activities as long as they did? That was very unbelievable - I guess Joyce just slept like the dead and didn’t bother to check to see if her wayward daughter was sneaking out at night), but the big weakness of the two seasons is Angel and his entire arc. Boreanez just sucked energy from the screen whenever he appeared as Angel, and his Angelus, while better, wasn’t really believable as the end-all, be-all of EVIL. The Mayor was my favorite big bad back when the show was running, but now he seems rather forced.
Season 4 is where it starts being truly strong. A lot of great episodes, everybody is in the full swing of their characters, Anya becomes a regular (she’s probably my favorite character), a lot of Oz, the kids are out of high school. Adam was probably the weakest of the big bads, an opinion that I held back when the show was running, and still hold. S4 had a lot of Harmony as well, who was always good for comic relief:
“So, Slayer, at last we meet.”
“We’ve met, Harmony, you half-wit.”
Season 5 is probably (so far) my favorite. Glory was a lot of fun, and on the re-watch, Dawn wasn’t as irritating as she was in the first go around - I found myself sympathizing with the poor girl quite a bit. She’s had a sucky life - born as a 15 year-old, within weeks finds out she’s not human, a few weeks after that she loses her mother, then a few weeks after that she loses her sister. What a suck-ass year that would be for anybody! Glory’s minions were great.
I’ve just started season 6 which was(is) my favorite season so far. Didn’t care for S7 on the first viewing, but if this thread is still going in a week or three I’ll throw in my opinion.
Anyway, to conclude this meandering post, imho you cannot “get” Buffy by watching the first season and half of season 2. It takes some time for the more mature themes to evolve, but I will admit that telling somebody “You need to watch the first 30-odd hours before it gets really good” might not go over too well. 