# Thoughts, please. Send 'em.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 12, 2020, 4:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513 "2020-06-12T04:32:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2020, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/41 "2020-06-13T15:08:26Z")

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Thanks for being brave and reaching out to us. I will happily do whatever I can to ease your burden, and hopefully you will soon be in the space where you can find yourself some relief.

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**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2020, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/42 "2020-06-13T15:21:27Z")

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It’s going to be okay.  
It’ll rarely, rarely ever get as bad as you inwardly fear.  
You’ll find a way to take the steps you’ll need to take to improve your situation, even if it doesn’t feel like it’s possible right now.  
It’s going to be okay.

I’ve been through the ringer once or twice; believe me.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2020, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/43 "2020-06-13T15:27:16Z")

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Thoughts from myself and from “my” convent of Clares who have all y’all in their prayers.

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**Author:** ![Heracles](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/heracles/32/487_2.png) [@Heracles](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heracles)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2020, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/44 "2020-06-14T00:00:47Z")

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I hope things get better for you. If it’s any help, I find that taking a walk helps to clear my mind and recenter my emotions.

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**Author:** ![Ace309](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ace309/32/1050_2.png) [@Ace309](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ace309)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2020, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/45 "2020-06-14T01:24:53Z")

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Be well

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**Author:** ![Turki-lurki](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/turki-lurki/32/7168_2.png) [@Turki-lurki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turki-lurki)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2020, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/46 "2020-06-14T04:25:56Z")

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This too shall pass.

Hang in there buddy.

By the way- I’m also 6’8”. Unusual for a turkey…

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2020, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/47 "2020-06-14T05:51:41Z")

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Sending good thoughts your way.

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**Author:** ![nearwildheaven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90db22/32.png) [@nearwildheaven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nearwildheaven)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/48 "2020-06-17T02:56:22Z")

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How are you doing now?

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**Author:** ![si\_blakely](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d9b06d/32.png) [@si\_blakely](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/si_blakely)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/49 "2020-06-17T04:49:59Z")

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A proverb that has been in common use here, in these trying times:

_Kia kaha, Kia māia, Kia manawanui_

Be strong, be brave, be steadfast.

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**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 5:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/50 "2020-06-17T05:38:35Z")

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{{{{{hugs}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 12:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/51 "2020-06-17T12:07:20Z")

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> [@nearwildheaven](#):
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> How are you doing now?

I was wondering also. If you felt something at about 3:30 a.m. Eastern time, that was me.

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**Author:** ![Cheesesteak](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cheesesteak/32/3694_2.png) [@Cheesesteak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheesesteak)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/52 "2020-06-17T16:39:06Z")

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Best of luck to you, hope things start to look brighter.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/53 "2020-06-17T18:28:16Z")

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Yes. Sicks Ate, hope you’re OK.

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/54 "2020-06-17T18:37:29Z")

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May whatever you need to happen, happen.

I hope you feel better, and soon.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2020, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/55 "2020-06-17T22:21:43Z")

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**Sicks Ate** : Please let us know how you’re doing. We’re worried.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2020, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/56 "2020-06-18T03:23:11Z")

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Yes. You don’t need to give details; just pop in and say hi.

Or low, as the case may be, and if you want to.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2020, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/57 "2020-06-18T10:51:35Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> **Sicks Ate** : Please let us know how you’re doing. We’re worried.

This.

I know that when you’re depressed, responding with even a word or two can feel like a boulder. But we’re thinking of you.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2020, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/58 "2020-06-22T15:30:50Z")

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@ Sicks Ate – did you come over to the new boards?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2020, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/59 "2020-06-23T22:20:29Z")

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Worried about you, Sicks\_Ate

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**Author:** ![Sicks\_Ate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@Sicks\_Ate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sicks_Ate)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2020, 12:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/thoughts-please-send-em/855513/60 "2020-07-01T00:16:35Z")

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I don’t even know what to say; I’ve started this reply in my head 42 times, and then typed and abandoned another 13.

Just thank you all so much. I didn’t expect this…honestly, when I posted I didn’t expect anything, I was just casting about for something to grab on to. Annnd then I didn’t even follow up. Which I’ll admit was kinda crappy.

RTFirefly got it right. I didn’t even log in after that post. I wish I had at least given you guys a heads-up, seeing this. I appreciate all of your comments so much, I can’t take the time to reply to you all individually just right now, but please, please know that everything is so appreciated. I didn’t know what to expect when I logged back in this evening, but I certainly did not expect to see what I discovered. Typical…caring and witty and funny posts, all the reasons we love this place.

I am fine. I didn’t check on the user name of the person who dropped in to FB to check on me, but particular thanks to that person and anyone who messaged me here.

I can’t say anything more than to thank you all again.

Oh… **Isamu** , I’m dropping in your DMs 🤣

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