Tipping at coffee houses

Ditto. Unless I was a regular customer. I’d imagine it would be a nice way to develope a nice relationship with your barista.

My wife orders incredibly complicated coffee drinks, goes to the same place every time, and she never fails to tip. She even gets mad at me for not tipping when the drinks I order are straight off the menu with nothing extra. Becasue she tips, she is also eager to be point it out if her drink isn’t how she likes it.

I think we have it about right. If you are very particular about your drink, and will bitch up a storm if it’s wrong, be sure to be a nice tipper. If you politely stick to the menu, and take what you get, don’t worry about the tip.

Right now, I’m more confused about tipping the curbside service at Outback.

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That would make my year.

More like two minutes, and if I were on call making mochas for you for an hour straight you’d better believe you’re paying me $60.

BTW, I don’t know what this $2-3/hour stuff is, but I generally make under $1.50 a day in tips.

What, the jar shape offends you? Any substitute would just be a tip jar by another name, and you’d probably call for a new solution. Get over it.

Ah, yes. Milk allergies. Hence why they’re ordering drinks with milk in them. Good thinking.

I couldn’t see myself intentionally serving a substandard product, either. Then again, I’m just not that passive-aggressive. Of course, I can see the appeal if someone comes in every day and orders complicated drinks for the entire office without tipping. We do have a regular who buys for the office and doesn’t tip, but she makes conversation with us (a big help at a place without much business) and the drinks are simple.

We do little things like that for regulars who tip well, or just random people if we’re having a good day and the boss isn’t looking. Our manager just approved a regular customer appreciation program, too, where we give coupons and free bagged candies and such to regulars.

Fair enough. If I made a bad drink, I’d rather hear about it whether or not you tipped–but it sounds like you’re voluntarily giving up part of the standard service agreement in exchange for not tipping, which is more than fair IMO.

I’ve lived off tips before, so I always give tips - I don’t go out unless I know I can afford it, and I don’t order in unless I know I can afford it. I know that most McDonalds-style fast food restaurants don’t allow their employees to accept tips, but if I’m at a coffee house, a restaurant, or really any place that allows tips, I tip. I know that the tips brighten people’s days at a horrible job and I feel that if I can do that much, it’s money well spent.

However, I tend to not tip at all if I get horrible service. Not “we-can’t-pay-tons-of-attention to every customer because we’re in the middle of a rush” service - I understand that kind of service. Bad service, where the waitress/barista is snarky and mean, or totally screws up my order and refuses to fix it. Doesn’t happen often, but it has. Those people don’t deserve a tip - they’re not mandatory for a reason.

~Tasha

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You see, there’s this little thing called soy milk. Perhaps you should look it up.

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BTW, I don’t know what this $2-3/hour stuff is, but I generally make under $1.50 a day in tips./QUOTE]

$1.50 a day? Yipes. How many people are on your shift? How many customers come through your doors? Where I worked, a typical “keep the change” tip was a quarter or so, and a “good job!” tip was a buck or even two. (I’ve been tipped as much as five dollars on a normal non-holiday shift for a good espresso). We had two or three baristas working, it’s impossible for me to conceive $1.50 in tips for a whole shift, unless only two or three people tipped the entire shift. Apparently, either your coffee shop isn’t getting a lot of business or, I’m guessing, tipping culture isn’t extended to cafes where you live.

Better believe this? I don’t think so. Who do you think you are kidding, you are already on call for more then a hour straight making assumingly much less then $60/hr, or even $30/hour.

I would be much more likely to tip for takeout then a counter worker, now the question is how much, as the standard percentage just doesn’t apply in terms of the service you get, but it usually takes a tipped worker away from their normal eat-in ‘full tipping’ customers, and that time is worth something, even though that time is a fraction of the eat-in customers.

I make a small handful of drinks per hour. Even if we were slammed with an unending line for an hour, we would rotate so that I’d spend some of that time at the cash register or washing dishes in the back. And a significant percentage of those people would just buy plain coffee or a slice of cake or something.

I’m familiar with the concept. My question is this: where did your example of substituting cow milk for soy milk come from? You were the first one to bring it up.

Usually 2, sometimes three, rarely four if the boss is around getting his hands dirty and/or we’re training someone. But the ones who are training don’t get tips unless a customer specifically asks for them to keep a tip–which doesn’t really happen since they don’t interface with very many customers.

I’ve only ever been told to keep the change on a small cup of black coffee or something similar, where the customer was in a hurry.

Every once in a while someone drops a buck in the tip jar.

Both. Most people I know don’t tip anyone, ever. I always tip (even with awful service, although in that case it’s a 7-cent tip or something of that nature) if I can afford to. Speaking of which, I work in a relatively low-income area; a lot of our customers are students or lower- to lower-middle class families.

Some days during the Christmas rush I pull just under $3 in tips on the day. That’s happened twice IIRC. Yesterday, though, I didn’t make any tips on a 6-hour closing shift.

It was just something I pulled out of my ass as an example of what someone MIGHT do to mess with someone’s drink. I believe actually that was one of the examples VCO3 mentioned in his original Pit thread.

Yep, I was right:

I don’t tip at coffeeshops, but I always order plain, black coffee, or iced coffee. These always come out of carafes in the back of the prep. area, so I don’t feel particularly guilty. If it were like the gas station where I could push the button and hold the cup myself, I would. Not that I don’t like the people that serve coffee, just that I don’t think that my cup of coffee is very hard to make. I’m also not a ‘regular’ anywhere and rarely buy more than 10 cups of coffee at coffeehouses a year.

Guinastasia, while VCO3’s quoted behavior is beyond reproach, I don’t see the connection to this thread.

Just for the record, the “revenges” in that thread were a joke, which I admitted to and which is why I was suspended for a month. The worst I’ve ever done is decaf a customer who was a real asshole.

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I was responding to this:

Now, can we PLEASE just drop the whole thing? Jesus.

Amen. I know I’m not an espresso master, because I’ve only been doing it about a month, but I try hard to make a good cup of coffee, no matter whether I’m tipped or not. But a regular or a really nice customer will get comped for some of those little extra charges, like for soy milk or extra syrup or whatever it is. Not everyone’s going to tip, and that’s just the way it is, but it seems to me that if you’re friendly and do a good job, you’re more likely to get tips from the fence-sitters.

I’ll also agree with fetus that if you don’t like your drink, you should tell me. Otherwise, I’ll never learn to make it to your tastes. And things like that are important for establishing a good base of happy customers who will come back, who’ll tell their friends to visit me, all of that. Even if none of you tip, at least I’ll still have a job.

I tip about $1 or the change I have because I am a regular at my coffee house and my drink request is not standard in making it. I actually ask for less expresso in my drink and so it should be cheaper. But it is more to remember. If someone puts too much expresso in my drink I let them know they made it wrong and they remake it. Around here, I’ve heard of some really complicated drink requests so I don’t feel that bad because mine is fairly easy.